What high emotional intelligence do people need to see through in their life?

1, give a cigarette to the community security every day.

2. Say hello to your neighbors before you go out every time.

At the party, the last one left.

4. When attending a banquet, don't be the first and last to arrive, it will become very embarrassing. The best way is to watch from a distance, and when someone arrives, go in together.

5, gifts are never out of date, the best way to give gifts is to "just" go back to your hometown and bring some local products by the way. Others will accept it, and the most important thing is that there is not much money.

6. It is possible for some married people to struggle for a few years or even 20 years less. Some people will choose this way in exchange for more time and life opportunities.

7, don't buy a car before marriage, need gas money and various maintenance but can't save money; If you don't buy a house after marriage, the quality of life will plummet.

8. Give others a little kindness from time to time, which will be smoother and won't cost a few dollars. A bottle of two yuan's drink will be fine.

9. If you don't have children after the age of 40, you will be really tired. Don't buy a house after 50, because there is not much time left in life, so cherish it.

10, sweet talk, no one will refuse such sweet talk, others will cooperate and won't embarrass you. The point is that I didn't do anything, just a few words.

1 1, don't always be a good person, it's a matter of course after a long time, and it's not enough not to do it. Actually, I've been hesitating to do it.

12, many people often change themselves because of a temporary idea, that is, the impression of others can not be fixed, or they will suffer.

13, promotion and salary increase are all put forward by yourself, instead of waiting for the leader to give it on his own initiative. If you can't lose this face, it will become an effort that is not worth paying.

14, it's only a second to say hello to others, but people are very popular. Others will also have a good impression and the working environment will be more harmonious.

15, don't worry about spending in advance, time will make you regret it, and once it is opened, it is really difficult to control yourself.

16, in fact, everyone's salary is not enough, but they will still take out a little to treat people, in order to have better opportunities and platforms in the future. This is one of the most meaningful uses of money.

17, make your decision. Since you are an adult, you should have the courage to try. Maybe have a chance to get ahead. Starting over is a big deal. After all, I am still young.

18, try to choose a few colleagues as friends, because there will be some noble people among colleagues, after all, most of them know colleagues outside.

19, quarreling is the most uneconomical thing. If you win, it will affect your relationship. If you lose, you will be unhappy. Even if it is reconciled later, it will not return to its original appearance.

20, low-key and bow is the highest emotional intelligence in the world, always low-key, but also know how to bow in time.

2 1, communicate with successful people more, they all have some successful experiences behind them, and they are invisible, which can be described as very valuable experiences.

22. Don't enter different circles, you are not the same person at all. When you have enough ability, you will naturally go in, or the kind of invitation.

23, before you have a certain amount of savings, you still have to learn to control your desires. It takes a long time to have the confidence and confidence brought by savings.

24. Every time you travel, you will truly understand life. In fact, if you don't spend much money, you can go out and see the world more, and sometimes it will bring some opportunities to change yourself and your life.

25. When you go out to eat with others, don't be the first to finish eating. It's embarrassing not to pay the bill, and you feel cheated. Sitting will make people feel embarrassed. After all, others are still eating.

26. Get into the habit of always rewarding yourself with small things. Spending a little money can increase happiness, and all the efforts are worthwhile.

27, a person's personality determines the struggle or stability, introverted, or stability, not suitable for the complexity outside; If you are extroverted, you should strive for a better life.

28. Every once in a while, buy a suit of several thousand dollars. After all, it is an unchangeable truth that people depend on clothes, and only by knowing how to package themselves can they win more opportunities and cooperation.

29. When you have enough ability, you must go out to make a living, and there may be more wages and opportunities. If you don't do it, you can only get a little salary.

Don't offend anyone, or you will always be on guard the next day. It will be really tiring and a waste of time.

3 1, no one tells us how to speak and how to say good things, but we must keep our mouths shut. If we can't say it, don't say it. It's easy to commit crimes.

32. In the workplace, you will only say eight points when you say it, and you will only do eight points when you do it. In fact, you can only do six points, and the remaining four points are given to others.

As an adult, everyone can only make one result, not to mention the process. Some people are not interested.

Anything is ok, but don't eat casually. After all, health is the most important thing to eat.

35, people's first feeling is often very accurate, and I will tell you the right feeling later. Trust your first feeling.

36. Everyone can pretend, but you will know what it really looks like by looking at his friends. After all, birds of a feather flock together.

37. Marriage depends not only on the object, but also on the future in-laws. Only after marriage can we be happy.

38. Honesty is really important. Some people may not care, but some people attach great importance to it. Even if they break their promise once, they will lose the opportunity to cooperate.

39. Having the courage to tell your age is also a kind of maturity. Face time calmly.

40. Borrowing money is always inevitable, but you should know how to lend money to people who are helpful to you. After you owe a favor, you will have more opportunities and contacts

4 1, when you encounter something you don't understand, calm down for 3 seconds first, then put yourself in the other's shoes, and many things will be figured out.

42. Even friends and relatives should have a trace of doubt, otherwise it is easy to accidentally capsize.

43, not with the opposite sex for a long time, it is easy to be ignorant and suffer.

44, reciprocity is the same truth, others don't have so much peace of mind, and they are not at ease when they accept it.

At least keeping clothes clean and tidy is the best etiquette, which brings confidence and leaves a good impression on others.

46. If no one invites you, try to be AA when eating together. No one will suffer, nor will they be dissatisfied, and it is not easy to make money.

47, the first thing to go to a new company, try to remember other people's names. Calling out other people's names at the first time will make people feel good and friendly, and their work will be smoother.

48. Don't make a decision late at night.

49. An elder is willing to help you with your baby.

50. The car is parked outside, and there are no coins and bread in the car.

Just one move, see through the key points and grasp the core. Being filial to your parents at home, following the teacher at school and following the leader in the workplace will help you all your life.

First, when you go to college as a student:

1, go to the podium to help the teacher clean the blackboard every day when the bell rings.

2. When the teacher asks questions in class, no one raises his hand, even if it is a wrong answer.

3. After class, the teacher should stand up and ask questions, repeat the key points of the teacher's lecture and ask if you understand correctly.

4. Every winter and summer vacation, bring a small specialty from my hometown or a souvenir from my own tourist destination to my teacher.

Ask the teacher who often guides you every day and say that your progress comes from his concern.

Second, when you are a child at home.

1, parents complain, don't go, listen patiently, respond, and refill the teacup.

When your parents take you to a party with friends and put dessert in your mouth, your uncles, aunts, brothers and sisters shout more, listen more, talk less and smile more.

Don't knock over the plates on the dining table. When there are fish, China people are polite and auspicious. If you want to transfer the fish head to the old man on the dining table, please move the chopsticks first.

4. Parents and elders impart experiences and insights and listen carefully. This is the essence of their life-long accumulated knowledge, and they take notes with an open mind.

5, parents and elders are sick, be caring and attentive, bring some small gifts, take care of them and have a look.

Third, be an employee in the unit.

1, arrive early, help colleagues in the office or workplace, and tidy up the work plan for the day.

2. The leader arrived at the unit, reported yesterday's work and today's plan, and asked if there were any questions.

3, with strength into the leadership work, with sincerity into the leadership life, into life, have a better job.

4. Ask for instructions, report more, and carefully analyze and understand the meaning of leaders.

5. Get in touch with the leaders' cronies, get along well and laugh more.

1. During the warranty period, the maintenance personnel will come to repair the appliance and buy a bottle of water!

When you need your brother's help, you should also ask his wife politely!

3. When you borrow something, even if you know that the other person doesn't need it for the time being, ask him if he needs it.

4. If someone else helps you with something, even if you know that the price of something is 20 yuan, you should pay 100 yuan!

When the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, you should also say that your daughter-in-law is good outside!

6. Don't mention family affairs in front of colleagues!

7. Don't speak ill of others behind their backs!

8. Guests at home, even if they are in a bad mood, don't bring emotions to their faces!

9, don't participate in the things of the husband's family (mother's family)!

10, regardless of salary, looks ordinary to the outside world!

1 1. When your friend is in a bad mood, share your happiness!

12, when chatting awkwardly, you just make fun of yourself!

13, whenever, I will remember my girlfriend's (wife's) birthday!

14, don't complain about your in-laws in front of their children!

15, don't show off your contacts and social circles in front of your friends!

16, when chatting with people, talk more about him. People are narcissistic!

17, daughter-in-law goes back to her mother's house, and she will be happy with money and no money! More conducive to your relationship!

18, don't laugh when you see others' embarrassment!

19, go home on vacation and bring some special products to colleagues!

20, colleagues wear new clothes, no matter what the relationship, we must give praise!

22. It takes five minutes to chat with anyone!

23. Don't argue with anyone!

24. When you get off work, the leader should go first and then go!

25. Don't talk about other people's taboos or shortcomings.

26. Don't say anything nice about other women when chatting with your wife!

27. You can talk and laugh with people you don't like.

28. Don't pry into other people's private affairs.

29, after others help, be sure to invite others to eat a meal!

30, and clean aunt can also chat with respect!

1: When attending the funeral, be sure not to get involved with others casually.

2. When girls pick up things on the ground, don't pout and pick them up, but squat down and pick them up.

3: Don't call others when eating.

4. Chat with people who are richer than yourself, and never say that you are poor; When chatting with people poorer than yourself, never say that you are rich.

5: Father-in-law should never get too close to his daughter-in-law, and must not hurt each other and play jokes on each other; Daughter-in-law should never tell her mother-in-law about her husband's fault.

6. Try not to buy things from acquaintances.

7. In the wine shop, you must not persuade others to drink, let alone force others to drink. When toasting others, your glass must be lower than others'.

8. Son-in-law should not giggle at her mother-in-law, and should not joke with her mother-in-law.

9: When someone invites you to dinner, never bring friends.

10: When visiting relatives, friends, classmates and familiar people, don't arrive early, but arrive a little late.

1 1: Don't add the WeChat of your best friend's husband or your friend's wife.

12: attend the wedding, and don't say anything wrong.

13: Don't always complain about others, who used you? To tell the truth, people only use you to prove that you are still useful.

14: If someone gives you a gift, you don't like it, just accept it. Just find a chance to return it later.

15: There is only 1 cigarette in the cigarette case. Never take it out and smoke it in front of others.

16: You can't pour tea for others.

17: When someone invites you to dinner, be sure to bring a gift.

18: Everything that can be solved with money is solved with money, and you must not owe others a favor.

19: When chatting with others, don't talk about topics that interest you, but talk about topics that interest others. There's nothing to talk about, just talk about food.

20: invite people to dinner, you can find an excuse, such as "I'll go to the bathroom and make a phone call", and then pay the bill in advance.

2 1: If you owe money to others, you should pay it back with interest in advance, and you should also buy some gifts to thank others when you pay it back.

The attitude towards family members is cold and bad, and they are quite enthusiastic about the so-called friends outside-such people have the lowest emotional intelligence.

On the contrary, being kind to family talents is the embodiment of emotional intelligence. People who are kind to their families and have a sense of responsibility can basically eat "an epiphany" anywhere.

Be filial to your parents and spend more time with your children. Don't wait until your children are older and don't need you.

Life is short. Live in the moment, cherish life and cherish the people around you.

1, if you can't change jobs, then don't ask your colleagues' salary, or it will be very painful!

2. Drive home for the New Year, take the initiative to pay the gas fee, and don't wait for the fellow villagers to ask you for it.

Remember to bring special products to the department leaders when you go home for the New Year. The department leaders think that you will be a man.

4. When working, talk less and do more. If you don't sing, it will be a blockbuster.

Don't help your colleague solve his mistake. If you do well, there will be no merit. If you don't do it well, it will be implicated.

6. Don't ask the leader for a raise. If he doesn't want to give you a raise, no matter how much you ask, he will refuse.

7, departmental dinner, don't eat and drink in the sea. Everything you say and do at the dinner table will affect your image in the eyes of the leaders.

8. Don't speak ill of others in front of the leader. It is difficult for a person who speaks ill of others behind their backs to integrate into the group.

9. Don't be reluctant to spend money. Inviting colleagues to dinner is a kind of wisdom. In human society, the dining table can enhance emotions most.

10 Even if you have finished your work, don't play with your mobile phone in front of the leader. No matter how good a leader is, he will be disgusted when he sees employees playing mobile phones.

1 1, people with high emotional intelligence will not fall in love in the company, let alone in the department. Work and love mixed together, doomed to nothing.

12, if you really love each other, don't care about face. If the woman can offer a car, a house and a good job opportunity, what reason do you have to refuse?

13, last name is just a code name. If the wife wants the second child to take her surname, then promise her. Children are the crystallization of love, not a commodity in marriage.

14, don't quarrel with your wife. Everything she said is right. If you really can't stand it, find a place to be quiet.

15, call your parents-in-law to say hello on holidays. A phone call only takes a few minutes, but it can make your family more harmonious.

16, when you see the elder of the woman's family, you must take the initiative to say hello. When the elders are satisfied, marriage becomes.

17, even if you don't smoke, take a pack of cigarettes with you. Smoking is the most economical way in the world.

18, don't brag about your alcohol consumption in front of your elders. You can drink two glasses of wine, but only one.

19, don't fight with your elders. It is disgraceful to win, and shameful to lose.

20. When you meet your future father-in-law for the first time, you must talk less and do more. If your mother-in-law is cooking, you should take the initiative to wash the vegetables.

2 1, if your in-laws ask about your salary, which is 8,000 yuan a month, you can say 10000, so that they can trust you with their daughter. The gap of 2000 yuan can't change the quality of life, but it can reassure parents-in-law.

22. When relatives ask you about your salary, you can earn 220,000 or 30,000 if you say less, but you have to say 6,000,7000. If you can earn more than100000, you should say that your monthly income is over 10000. When your salary doesn't exceed your relatives' expectations, they won't slander you.

If a friend or relative asks you for money, you must stick to this principle.

24. I would rather give money to others in 300 yuan than lend my car to others.

25. It is not good to be too thin. Knowing how to reject others is also a sign of high emotional intelligence.

No matter how dissatisfied you are, don't lose your temper in public. The occasion is very important, and people with high emotional intelligence know how to choose the occasion.

27. Don't point out the shortcomings of others face to face. It takes wisdom to understand with reason and move with emotion.

Don't argue with stubborn people. If you win, people will deny you. I feel sorry for losing the battle.

29. By bus, never compete with the elderly for seats. On the bus, the elderly have the most say.

30. Maintain the most basic respect for honest people, no matter how strong your ability and wealth are. You can't bear the consequences of bullying honest people.

3 1, if you have a happy family, don't quarrel with the takeaway brother. Be tolerant and forgive. When you are angry, think of your beautiful wife and lovely children.

32. A gentleman loves money and takes it wisely. Earn more money than you can, and you can't grasp it.

Whether you have money or not, don't charge a large sum of money in front of others. Wealth is not exposed, which is the most basic requirement of high emotional intelligence.

34. If you have money, you must remember to repay your hometown. Returning home in splendor is the lifelong pursuit of every high EQ, and Liu is the best example.

35. The stronger the ability, the greater the responsibility. If you have the ability, you should help those who are in trouble. Caring for vulnerable groups is also a manifestation of high emotional intelligence, which will make you rich and famous.

36. You should comfort others when they make mistakes. It is normal to make mistakes in life, and a word of comfort from you will make the other person feel grateful.

37. Recognizing others is a beautiful virtue. Someone else has done something, you should recognize it. Learning to recognize is the performance of high emotional intelligence.

38. When others are down and out, don't hit people when they are down. People with high emotional intelligence know enough is enough. Leave a line in everything, and meet each other in the future. This is the essence of the world.

39. Hatred will only make you feel depressed, and people with high emotional intelligence can forgive you.

40. If you are not married, you must buy a house first. No marriage, no pressure to buy a house.

4 1, it is not difficult to borrow again. Money is a very sensitive thing, and it can be paid back on time, which is also the embodiment of this world.

42. Don't promise each other easily. If you can do it, you can do it You can't do it if you can't.

43. When you get married, if you need to borrow a friend's car, you must pay for the gas, give a red envelope no less than 600 yuan and buy cigarettes. It is an obligation for a friend to help, and it is also an obligation not to let a friend suffer.

44. If someone introduces you, whether you succeed or not, invite others to dinner. People who are willing to introduce you to someone are recognized. Don't live up to others' recognition.

45. Money is the tool of the world. People with high emotional intelligence know that they will make good use of money to eliminate disasters, which is the performance of high emotional intelligence.

46. If you are cheated, the amount is not very large, tell yourself that it is to spend money to buy peace. People with high emotional intelligence will not let people see their angry side, which is the embodiment of the world.

47. If there is no pressure to survive, go to the place you like. People with high emotional intelligence know how to enjoy life and live for themselves.

Even if you no longer like someone, you shouldn't slander him. People with high emotional intelligence will not deliberately make enemies, which is also the embodiment of the world.

49. When you are away from home, you should make more friends and spend money within your ability, so that you can get opportunities.

50. Set up a great image for your children. All the worldly wisdom is to make yourself better and make your wife and children happy.

It is the greatest worldly wisdom to make children proud of their parents.

1. If you earn money through other people's relationships, you must let those who help you take the lead, so that your help can last.

2, friends let you go home for dinner, it is best to bring some gifts, the value has nothing to do with size, something is better than nothing.

If you can solve it with money, try to solve it with money, and don't overdraw your relationship at will.

4, let everyone step on a person, you are a little kind, this person will remember you for a lifetime.

5. When handing cigarettes to a table, whether you smoke or not, you have to hand out cigarettes. What matters is the process.

6. When chatting together, don't talk about me, talk about us.

7. It's a rule to invite friends to dinner and go alone, with guests and no guests.

8. Show less wealth in front of the poor and cry less in front of the rich.

9. If someone helps you, you can invite you to dinner, give money or give gifts. Don't just say thank you.

10, praise a person, you must be able to talk to the other person's heart, and you must not let praise become hypocrisy.

1 1. When traveling, you can bring some small gifts to your friends, not just bask in the sun for them.

12. Don't show your excitement when others are sad.

13, invite friends to dinner, take the opportunity to go to the toilet or answer the phone to settle the bill.

14. When eating alone with the leader, think about paying the bill. Don't think that leaders should be paid just because their salaries are high.

15, you can sleep after drinking too much. Remember not to say more.

16, wine is full of respect, tea is full of deception.

17, eat seven points full, speak three points cooked.

18, don't say hello to the cyclist when driving, unless you are a close relative.