Can't see others better than yourself? Keep in mind which coping strategies can effectively guide children's competitiveness.

Can't see others better than yourself? Keep in mind several coping strategies to effectively guide children's competitiveness. Countermeasure 1: Allow children to lose their temper when they lose to each other. When a child is unsuccessful, he may stop theme activities because of his temper, or throw his little toys, books and other things everywhere to vent his anger. At this juncture, parents should be as tolerant as possible, and there is no need to criticize their children in the face of this situation. All we have to do is hug and comfort him immediately and tell the child, "It's okay, I can stay with you." In fact, in most cases, children with bad temper are actually waiting for their parents' words in their hearts.

Coping 2: If the child always wants to win, then stop the related theme activities. After making this choice, everyone can also clearly tell the children why they stopped the theme activities. For example, before playing chess, we can have a dialogue with our children about their psychological state that they just want to win and refuse to lose.

"There will be gains and losses in playing chess. Are you ready? " ; If you are ready to feel a process of gain and loss, everyone will continue to play slowly. "; " If I don't think you are ready to win or lose, then I can wait until you are ready to continue playing. "If the child's attitude of resisting winning or losing is obvious, it is usually best to play a less exciting guessing game with the child first, so that the child can feel the whole process of winning or losing in a guessing game with a strong sense of rhythm.

For example, if a child wins a game, we can tell the child "Great!" Then continue to the next round; If the child loses, we can tell the child "nothing!" " "Let's continue to play the next round. In this process, children constantly feel the change of winning or losing mentality, from the initial inadaptability to the final habit.

In the process of playing games, in fact, parents themselves will encounter losses and wins, and everyone can take this opportunity to guide their children.

Mainly because what kind of mentality parents should adopt to treat winning or losing is the key for children to treat winning or losing. In other words, if parents hold a good attitude regardless of winning or losing, this rational attitude towards winning or losing will gradually arouse children's feelings and urge them to gradually change their previous attitude of "can't afford to play" and become open-minded and extroverted grandchildren!