30+ Ma Bao returns to the workplace, how to build its core competitiveness?

Yes, that's right. I am already 30+. In the eyes of many people, I am a post-90 s person who doesn't look like 30+. However, I must honestly admit that I have reached the age of 30. The reason why I don't like it is probably that I maintain it better, hee hee ~

65438+resigned in February 2008 to concentrate on raising a baby. After the baby was born, he devoted himself to taking care of the baby. From February 18 to August 19, I really turned a deaf ear to things outside the window and devoted myself to my family. During that time, I felt that the world had not changed, and everything was the same as before I resigned. As a senior social slacker, I am not willing to take the initiative to contact others. Frequent contacts are male girlfriends and female girlfriends. I left my colleagues and things like that behind. So when I experienced something, I deeply felt the importance of networking and socialization. We'll talk later.

The child is weaned at about one year old because I want to find something to do. For more than a year, I have been with my child every day, taking care of his diet and daily life. I am a nanny, and I am more responsible than a nanny. To tell the truth, I personally feel more tired than going to work. Sometimes chatting with girlfriends will also talk about parents' shortcomings, and all the troubles revolve around these. Nothing changed after the chat, and my mood was as heavy as ever. The skills accumulated in the workplace before are still those, and they have not improved because they don't know the changes outside. My husband told me that the situation outside is grim and the environment is poor. Many small and medium-sized companies in Shenzhen have closed down, the employment situation is more tense, and the competitive pressure is getting bigger and bigger ... I don't believe what he said. Answer directly: No matter how the environment changes, the situation of a capable person will not be affected. My husband is speechless and will not continue to discuss with me. When my best friend chatted with me, she advised me to take an examination of a civil servant in my hometown. It would be nice to settle down and have a family together. I am reluctant, I want to go out, I want to go to a big city, and I want to stay in a big city. Just like when I 14 graduated from college, many students went back to their hometown to develop. I went to Guiyang to prepare for the teacher's exam, but the interview was killed, and it was still too young. So I was so angry that I didn't want to take the exam again and dragged my luggage to Shenzhen. This trip is only a few years.

After discussing with my family this time, I took my mother-in-law and children to Shenzhen and re-applied for a job. However, the world has indeed changed, and it is me that has not changed. After submitting resumes, they all sink into the sea, and few reply. When I was told to go for an interview, the interviewer saw in my resume that I hadn't been to work for a while and asked me in great detail what I had done during this time. How old is the child now? Who's carrying it? Willing to work overtime? Wait a minute. problem After several rounds, I deeply feel that if I return to the workplace, the pressure I face is very great. The requirements of challenging positions are also very high. This society still has a role like Ma Bao ... Plus 30 years old, there will be more factors to consider at the company level. I can understand, but it's also a big blow. At that time, whether the entanglement continued or transformed, and started again in another industry.

Another thing is that my mother-in-law and her children have returned to their hometown. My mother-in-law can't adapt to the big city and can't take the subway and bus. She still likes the familiar place where she has lived in the countryside all her life. In desperation, they can only be sent back to their hometown. It's really hard to be separated from the children. I've been with him since I was born, and I take it everywhere. Suddenly I'm not around, and I can't let go of my concern for him. During the video, I was sad to hear my voice and watch him cry. Seeing me like this, my husband advised me to go back. But the environment and treatment in my hometown can't keep up with the first-tier cities, and I can't accept it. Thinking about children while looking for a job. Finally decided to go back to my hometown for development. Children grow up only once, and money can be earned anywhere. It depends on what they do.

The experience of returning to the workplace to apply for a job has brought me new knowledge. It's easy to be a nanny, but society will not relax its demands on you because you are a nanny, but demand more. For example, when applying for a job, you will find that many companies, including civil service exams, require people under 35. Unless your situation is very special or your ability is particularly outstanding, such fetters will become the shackles of most people.

If you have just become a nanny, or just stepped out of the role of nanny and entered the workplace, I have the following suggestions:

1. First of all, congratulations on your promotion to motherhood. However, if the company has a good environment, don't choose to resign and stick to it for a few months. I know that some pregnant women will have a serious reaction during pregnancy, but the suffering during this period is the rebirth afterwards. Be sure to connect your professional resume and don't break it;

If you choose to resign, you can have a baby at home with peace of mind. Don't forget to improve your professional skills and keep in touch with your former colleagues and friends. Through them, you can better understand the workplace form and always pay attention to the job requirements and the places you need to improve. This period of time can often give you time to concentrate on polishing your skills and establish contacts with people in more industries to learn from each other's strengths. Also, we must pay attention to improving our ability to make money, such as doing a sideline or part-time job, holding a book club, sharing a treasure mother and so on. , add points for your return to the workplace; Sharpening your knife at the last minute is not feasible in this society, and it may help you spend a comfortable period. What should you do when you are old? So polishing yourself is the breakthrough.

In any case, always study, study and study again. If you can't make yourself outstanding, you will be eliminated one day. Learning is not to learn casually, but to systematize your own workplace experience and cognition. If you like writing, you can write it and share it with more people. There is a saying, do you have ten years of work experience, or does one year of work experience take ten years? I think this sentence deserves our reflection. Because the progress of society will require more people, reading a kindergarten depends on the baby's skills. Don't hurry to improve your working ability?

The most important thing is to see yourself clearly and give yourself a clear position. Know your strengths and weaknesses. Give full play to one's own advantages and strive to improve the shortcomings. Go ahead in a down-to-earth way, don't go with the flow, blindly windy. There are many ways to make money, and it is important to focus on one direction!

5. Have a sense of urgency and make long-term system planning. I am a 30+ person. What I'm doing now is thinking about what my life will be like in 3 years, 5 years, 10 years and 55 years. There are old people in the world and little people in the world, and the pressure is self-evident.

I wrote here for the time being, and the baby is calling for mom again. ..........