An example of gentleman's flexibility?

It is not brave for a man to draw his sword and stand up and fight when he sees humiliation. There are brave people in the world, but they are not surprised when faced with them, and they are not angry when they add a word for no reason. This is a great hostage, and its ambition is far away.

-Su Shi's Waiting for Waiting

2. Patience needs to be cultivated, humiliation needs to be measured, and humiliation is a realm. Endurance is a sharp knife in my heart. To cultivate the tolerance of stabbing your heart with a knife, you have to endure the revenge of killing your father, the hatred of taking your wife, the humiliation of your legs, the bullying of your attack, and the injury of fighting for the front ...

3. Buckling is to seek extension. In the calligraphy of life, there are both arch pens and juvenile pens. This is the profound meaning of bending over backwards and reaching out. When you are in the quasi-yin field, in front of you is an arrogant teenager, behind you is a fellow villager, facing the gloomy door-the teenager's crotch, is it a pass? Without drilling, there are only two results. One was killed by a butcher, and there was no more Han Xin. The second is to draw the sword and stab it, so that the villain will be bloody in an instant. He won a temporary victory, but from then on there was no Han Xin. However, he didn't. This man's name is not what he wants to achieve. He has a military strategy not to die with the vegetation. Han Xin weighed it repeatedly, so he bent down and climbed over the crotch of a street teenager, which made him laugh all over the city and humiliated him for the rest of his life. But this is not his destination. He finally took an axe and ordered the Han soldiers: "Even a million troops will win the battle, win the battle." Walking 72 cities in January, he became an "enemy of ten thousand people" galloping on the battlefield. The original defeat and humiliation have long since vanished with brilliant military achievements. He really achieved the goal of doing his best and dying, and became a generation of talents and a hero for generations to come. This kind of spirit, is it the thought of Wujiang item?

Spread out from page to page, what we see is the wisdom and wonderful Zen in front of the small door of life, but also the courage to bend and stretch. When we stand in front of the small door on the road of life, we don't have to "spread our wings and hate the low sky", but should "take an inchworm trip and bend over and stretch"!