"Parental Love": Dehua loves Lao Ding, but the most Edwardian person is him. Do you know who he is?

Dehua is Jiang Defu's sister, a simple, kind, carefree, and unforgiving rural woman. She has little education, is outspoken, and is straightforward when she is angry or happy, without hiding anything. Her smile is always so hearty, pure and heartless. She helped her brother and sister-in-law take care of several nieces and nephews as they grew up; for Xiu'e and her brother, she forced her sister-in-law to go to the island; after Xiu'e's death, she took care of Lao Ding and his children; her persistence and determination to win for Lao Ding were always there It's hilarious.

So, when did Dehua fall in love with Lao Ding? An Jie once jokingly asked her if she had already fallen in love with Lao Ding when Wang Xiu'e was still alive. Dehua quickly denied it and said that such a joke was not allowed. So did Dehua lie?

Personally, I think Dehua fell in love with Lao Ding the first time he met him. This kind of liking is not love or possession, it is just a vague feeling towards the opposite sex that one likes and admires. It cannot be explained clearly. It cannot be denied that Lao Ding is a very charming man. He is more educated and handsome than Jiang Defu. To a certain extent, he is more thoughtful and profound than Jiang Defu. Of course, it's also more realistic and snobbish.

After Xiu'e passed away, Lao Ding also came to the island. His official career was not going well, and as a grown man with a child, he was always struggling in life. In Anjie's eyes, he became a listless, unshaven, sallow complexion, a whiny, impoverished pauper. This kind of poverty is not poverty in economic terms, but poverty in life. Dehua once had a good relationship with Xiu'e's sister-in-law, and Lao Ding was his brother's good friend and comrade-in-arms. The warm-hearted Dehua probably didn't think much about it at the time. He just wanted to help Xiu'e take care of her children and help his brother take care of his comrades. Laundry, cooking, cleaning, Dehua has almost become a part of Lao Ding's family. Unconsciously, Dehua found that he was more and more willing to run to Lao Ding's house. Every time I see Lao Ding, I feel very good. If I don't see him, I will have endless troubles.

"Love doesn't know where it starts, it goes deep."

Dehua knew that Lao Ding liked educated women, just like his brother liked his sister-in-law. Since the uneducated elder brother marries the literate sister-in-law, then the literate old Ding can naturally marry his uneducated self. Dehua didn't know when he fell in love with Lao Ding, nor did he know why he fell in love with Lao Ding. She only knew that she was going to marry Lao Ding. There was no such thing as a contingency, and there would be no contingency. She was so sure of it. Although, she doesn't know what it means to be sincere and open to gold and stone. But she wanted to see Lao Ding, wanted to take care of Lao Ding and his children, and wanted Lao Ding to realize her existence. He treated Lao Ding as a stone. She felt that even a stone would be warmed by her.

The sister-in-law thinks she is a nymphomaniac, and the brother thinks she has become Lao Ding’s backup and has embarrassed him. However, Dehua didn't have so many twists and turns in his heart. She just liked Lao Ding. Her liking for Lao Ding had nothing to do with whether Lao Ding liked her or not, and it had nothing to do with how others viewed her.

She knew that Lao Ding had arthritis, so she borrowed her brother’s dog-skin mattress and gave it to Lao Ding. After being rejected by Lao Ding, she was angry and aggrieved, but after one night, she carried the dog-skin mattress and walked to Lao Ding's house in high spirits. What she said to An Jie was categorical and majestic: "If he doesn't let me go, I won't go? That home is not his alone, that home also includes my sister-in-law Xiu'e. And I I'm not going to serve him. I'm going to serve Sister-in-law Xiu'e's son. I can't leave Sister-in-law Xiu'e's son unattended. I remember how kind Sister-in-law Xiu'e was to me. I can't be a person without conscience." It was for An Jie to listen, rather it was for Lao Ding and himself. Her requirements were not high, she just wanted to see more of Old Ding, take care of him, and hope that he could return to the rosy-faced Old Ding he was when Sister-in-law Xiu'e was around.

"What should I do if he gets married? It's not for him that I help him, I do it for Sister-in-law Xiu'e and for the children." The stubborn Dehua heard that Lao Ding was about to marry him. When Ge Meixia got married, she was still making quilts and giving food to Lao Ding and the children;

When the generous Dehua learned that Ge Meixia and Lao Ding's marriage was not completed, he smiled like a child and was happy. She rushed back to tell her brother and sister-in-law the good news;

Knowing that Lao Ding was going to have dinner at home, she happily sang a song and forced her sister-in-law to bring out Maotai to entertain Lao Ding, with a smile on her face and a smile on her lips. She looks so pretty that she can't even hide it.

Thinking that Lao Ding was eating in the next room, Dehua worked hard in the kitchen; she secretly hid in front of the door of the next room, pursed her lips, and listened nervously During the conversation between her brother and Lao Ding, her face at that time no longer had the arrogance and arrogance on her face, and the smile on her face was no longer full of joy. It was a bit nervous, a bit melancholy, and a bit shy of a girl.

When she heard her brother persuading Lao Ding to continue striving for marriage with Ge Meixia, she couldn't help but say: "It's really nothing!"

"Is there anyone who can persuade others like him? "Pushing people into a pit of fire." In Dehua's mind, whoever Old Ding is with is a pit of fire, and only being with him is heaven;

Looking at Old Ding drinking too much, she Pushing her brother away, she complained sternly that he had made Old Ding drunk;

She heard that Old Ding was dating Dr. Wu, and she wanted to see her and see what she looked like and whether she could treat the child good.

In fact, she doesn’t like anyone who marries Lao Ding, and doesn’t think they are good friends.

Watching her brother drinking Maotai with Ouyang, she was angry because he didn't call him Lao Ding. Anjie sighed and said: De Hua, you are so kind to Lao Ding.

When she heard the news that Lao Ding was going to marry Dr. Wu, she said bitterly: "It would be better to make it difficult for him, I don't care!"

This is love! I love you, whether you love me or not. If I love you, it has nothing to do with whether you love me or not. If I am good to you, it has nothing to do with whether you love me or not.

When she came back from Lao Ding's house dejectedly, she said to An Jie blankly: "I don't know what's going on. This key can't open the door." Dehua really didn't know what was going on. What's going on? She knew, but she didn't want to believe it and couldn't believe it. After listening to Anjie's words, he said firmly: When someone changed the locks. She cried loudly and unobtrusively, venting her unrequited love and grievances. But when she saw Ge Meixia, she wiped away her tears happily and said bitterly: Grandma, why are you crying? What's the use of crying?

"That damn old man changed the key to the house and wouldn't let me in." Any other woman would definitely not say such a self-destructive thing to her former love rival. Come on. But Dehua said it so brazenly. Her courage and magnanimity towards love put Ge Meixia and An Jie to shame.

"It's better for you. You are going to marry him, and you didn't provoke him to change the keys." Dehua's words to Ge Meixia were still so straightforward, without hypocrisy or pretense.

"If I don't scold him today, I won't be able to survive, and I will go crazy." She forced Anjie to call Lao Ding home. However, when she saw Old Ding's thin figure, she became restless and hid in the room. She looked in the mirror, arranging her hair, and said to herself: I can't let him see that I cried.

As An Jie called, Jiang Dehua, who had always been sharp-tongued and aggressive, moved his feet step by step, walked out of the room with a low eyebrow, and walked up to Lao Ding, nervously not knowing how to turn his eyes. It depends on where to place it.

"I'm sorry, I didn't say hello to you in advance." Old Ding's deep voice made Dehua feel sour.

An Jie reprimanded Lao Ding righteously. At that time, Dehua's mind was empty, and her heart and eyes only had Lao Ding. Seeing that Old Ding was about to leave, she mechanically poured him a cup of tea. Anjie was about to give Old Ding the key, so she stepped forward to take the key and hand it to Old Ding. She just loves this man and wants to be close to him. It doesn't matter whether the man loves her or not, or her own consciousness and thoughts.

After Lao Ding left, De Hua’s heart and soul came back. She felt distressed for Lao Ding, who had his head drooped and was scolded like a grandson. After yelling at her sister-in-law, she sat listlessly in the kitchen again. Doesn't she know that her sister-in-law is doing this for her? She knew, but she couldn't control her desire to protect Lao Ding.

Dehua sat on the roof, looking at the sea in the distance and Yunshu Yunjuan, with a look of sadness on his face, "Sister-in-law, why do you think Lao Ding doesn't like me?" Her tears broke out. It flowed down the cheeks and into the mouth. It was so bitter and astringent.

When she realized that Lao Ding was going to marry her, she looked at Lao Ding steadily: "Tell me, when will we get things done?" She almost choked Lao Ding who was drinking water. With.

On the way home, Dehua smiled and laughed, but tears burst out.

She couldn't stop crying. At this time, it seemed that only tears could express her feelings for Lao Ding over the years, the pressure she had endured for Lao Ding, and the ups and downs she had experienced for Lao Ding. .

When her brother and sister-in-law asked her when to hold the wedding, she said: "I think the sooner the better, so as not to have long nights and dreams."

Dehua is the most popular character in "Parental Love" The kindest, truest and most beautiful existence. Because she is uneducated, what she says and does is her unmodified and pretentious self. This kind of truthfulness, bravery and desperateness for love is admirable and desirable.

"Life has been full of love and obsession since ancient times, and this hatred has nothing to do with the wind and the moon."

It cannot but be said that the Jiang family brothers and sisters have the same attitude towards love, and they all have a sense of lust that makes them stupid. In order to marry An Jie, Jiang Defu was willing to give up his party and military membership, take off his military uniform, and go home to farm; for Lao Ding, Dehua worked hard and uncomplainingly for several years, without fear of anyone's words. The two brothers and sisters are also able to watch the clouds clear and see the moonlight.

Lao Ding’s biggest regret in his life was an arranged marriage. The daughter-in-law is hard-working, capable of giving birth to children, and can run a household. It's just that there is no culture. Two people often talk like chickens and ducks, and communication is difficult. Looking at my good friend and brother, I have found a beautiful, capable, educated, and stylish daughter-in-law. Old Ding was envious and jealous. After Wang Xiu'e's death, he was really gearing up to find a wife who was educated, spoke the same language, and could talk about life and ideals. However, he is indeed unlucky, or he just has no chance of finding an educated wife. The marriage to Ge Meixia was blocked by Political Commissar Wang, and the marriage to Doctor Wu was "slandered" by Jiang Defu. He couldn't marry Ge Meixia without hesitation like Jiang Defu did at the beginning, and he was glad that he discovered Dr. Wu's true face before getting married.

Finally, looking at Dehua who was busy inside and outside the house, Old Ding accepted his fate. He married Dehua after all, maybe he was still a little unwilling when he did so. But Dehua stayed with him for thirty years, taking care of her in every detail, giving birth to a little daughter for her, and helping him raise several grandchildren. This simple, kind and enthusiastic rural woman gave him no worries at work. , live a happy and contented life in his later years.

Some people often worry about choosing to marry someone who loves them or marry someone they love. Jiang Defu married his beloved An Jie, and Jiang Dehua married his beloved Lao Ding. The two families lived happily. As long as Jiang Defu sees An Jie happy, he will be happy; as long as De Hua can see Lao Ding every day and serve Lao Ding comfortably, he will be happy every day; An Jie has been doted on by De Fu for dozens of years. At the age of 20, his eyes are still pure and clear, sweet and quiet; Lao Ding reads newspapers and practices calligraphy every day, and also gains peace of mind and body. Everyone's needs are different. Just like Yafei said to Yaning, "I'm not an aunt. I can't be as hardworking and bear humiliation as my aunt. If so, I will wrong myself."

In Yafei's eyes The grievances are for Dehua, but they are enjoyment. He is arsenic and I am honey. She enjoys every day, every moment of every year with Lao Ding. Therefore, everyone thinks and wants different things. Choose according to your heart. It's good to be in love with each other, but if you can't, then it's no big deal to follow your heart and find someone you love or someone who loves you.