Loneliness is the best gift God has given you

Introduction: Have you ever loved someone so much that you secretly revised your own principles for the other person again and again in your heart, and then forgave the other person again and again. It was only in the end that the other party didn't pay the bill at all, and then he realized that he had been treated badly, and then he understood what it means not to wrong yourself for someone who doesn't cherish you.

1. I looked at her again and again. All my life, with all my heart, I love her the most. I am sure of it, as sure as I am that I will die. She can fade, she can wither, whatever. But I just looked at her, and all kinds of tenderness came to my heart.

2. Emotions can sometimes be like a child, naughty and lost, but their nature is pure and kind. As long as you can wait for its return with the calmness of waiting for a tree to bloom, one day what it owes you will definitely be repaid quietly in a way that you don't know.

3. If you cannot live in a beautiful posture, live healthily, live pliable, and live clumsily and innocently, you will be like fabric that has lost its elasticity. Or a lubricated bottom of the bowl, at least to survive. To wait for the day when that hug appears.

4. If a person really cares about you enough, then he can always find time to accompany you, without excuses, lies, or unfulfilled promises.

5. In fact, there is nothing that cannot be let go. As time goes by, when you look back, you will find that the things you once thought you could not let go are just a springboard in life to make you grow.

6. A person must be able to withstand lies, be perfunctory, deceive, forget promises, let go of everything, and finally use laughter to disguise the tears. The more you hold back your tears, the more they will become a recipe for happiness.

7. Everyone is born from their parents, but everyone has to rebirth themselves once. Just like our parents only give birth to our hard bodies, and we have to instill soft bodies into ourselves. The body comes from parents, and the mind comes from oneself.

8. Every outstanding person has a period of silence. During that period, I put in a lot of effort, endured isolation and loneliness, and did not complain or complain. When I talk about it in the future, even I can be moved.

9. Don’t choose the easy way, it is actually the most difficult. Unsophisticated people are accustomed to good times and tend to treat others harshly; while experienced people are well versed in adversity and are lenient in dealing with them.

10. If we cannot do big things, then do small things with great love.

11. What I want to tell you is that on the road of life, you will always meet many people and hear many voices, constantly telling you: "There is no way you can do this!" If When you hear this statement, then, "Don't listen to them!" Remember what I say, you must know 100% what you really want, believe in yourself, and then just go and do it.

12. There are two main sins of man, from which the rest come: impatience and laziness. Because of impatience, they were expelled from heaven; because of laziness, they could never return. ——Kafka

13. At any time, a person should not be a slave of his own emotions, and should not make all actions subject to his own emotions, but should in turn control his emotions. No matter how bad the situation is, you should strive to dominate your environment and save yourself from the darkness.

15. What you are looking for is not a perfect person, but the most suitable person for you.

16. Loneliness comes from love, and people without love will not be lonely. Maybe loneliness is the best gift God gives you. The person who receives this gift learns to love himself.

17. If each other had appeared earlier, maybe we wouldn’t be intertwined with another person. Or maybe they met a little later, so late that the two people slowly learned tolerance and consideration, kindness and compromise in their respective love experiences. Maybe when they came together, they wouldn't give up so easily and turn around willfully. Let go of love. There is no one step too early or one step too late. That is such a rare fate.

18. Some disappointments are inevitable, but most disappointments are because you overestimate yourself.

19. The promises that are blurted out when you are in love are all sincere, as true as the fruits that bear on the treetops when the season comes. But you also know that the fruit begins to expire quickly from the moment it leaves the tree. If it is not eaten in time, no matter how fragrant the fruit is, it will become rotten and smell bad. Therefore, promises in love often make us uncomfortable in the end, not because they were false at the beginning, they are very true, but they have expired. ——Cai Kangyong

20. In life, there is only the past that cannot be returned, and there is no present that cannot be overcome. God will only give you a hurdle that you can live with. No matter how difficult life is, no matter how difficult it is, if you grit your teeth, it will be over.

21. When you really care about someone, even the smallest details become important. Because you love, you care, because it’s important, you love.

22. I hope that my next love will either never start or last forever.

23. The risks we did not take yesterday become risks tomorrow. If you don't conquer tomorrow's dangers, you can only wait to be hijacked by life.

24. Don’t ask for anything from others in your life. If people want to give you something, you don’t have to ask, and they will naturally give it to you; if they don’t want it, it’s useless for you to beg for it, and it will make them hate you.

25. If you consider self-esteem when it comes to love, there can only be one reason: in fact, you still love yourself the most.

26. Have you ever loved a distant person? He never makes you despair and is the courage and strength for you to continue living. He is always young, beautiful, and radiant. He is always there, just like faith.

27. Life was so simple at that time. Everything was just a matter of discovering what was easiest to do. What is easy for fire may not be done by wood; what is easy for fish may not be done by birds; what is easy for tree roots may not be done by leaves.

28. When a man really cares about a woman, he will show some natural behavior. This is instinct and nature. The supreme love does not care about anything. The so-called failure to do so means not loving enough.

29. I long for a kind of love that will not make my heart tired because of the humbleness of love, nor will it breed contempt because of the shamelessness of love. He and I will show off each other every time we meet, he is cunning and sincere. , tolerant and selfish. He sees through my outline, kisses my courage, and then forgives my shamelessness and unspeakable meanness.

30. You fill my heart. In this chaotic and crowded, swelling and noisy world, you have become my meditation point. I thought about you and little else, and I realized how absurd and futile most of what I was doing was. The fragmented state of daily life finally becomes coherent. No longer floating in time and space, I am gathered in one place, and that place is you.

31. I found that I didn’t have the courage to leave him at all. I don’t want to spend any more time getting used to another person, accepting his good and bad qualities, and then hurting each other again and again. In the end, you will find that you don’t even know who has truly loved you.

32. Time heals sorrow and disputes, because we are changing and we will no longer be the same person. The little things can comfort us because the little things can sting.

33. The glory of life does not lie in the moment when you are on the cusp of the storm and countless flowers and applause come to you; but in that when your prosperity fades away and your body is even disabled, you occasionally feel that It’s a humbling moment, but someone still shows respect to you.

34. Life is nothing more than making people laugh and being laughed at. ——This is open-mindedness.

35. If you are a lion and others call you a dog, you will not really become a dog, so there is no need to be angry about it; if you are a dog and others praise you as a lion, you will also You won't really turn into a lion, so you don't have to be happy about it.

Therefore, other people's praise will not make you better; other people's criticism will not make you worse. There is nothing to cling to. We should treat others' evaluations of ourselves with this mentality.

36. Being able to treat people you don’t like very well does not mean you are hypocritical, but it means you are mature enough to tolerate these dislikes.

37. The bond of marriage is not children or money, but spiritual growth. When you are most helpless and weak, when you are most depressed and downcast, he will hold up your chin, straighten your spine, command you to be strong, and accompany you to bear your fate together. At that time, in addition to love, the relationship between you also included a sincere loyalty, a tacit understanding of never leaving, and unforgettable kindness.

38. There is always a touching and affectionate moment in a person's life, just like you touch the most beautiful string in your heart.

39. Love is something that is better to be done in a short time than in a hurry. You must learn to live alone, regardless of whether there is someone around you who loves you. Do what you should do, and treat it with or without love. When fate arrives, reach out and grab it. Before fate arrives, let yourself live a wonderful life. It's not that fate will make life wonderful; it's that life that is wonderful will attract fate.

40. If love does not fall into the real life of dressing, eating, sleeping, and counting money, it will not last long. True love means that you are not nervous, that you can burp, fart, pick your ears, and have a runny nose in front of him without any worries; the person who truly loves you is the person you can see without washing your face, combing your hair, or putting on makeup. . ——Sanmao

41. The reason why you feel lonely is not that no one cares about you, but that the person you care about does not care about you.

42. The encounter and miss only occur in a subtle moment. Those longings seem to be superficial and traceless, but they often feel not deep enough even if they are told in detail, so they are used to treating them lightly until they are lost.

Editorial: Those who have nothing to do with you have nothing to do with you. From day one, you actually know it. Even if you smile sweetly, even if you work hard to manage this relationship. And those who are related to you are those who are related to you and cannot escape. Even if you only meet three times and talk to each other only once in three years, even if you are thousands of miles apart. Some people are destined to be cancer in your life, and some people are just a sneeze. God will give you many gifts in a circle

1. What does it feel like to fall in love at first sight? I want to be as shameless as a gangster, but also as graceful as a gentleman.

2. Sometimes life will be difficult, like walking with dark clouds above your head. No matter whether you run, squat, or dodge, there is no sunshine. But you need to bring your own hope in life, and firmly believe that everything will be fine. If you are discouraged, nothing will be fine. If there is light in the sky, it will shine on you. If there is light in your heart, it will shine in the sky.

3. Ten years later, you may become a figure or a waste. It depends on your actions today.

4. When I can’t sleep, past events will come up one by one, especially those worthy of regret. It’s like a torn-off label of failure. No matter how you pick it off, half of it is still stuck in your heart.

5. Sometimes, you want to prove it to ten thousand people, but later on, you find that you only get one person who understands, and that is enough.

6. The more you care about something, the more it will torture you.

7. The reason why distance is scary is because you don’t know whether he is missing you or forgetting you.

8. True feelings are never maintained by likes, just like a sense of existence, nor are they accumulated by swiping the screen. It’s just that our relationship with the world is too thin, so we want to hold a handful of applause in our hands, pretending to be in the busy city forever, and there will always be people laughing drunkenly with us for thirty thousand times.

9. People who say they don’t want to fall in love probably have someone they can’t have in their hearts.

10. Don’t make any decisions at night. Your willpower is too weak at night, and there is only a thin line between yin and yang. At dawn, you will still feel that you are right. Even if you are wrong, you will be willing to do so.

11. One of the signs of maturity is the ability to tease. Not only making fun of the world but also making fun of yourself. Learn to be casual, and only by being casual can you be tolerant.

12. In a world of two people, one is always making trouble, the other is laughing, the other is noisy, and the other is coaxing. If a person always loses, it's not that his eloquence is not good enough, it's just that he can't bear to say the most hurtful words, so he chooses to remain silent.

13. I used to have a bad temper and would often make myself angry to death. To be honest, I am very grateful for all the setbacks, hardships and unpreparedness that I have experienced in my life in the past few years. They didn't do anything. They just made me realize again and again that it was useless to get angry when I was not capable enough. It was better to calm down and solve the problem in a down-to-earth manner. Good temper is so important. If you don't get angry, nothing can defeat you. I believe more and more that God will give you many gifts in a circle.

14. I don’t take the initiative to find you, not because you are not important, but because I don’t know whether I am important.

15. When it comes to breaking up, the best mentality is: No matter where our relationship goes, I hope we will always be honest with each other. It doesn't matter if you really don't love anymore, that's your freedom. As long as it is the truth, I can bear it; as long as there is no deception, I will be grateful.

16. Men in love love with their eyes, but their hearts are usually on strike. Women in love love with all their heart, but most of their eyes are blinded.

17. People always have the desire to cry. No matter what story they read, what song they listen to, or what movie they watch, they are just looking for an excuse.

18. I understand more and more that, except for a few friends and close people, don’t overestimate your relationship with anyone. There are only a few people who can make you feel your heart and soul. Some people don't contact each other for a day or two, and they slowly lose contact and slowly become dispensable people in each other's lives. Everyone thinks that friendship can last forever, but they don't expect that the most difficult thing is to keep in touch.

19. Don’t expect sudden good luck, just hope that all your efforts will pay off in the end. Meeting you was God’s arrangement

Fei:

Do you know? Meeting you is God’s arrangement, losing you is the fate of this life. I dare not say how deeply I love you, because any metaphor is pale and weak when it comes to my feelings for you, you know? Every caring word and every caring action is a trace of love. Maybe you have already discovered that you are just smart and do not accept me. More specifically, you do not accept my feelings for you.

In the past, I have been escaping and disguising myself. I thought that my feelings for you were mostly friendship. In fact, whether it is friendship or love, it will turn into family love over time. I can only comfort myself with these words. I also know that you are excellent, and your excellence makes me feel even more inferior. Because I am just an ordinary girl with average appearance and mediocre grades. I have no tears to remember and no glorious journey to envy. At the age of twenty, I have gone through twenty ordinary years. Until I met you, from that meeting at the train station, when I first saw you, I always felt that something would happen between us, and my heart couldn't help but tremble.

I have never dared to confess to you because I can't afford the gamble. I can't imagine how I would go through life without you. But it has come. Any efforts are useless, because you don't love me, which is also destined to lose everything in this emotional war, only a wounded heart, and a broken heart needs to be healed by myself. Sometimes I also wonder: If you weren't so good, would I still be as passionate about you as I am now. The answer is yes.

How much I want you to understand that love, but I am even more afraid of the unforgettable pain of losing you. The pain makes me think of death, but my reason tells me that I cannot die. . Because I'm afraid. If I die, no one will love you so persistently and firmly.

Knowing that you are with that girl and telling the truth makes me happy for you, that is very difficult, really, so difficult. So I had no choice but to escape and try to reduce my devotion to your feelings as much as possible, but I found that this would make me even more heartbroken.

Maybe I am very wise and wisely let you be my brother. This may be the wisest choice between you and me. Because no one will argue with me. I also respect your choice. I also firmly believe that that girl has many advantages that I don’t have. I also believe in your choice. Maybe it is the right one. Let time test the relationship between you! Let time test my feelings for you. Three years may not be a long time, but it cannot be said to be short. If you think she is suitable for you, I will sincerely bless you. As long as you live better than If I am happy, I will be content. Meeting you was already a sign of great mercy from heaven to me. Do I still expect to have you? I sincerely hope that girl will cherish you. Some people, once we have something, we don’t know how to cherish it. On the contrary, for those who desire, if they have a little bit, they will cherish it for a lifetime. People may be like this .

In the frosty days of Xiafei, in the longing of the night rain knocking on the window, in the solemn and solemn sound of the wind, I will think of you, your warm smile, and your gentle touch with your hand. The hair looks chic in an instant.

Time will pass, and there will always be repentance surrounding those poor people who are confused. I hope that there will be less regrets between us, and it will be fair to you and me. People say that love is unfair. Parents pay so much to their children and often exhort them, but from time to time they get complaints from their children. Love It's really unfair. You are so devoted to someone that you would give up everything for him, but he still hurts you. Although he tries hard not to hurt you, this kind of hurt is inevitable. This is because your love for him is so deep, which also determines how deep your pain will be. Love is really unfair.

People say that time can fade everything, so let time fade it! Maybe many years later, we will stand on another high ground, look back at our tortuous road, and maybe laugh at our innocence and our stupidity. Sometimes I also think that I am really too ordinary, just like the stars in the night, I am just the little star that looks at you and worships you in the distance, and you are the moon that is always bright in my heart, and the moon is different to the stars in the sky. How can you care about that little star? Maybe we are destined, and I am destined to be your admirer and most loyal lover forever. You have your ideal partner, but I also hope that the moon in my heart can occasionally think of me, the little star that emits a faint light, and it will live up to my infatuation for you. Talk about romantic love: I want to give you the best in the world, but I find that the best in the world is you

1. Suddenly I like the word "snap", love at first sight is too superficial, and love over time is too pale , while others glanced at you, I only peeked at you.

2. When people don’t get it, they don’t mind anything. After they get it, they will mind a little bit about everything. This is love, please don't mind.

3. In the past, I thought love was love at first sight, then I thought love was a steady flow, then I thought love was a sense of security, companionship, dependence, an inability to let go, and a reluctance to let go. Now I feel that love is what I love. You love me too, it's that simple.

4. Stop regretting what you missed. Only others will have the opportunity to meet the people and things you miss, and only you will have the opportunity to have them if others miss them. Everyone will miss it, everyone has missed it, but what truly belongs to you will never be missed.

5. I want to give you the best in the world, but I find that the best in the world is you; I don’t want eternal youth, I just want a lover who can’t be stolen.

6. There is really no reason to like someone clearly, it is just a feeling, just seeing the right person. It's like wanting to be with each other for a long time and live out this life.

7. When I wasted my time and wasted my time, I felt that the world was just like this. But after falling in love with you, I began to long for a long life. The world is not worth it, but you are.

8. It’s not that I think I’m good enough, but that no one but me would be blind enough to fall in love with you. There is a kind of love that is so blindly confident.

9. If love can be explained, vows can be modified, and if the encounter between you and me can be rearranged, then life will be easier. If, one day, I can finally forget you, however, this is not a casual legend, nor is it a drama that will be staged tomorrow. I can't find the original and erase you with one stroke. ——Xi Murong's "Error"

10. We have to go to the end, get married, live together, stay with each other, and work together for life... I am with you with this thought, in order to reach the age of sixty. I still say I love you.