What is it like to have a mother who is full of negative energy?

I wish I could hide away from her eight hundred miles away. Some girls choose to marry far away just to escape from their mother, because the harm done to her by her mother is not caused in a day. Marrying far away means that she does not want to be with her mother again in this life. The chance of seeing her is not that the daughter is unkind, but that the mother has hurt her daughter to the point where there is no family affection left.

Mothers with overwhelming negative energy are usually arrogant, highly egoistic, and solitary, as if she is the only one in the world who is right, and her family is the target for her to vent her dissatisfaction, causing other people to suffer. Trembling, fearing that a word would make her unhappy, she started fighting mode. A small problem caused flaws in everyone in the family. Others were wrong. Even the bones in her husband's ancestral grave were wrong. They were arrogant and disdainful. Yu Gu. She looked at others with disgusted expressions, but she didn't know that others looked at her with pitiful expressions, leaving her alone in her own world, talking and pitying herself. This kind of person's personality is not suitable for getting along with human beings, and is suitable for living in deep mountains and old forests. Only there, she can't affect others, and others can't affect him, and they don't interfere with each other.

There was a girl named Ayi, who had seven relationships broken up by her mother. Her mother was a person full of negative energy, and her thoughts and speeches were inconsistent. Ayi and her boyfriend got along well in every relationship. Once they got married, her mother strongly opposed it. Either she thought the boyfriend's family was poor, she thought that boyfriend was ugly, or she thought that boyfriend was short in stature. In short, there are various reasons for breaking up. Even if the perfect man stands in front of him, she can find a lot of faults.

When Ayi’s mother was fine, she sent her chicken soup for the soul every day, showing her how men and women should get along, what men and women should do after marriage, how to control a man’s wallet, and how to control the property of parents-in-law.

Often at one, two or three o'clock in the middle of the night, when he couldn't sleep and wouldn't let others sleep, he would pick up Ayi's father at any time to either discuss life with him or look forward to the future. Ayi's father said nothing, nor did he remain silent. In short, his mother thought that he was irresponsible for life and his children, and would often hit Ayi's father when he talked about the pain.

At that time, Ayi and his younger brother would hide in their room and dare not come out. They were also afraid that their mother would be furious if she saw them.

In just 26 years, Ayi turned from a naturally lively girl into a depressed girl, and finally suffered from depression. She once wanted to commit suicide by jumping off a building, but her brother and father found her and hugged her in time. She also saw a psychiatrist. After medication and psychological counseling, she slowly got out of the predicament. She moved out of her home and rented a house, living happily alone.

Unexpectedly, her mother was still unyielding to her. She didn't want her daughter to live happily, so she found her renting place and spoke harshly to her. She just said whatever her daughter didn't want to hear, saying that no one wanted to marry her even though her daughter had so many partners, and it was all her daughter's fault, and she couldn't win over men.

Ayi advised her mother not to talk anymore. She still yearned for love and would look for it slowly. The mother didn't listen and continued to accuse. Ayi covered her ears and didn't want to hear it. The mother said, you don't want to hear it because I was right and talked about your faults. Ayi kept being patient and patient, and finally couldn't bear it anymore, picked up the broom in the room, and hit her mother all over the face. The mother wanted to fight back, but how could she beat a young girl? She slowly fell behind. Her mother begged her not to hit her again. At that time, Ayi lost control of her mind and hit her mother hard and hard.

When Ayi woke up, she saw her mother hiding in the corner crying loudly, saying that she had raised a white-eyed wolf, and that her daughter would be struck by lightning if she hit her mother. She wanted to call the police and take her to jail.

My father and younger brother knew what their mother was like and suppressed the matter. But Ayi knew that his behavior had indeed caused harm to his mother. He did not want to do that to his mother, but his mother did not know how to control his emotions, which aroused the demonic nature in his heart, and he was so cruel to his mother. In order to apologize and atone for her sins, Ayi went to the barber shop and shaved her head. She said that beating her mother was not what she wanted and hoped that God could forgive her, so she shaved her head and decided to start a new life.

Ayi finally chose to fly away, leaving the home that made her sad and the arrogant mother. As for where she went, no one knew.