What if my wife doesn't work after marriage and plays mahjong every day?

In modern times, many women think that life is complete when they marry rich people. But is this really the case? In fact, women still have to have their own jobs after marriage. You should communicate with your wife. She should understand the harm of a woman not going to work after marriage, and such a marriage will collapse sooner or later.

A girl, when she falls in love with you, shows you what is charming; When I marry you, I will let you know what the bride's charm is. After I marry you, I will have children for you, and I will be more diligent and cook for you. ...

Therefore, our traditional concept has been saying that it is natural for a man to marry Han, dress and eat, and support his family. But this is not the case!

Mentally: impetuous and uneasy. I have been in a state of depression and anxiety. ? There are many reasons. First, the economy is unsafe. Second, I feel that I have wasted a lot of time, and I am confused every day. Speaking of reading, running and fishing, I have my own time. Actually, I don't know how to spend it either ? The lack of pleasure is very serious, because I am relatively idle, and I can't do anything meaningful or happy-everything I used to think about time freedom has become empty talk.

Interpersonal communication: almost no communication with people, and the existing social phobia is more serious. ? I have lived in Hangzhou for more than ten years, and the most contacts are colleagues at all stages. Occasionally, there are other channels to know, are they all girls ... After marriage, or after girls get married, there is no contact. ? Former colleagues or former colleagues used to get together every once in a while, but later this cycle became longer and longer, and I haven't seen anyone for a long time.

After all, so-called friends need to have the same experience and live in different circles for a long time. The so-called party is just getting together. ? You said you didn't do anything, but you didn't have the confidence after all.

Economic aspects; The economy is not independent and has no right to speak. If you don't make money yourself and spend other people's money, you won't have a say. This small series gives you an analogy. When I was at school, I wanted to buy new clothes for the New Year. Want to buy a learning machine; Want to buy a mobile phone; Must parents be consulted first?

Of course, this metaphor is not appropriate, because students themselves are relatively immature and need parents to check all aspects. But aside from this level, on the other hand, it also proves that there is no right to speak without economic independence. If your wife is very car-scrapping and earns every penny by herself, you can make up your own mind without asking your husband what you want to buy.

I still remember when I was in college, a female teacher once said, "My husband's salary is enough to support her and her son, but why did I choose to stand on the podium?" To be honest, I don't want to disappoint my parents who raised me to read so many books. After reading so many books, you should play a role. Otherwise, where is the value of life? "

At that time, the students were sighing ... Do girls want to work after graduation? Do you want to work after marriage? Obviously, women still have to work to show their life value!

Of course, I didn't tell her not to spend men's money. In the right circumstances, you must spend a man's money. On the one hand, when a man spends your money, he will feel that the cost is invested and will cherish you more. On the other hand, if you don't spend your husband's money, other women will naturally spend it for you.