What should parents do if their son is obsessed with Internet cafes?

Hello, it is common for your children to indulge in online games. Nowadays, students are under great pressure, and there is more temptation information in the society. Students' daily life is monotonous, and their independent time and parental time are getting less and less. How to arrange the rest of the time? Many students choose to play online games. It is suggested to give priority to spiritual encouragement, supplemented by taking medicine, because most psychotropic drugs will slow down the nerves, and regular eating is not good for children's growth.

There are many reasons why students are addicted to online games. In short, there are three points:

1. The attraction of online games promotion is driven by curiosity.

2. Real life is empty and unfulfilled.

3. There is no sense of accomplishment, security, identity and belonging in life.

In fact, not only students, but also many adults are addicted to the internet and virtual society. The most fundamental reason is that they can't find a sense of accomplishment, security, identity and belonging in real life. They often bury themselves deeply in the network, afraid to face the reality and avoid difficulties. However, these problems that they avoid are all solved and realized from the Internet. For example, many people vent their dissatisfaction online, talk about PK, talk about PK skills to find a sense of identity, be trade union leaders themselves, set up game trade unions, and find a sense of accomplishment in leading others. ...

In the face of these children who are addicted to online games, we must find suitable ways to guide them, and we must not rush to achieve success. We hope that through our own criticism, they will leave the network as soon as possible. If you really do this, it will be counterproductive, let them get deeper and deeper, and let them face more and more realistic fears and pressures.

Because solving internet addiction is a problem that takes a long time to complete, and the fundamental point of each child's problem is different, so I can only tell you in general now. Facing them, we should first treat them with tolerance, tolerate them and not be hostile to them. Don't criticize them easily, but understand and encourage them, help them face reality and find a sense of accomplishment from reality. It is for our parents to observe carefully, find out his specialty, find out his cleverness, and guide and help him give full play. We can also take him to take part in some outdoor activities, such as climbing mountains, swimming, cycling and planting trees. Or adopt a pet, learn to dance, draw, sing, etc. Let him find fun in real life and let him slowly stay away from Internet addiction.