How to keep a long-distance relationship with your boyfriend fresh?

Couples should always keep fresh, even if they encounter a dull period, don't be afraid. I have been married to my boyfriend for 4 years and now I have two children. I am very happy. Today I will talk about the experience of long-distance love. A good relationship needs careful management. Distance is to love what wind is to fire. It strikes at the weak and inspires the strong. Let's sum up how to keep a long-distance relationship fresh and not break up!

? 1. Contact every day.

In fact, come to good morning and good night every morning and evening, and tell each other what you want to do now when something happens. I may not be able to reply to the message for the time being, and I will reply when I'm done. Telling lovers like this will reassure them. Connection is the basis of maintaining feelings.

? 2. Be outspoken and express your emotions correctly.

A couple is just one of your partners. If you have something on your mind but don't say it, he won't tell you your joys and sorrows! Don't always want people to guess, to be honest, it's really hard to guess.

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If you have any ideas, you can tell them directly. The fear of long-distance love is mutual unwarranted suspicion. However, when expressing emotions, we should directly use facts+feelings instead of questioning+personal attacks.

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For example, I think the speed of your reply to messages is slow these days. What are you doing? Are you chatting with other young ladies?

? 3. Lovers who are wronged, lonely and sad must be comforted.

If your lover encounters a sad thing, such as a social death, even if you feel funny, comfort yourself before laughing. Otherwise, the other person may think that no one understands her and she is isolated.

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Or if she is criticized by the leader for doing something wrong, don't criticize ta in a hurry, but calm her emotions first and then analyze right and wrong when the other party calms down.

? 4. Let lovers and friends have some intersection.

It is good to have a few friends in love, which can reassure each other. After all, it is a different place. If anything happens to you, ta can contact you with friends through * * *. And if you introduce him to your sister or brother, it will make people feel very safe. You plan him or her in your life.

? 5. What can a long-distance relationship do

Although long-distance love can't hug and have physical contact, there are many things that long-distance love can do!

Watching the same movie, reading the same book, chasing the same drama, learning the same course, playing sports together, playing games together, chatting about interesting things about their childhood and sharing many interesting things around them.

? 6. Everyone has the goal of ending long-distance love.

Long-distance love must have the common goal of ending long-distance love, otherwise it will disappear into the vast sea of people one day.

All shall be well, jack shall have Jill! If you can't get married, it is also a kind of happiness to let the other person go! ?