My mother-in-law loses her temper with the child and calls herself a nanny, what should I do?

What your mother-in-law said was angry. She was angry that her grandson was disobedient. She thought she was taking care of her grandson, but he was still angry with her, so she spoke in a moment of anger. In fact, people are often like this. They are obviously very good and work hard. I don’t say anything and just live an ordinary life. Once I get angry, I will tell you all the hard work I did in the past. I feel aggrieved. What are the reasons for doing this? etc.?

As for being angry? The words I say when I get up are the same as those I dare not say out loud in my heart. Just like the words I say after drinking, the words I usually hold in my heart are the same. It’s just that when I’m angry, my tone will be a bit unpleasant, which is understandable.

After this incident, comfort your mother-in-law and ask your children to apologize to her. As for whether her mother-in-law is good or not, we cannot deny it with just one word. This is something you only know after you have been in contact with her on a daily basis. You cannot just because of her mother-in-law's words. Her words determine whether she is good or bad. Some people speak unabashedly, but they are still kind at heart

Finally: Old people sometimes have random thoughts about trivial matters and bury them in their hearts and are unwilling to speak out. At this time, we Young people should be more enlightened and chat with their mother-in-law when there is nothing to do, so as to understand her true inner thoughts, and at the same time let her know more about you. A big family, old and young, all have their own difficulties, and we need everyone to work together. Care cannot be achieved by just one person. If you want to have a harmonious family, you must understand and tolerate each other.