Why do women always treat you well for their husbands after they get married?

Because there is no husband, you and your in-laws should be strangers, and the attitude of most in-laws depends on your husband.

Because there is no husband, you and your mother-in-law are strangers, and no one knows anyone. Why should she be nice to you? A friend said before, "My husband is a mother-in-law boy. My mother-in-law looked down on me after marriage. " . In fact, at first, I had a good relationship with my husband, which was very tolerant and loving. After getting married, I lived with my in-laws for a long time, only to find that my mother-in-law is a very strong person and especially likes management. My husband has no opinion and is used to obedience. He listens to everything his mother says. My husband is full of filial piety, but he is very fierce to me. I always say: My mother will always be my mother. From now on, I can't talk about my mother. It's not your turn to judge whether my mother is good or bad. My mother said you must listen. You said you were wrong. You said you were insulted by my mother. You talk back to my mother in the future. I hope you look good. My mother is wrong. You can't talk back to her.

If you are still thinking about it, just listen to my mother or get a divorce. My mother said I could marry a better one without you. Many times, my friend can't say a sad word. All the grievances and anger were buried in his throat and turned into deep disappointment. After reading the conversation of this female compatriot, I especially want to say to her husband: Sir, you shouldn't marry a wife. You and your mother are the happiest. So don't expect you to touch a mamao man. Your forbearance and obedience are taken for granted in their eyes. The affection between him and his mother will always override the affection between husband and wife, because "Ma Baonan" can never leave his mother, but he can leave you at any time. True maternal love is a decent outlet. But many mothers are unwilling to quit and let go, because quitting means that life is empty and boring.

If your husband really loves you, then he will protect you from any injustice in your husband's family. If the husband respects, cares and loves his wife, then the mother-in-law will not dare to bully you no matter how strong she is. In order to love him, you leave your home, your parents, live with his family and get used to their habits. All you want is that he can love you and feel sorry for you. You know, if a man loves you enough, he will definitely ask his family to be good to you. Even if his family really doesn't get along with you, he will at least ask them to respect you. If your in-laws always treat you unscrupulously and regard your dignity as nothing, please don't blame your mother-in-law, no matter what attitude her mother-in-law has towards you, it is your husband's permission.