What if the ex-husband doesn't want to remarry (a man who refuses to remarry with his ex-wife)

It's not easy to meet a person who knows each other and loves each other for life. If it is fate, life is happiness.

If you don't make it to the end, it's a pity that you can only accept it, because those who "miss the end" are not without reason.

People often say that in feelings, men chase women across a mountain, and men's active feelings are not so easy to succeed.

While women chase men's barriers, women's initiative seems to be more successful.

But sometimes, even if women take the initiative to show their love to men, men may not be moved by women's hearts.

All emotional ways are not fixed. Whether a person will be moved by another person's love depends on the situation.

For example, after divorce, men and women will show different love situations when they remarry.

Women are more emotionally dependent on each other. Even if you divorce because the other party is at fault, you will be emotional when you meet the other party's request for remarriage, and you will hesitate whether your ex-husband will change his mind.

Take the man as an example. If the woman divorces because of her own fault and the woman asks for remarriage, the man may be more rational and weigh some.

Sometimes, in the relationship after divorce, the woman's request for remarriage may really not get the man's consent.

Will the man agree to divorce because of his ex-wife's fault and then the woman asks for remarriage?

Beisu interviewed three divorced men, who told the real thoughts of their ex-wives asking for remarriage.

0 1 Mr. Zhu, divorced for one year and eight months, his ex-wife visited him once, and he didn't want to remarry.

When Mr. Zhu divorced his ex-wife, it was also painful, because he loved his ex-wife very much and planned to spend his life with her.

But he said that as a man, he could not accept the betrayal of his ex-wife, even if she was just mentally ill and deviated from the track of their marriage.

After discovering that his wife was chatting with others on WeChat, Mr. Zhu also entangled with his wife for some time.

He became neurotic. He always doubted his wife, and their relationship was once very broken.

Finally, my wife felt that she couldn't feel so much trust and love here and broke up.

Mr. Zhu has lost trust in his wife and can only choose to break up.

Not long after the divorce, Mr. Zhu's ex-wife began to meet Mr. Zhu frequently, first pleading, then crying, and also looking for various opportunities to show her vulnerability in front of Mr. Zhu.

But when Mr. Zhu's ex-wife asked for remarriage, Mr. Zhu was still thinking about what she had hurt him, and he could not love her as before.

Mr. Zhu refused his ex-wife's request for remarriage, although he could not forget their past marriage and feelings for a while.

But he still can't accept his ex-wife, can't forgive, and can't fall in love with her again.

Betraying feelings in marriage is hard to forgive. Even if a woman knows how to repent and behave well with her heart, she may not be able to fill a man's heart.

Mr. He, divorced for 4 years, knew when he divorced that he and his ex-wife were doomed to have nothing to do in this life.

Mr. He had been married for three years when he divorced his ex-wife.

After the marriage, Mr. He's wife was pregnant, but she couldn't cook and couldn't take care of herself, so she asked Mr. He's mother to take care of her.

From then on, their marriage began to have problems. Mr. He's wife didn't work and didn't say anything, but she was also very picky. She has always disliked that Mr. He's mother is from the countryside, not paying attention to hygiene, backward in thinking and without knowledge.

At first, Mr. He coaxed his wife and admitted that his mother came from the countryside, which would be different from their living habits.

Gradually, he began to feel sorry for his wife, because what he saw was that his mother had been quietly paying, taking care of them and taking care of the children, while her wife was ungrateful and picking things up everywhere.

When they divorced, her mother-in-law made a pot of white flour steamed bread, and the old man got his hair into the noodles because of his age.

After eating steamed bread with hair, Mr. He's wife yelled at her mother-in-law, saying that she had endured her mother-in-law's unsanitary behavior for a long time. She didn't understand it so many times, and her mother-in-law just didn't understand it.

Without saying a word, the old man hunched back to the bedroom. That night, Mr. He saw his mother for the first time, and he was so wronged that he shed tears.

The mother-in-law asked Mr. He to send her back to her hometown the next day, but the next day Mr. He filed for divorce with his wife.

My ex-wife left in a rage and didn't want to be woken up by her mother-in-law after six months of divorce. She bought a lot of things to see Mr. He's mother and begged him to remarry with her.

Mr. He disagreed, but he would give more child support, but he felt that his attitude towards his ex-wife was that she was the mother of the child and he had no feelings for her.

Mr. He said that he is not his mother's precious son, but he thinks that if a woman doesn't even know her mother who respects her lover, then she really doesn't deserve a man to protect her life.

From ancient times to the present, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with. Even if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, daughter-in-law should not be too cruel and mean to her mother-in-law, because after all, she is a man's mother.

Mr. Gao is almost 40 years old. The child was only 5 years old when he divorced, and now he is in primary school.

After the divorce, Mr. Gao lived with his children for six years. He didn't remarry and didn't want another family. His only wish is to train his children well.

Speaking of ex-wife, Mr. Gao doesn't want to mention it. Speaking of his ex-wife begging him to remarry, he was very excited. He said I wouldn't forgive her even if she knelt down for me.

In the second year of divorce, his ex-wife came back once and was coaxed away by him. He said that a woman who can abandon him and her children will never forgive her in her life.

When their child was 5 years old, his ex-wife ran away with a rich male classmate, leaving their father and daughter behind.

In fact, before his ex-wife left him, their marriage was not so good. His wife often said that she regretted marrying him and was too poor to be with him. At that time, Miss Gao worked hard to give her a better life.

However, Mr. Gao's ex-wife was not satisfied. She saw a male student developing well at the class reunion and posted it. Finally, she abandoned Mr. Gao and her children in order to live a rich life.

Mr. Gao said that a woman who doesn't even want children for money will never forgive her. She would rather live alone than agree to remarry.

When a person is not moved by another person's initiative to show love, it is mostly because of one reason that he no longer loves.

After divorce, a man who refuses to remarry his ex-wife actually has a "hurdle" in his heart.

Because I was hurt by my ex-wife, I was disappointed in her and her feelings, and there was no love. No matter how much a woman asks for remarriage, she can't get past "not loving" her, so she doesn't want to remarry.

When you meet someone, you can really stay with him until the end because you have care, respect and emotional loyalty to each other in your heart.

If one party in the relationship is wrong, it hurts the other party and hurts the other party's heart, it is still difficult to recover, even if it is replaced by "women chasing men."

In marriage, two people need to be new, advance and retreat together, tolerate and understand each other, and be loyal to each other.

If you do something wrong, it's hard to ask the other half for forgiveness.