What can you say if you want a long-term relationship?

What can you say if you want a long-term relationship? If you want to know what to say, you can get twice the result with half the effort. You can say the following:

1. Take the initiative: For example, since you have made up your mind, I will respect your choice. Let's be rational for a while, but I want you to know that I will be by your side as soon as you turn around.

In this way, the dominant position is in your own hands. Even if you think there is something wrong with the other person, you have helped ease the relationship between you for a while. When she wants to let go, she will still go home and ask you out. It's not that you blindly stipulate the compound type.

2. Give an example of United front with the other side: Thank you for helping me emphasize my own problems. I think it's right and I'm aware of this mistake. But I think we have been together for so long. I hope I can leave exciting memories for you, but we can continue to be friends and you can see my gains.

You don't have to directly deny what the other person said. You should understand that what you want is to stabilize your relationship, not to haggle over every ounce for a temporary result.

At the same time, the other party broke up, which shows that you have great contradictions at this time. If you still stand on the opposite side of her, it will only worsen the contradiction between you and aggravate her resistance to you. Even, it is very likely to be blacked out and deleted.

Therefore, when you break up, you can also choose to stay with her as a friend. In that case, at least you can know her current situation so that you can recover later. At the same time, you can see her at a glance, so that you can attract her later.

For her consideration, for example: since you think that the choice of breaking up will also make you happier, and my wish is to make you happy, then I accept this choice. Naturally, you must promise me that after separation, you must be happy.

Many people will be confused and feel that saying this is equivalent to letting go. Then how can I make it right? Here we need to understand a concept, which is also a blessing, not something you want to give up. You can still keep it after you wish.

The advantage of this is that you listen to her position and accept the conclusion. She is not so stressed and guilty. Instead, she has time and energy to sort out the impact of her failure on her feelings.

Because according to normal people's thinking, after breaking up, everyone thinks you want to save it. As a result, you wish her a lot of happiness, but she doesn't know how to do it.

At the same time, she will also think: Have you long wanted to break up? Why am I allowed to break up when I mention it? Then, I did something wrong emotionally. Slowly, she will start thinking.

Naturally, redemption is not a problem that can be overcome in a word or two. If you are wrong, you can only push the other side farther and farther and improve your own redemption difficulty coefficient. But if you do the right thing step by step and say it correctly, and lay a solid foundation for your later recovery work, you can achieve the desired results in the shortest time.