Husband always belittles you in front of others

It is a mentality of finding self-esteem by belittling others. Although marriage is one of the most intimate relationships, if one person is always belittling and denying the other person in this relationship, then the two people will not be happy. If a person in an intimate relationship can only attack and never talk properly, then what is there to cherish about this relationship?

If your partner only picks on you and belittles you, he never talks properly. No one will affirm you or encourage you. No one can endure the attacks and denials from the other party for a long time. No one can always be gentle and tolerate the negative emotions of the other party.

I also encountered such a problem when I just got married. Instead of having a big fight with my husband, I sat down with him calmly and explained the matter clearly. Understand and let him know that when two people live together, they must know how to respect each other.

And I told him that I am also a person with ideals and dreams. When I want to do something, I hope that he will not belittle me, but encourage me and help me. This is what a husband and wife should do. What needs to be done is also the way for couples to get along.

After this long conversation, my husband completely changed his behavior and way of thinking. I think in this situation, we still need to sit down and let our husbands know our true inner thoughts. , and be able to say what we want, so that my husband can understand us.

The most important thing between husband and wife is communication. Some people like to encourage others by denying and belittling others. But if you don’t like this method and don’t agree that this method can encourage you, then Communicate with your husband and hope that he will encourage you more so that you will be more motivated to do things.

You can try to have a good communication with him about "habitually belittling you" and let him realize that "habitually belittling you" makes you sad and it is difficult for you to accept being The person you love the most belittles you over and over again. Believe me, as long as you make it clear to him, he will change and stop "habitually belittling you" because he loves you.