Letter to prospective sister-in-law

Dear Juaner:

On your engagement day, I held your arm tightly and smiled. I feel very lucky. Fortunately, you will soon become a member of our big family

Dear Juaner:

On your engagement day, I held your arm tightly and smiled. I feel very lucky. Fortunately, you will soon become a member of our big family. Fortunately, our small families will be connected with each other in the future, and more importantly, they will be connected with you and will walk with you.

This is your first time to go home. Very gentle, fresh and natural. When I am in the kitchen, you will naturally come in to help. When we eat, you will seriously praise the sweet and sour pork ribs. My experience is limited, and I think these are all natural and nothing remarkable. However, my mother told me: this baby is really good! With the subsequent contact, we got to know you better and better, and more and more feel that you can completely withstand the evaluation of "really good"!

You have special love. You have a warm and close family. Children who grow up in this family have love and know how to keep close relationship with their families. During the growth of Hanghang, for one reason or another, he didn't get so much love and nourishment from my sister. I feel very sad and sorry about this. Sadly, I did nothing when my brother needed love and protection. Sorry, Hanghang grew up in the absence of love, which may affect the deepening of your intimate relationship. Every time I think about it, I'm worried and glad. I'm glad you're marrying him. You are very caring and know how to love. Endless love will heal all wounds and heal all wounds. However, relying entirely on your love is unfair to you and beyond your power. What you need is the flow and delivery of love. In this marriage school, we have to learn how to feel and express love every day. We are all students who need to update every day!

? There is no doubt that you must be an excellent student. Your heart is pure, warm and meticulous. My family suddenly changed, and I waited in the ICU every day. When everything is still and my life wants to stop, you and Hanghang will go home to see the children every weekend. Don't say anything. After all, you are still young and don't know what to say. You must think that even if you watch and spend time with your children, your heart will be much safer. It really is. When they come back every week, the children will be very excited, especially white. If you go on a business trip, you can't come back. When my uncle comes in, she will cran her neck to watch the door and can't see you. "Aunt didn't come, why didn't aunt come!" She will be so disappointed that she almost turns a blind eye to her uncle standing in front of her. Children's eyes are clear, and children's hearts are keen. God gave them wisdom and perception that adults could not observe. They can reach the deepest part of life and soul that adults can't reach with their eyes and hearts. In the deepest part of Baihe, there must be your warm love to nourish them Thank you very much

? You are smart and patient. In the workplace, you know your strengths and weaknesses. You can always hear your needs clearly in the noise of the outside world Just as you can always find clothes that suit your style accurately, you will have both a sense of fashion and your own characteristics, even accessories. This feature is really precious. Some people close their eyes and plug their ears to avoid interference, and only stay in their own world, which will lose many opportunities. Some people are in a noisy environment, and they are particularly vulnerable to the influence of the environment, so that they lose their own characteristics. You can get along well with the environment without losing your own characteristics, and you can grow actively in the environment without losing your own direction. Just when your taste is becoming more and more fashionable, your heart is still pure. I want to thank you seriously, and thank your parents for training you into a "really good" girl!

? We are glad that such a good girl will soon become a member of our family. Our happiness is more gratitude than snickering. We are grateful to your parents and your family, rather than secretly glad that you are a member of our family. Dear Juaner, you and Hanghang will form your family, and you will stand side by side like two trees. As Shu Ting wrote, "Roots cling to the ground, leaves touch in the clouds", and you "share the cold wave, storm and lightning, and enjoy the mist, flowing haze and rainbow. It seems to be separated forever, but in fact it depends on each other for life. " You become a member of our family as an independent individual. If we love you, we will love you with respect and appreciation. You are our body, we will feel your pain, we will be proud of your achievements, and we will make up for your shortcomings. But we will not control you in the name of love, judge you from our own standpoint, or even interfere with you as a family member. After all, "people are separated from their parents." Your family is independent. I will get along very closely with you, with boundaries. The children will like your home very much, but when they go to your home, they will definitely find a convenient time for you. They have entered all the doors and will definitely knock. They will ask your permission for what they like, return what they borrowed, and abide by the rules of your family when they go. Bounded intimacy will only make us more in love and closer. It will also let our children learn how to get along with the people they love and how to love each other from an early age.

? Dear Juaner, lengthen the timeline of our relationship. Engagement is only the beginning of the relationship, and there will be uncomfortable contradictions and conflicts in the relationship. Put these into the order of love and life, and these uncomfortable contradictions and conflicts will become an opportunity for us to better understand each other and develop closer relationships, without worrying about the future. "Forget the back, work hard ahead, and run straight to the benchmark!" We have always had the blessing of heaven! Love you deeply, bless you deeply, bless you!