I am very helpless. My family always saves money. I understand why. Every holiday in these years seems like a disaster to me.

My family runs a clothing store with an area of more than 300 square meters, so I hire a person to take care of it. I change clothes, register at the cashier, and invite guests. I'm not tired of doing these jobs. In fact, it is easier to sell clothes than other businesses if you have the strength. The problem is that once these three things appear at the same time, I am very tired and completely at a loss. My working hours start at 9: 30 in the morning. Actually, it's good to have a rest. The problem is that I have been like this for a long time, and now I can't rest. I am in pain and helpless. I'm too weak to leave them to work outside. It's no use talking. Just to find fault. My heart hurts. I insist on reading all kinds of recognized good books every day, but I grow too slowly and seem a little confused, because I am a little uncomfortable and in a bad state now.

I understand the answer. By the way, since it's owned by your family, are you the boss or part-time?

Busy business is common, and the accumulation of wealth does not happen overnight. You can't succeed by reading a few so-called good books, otherwise everyone will buy books.

By the way, I'm not saying no. Now it's written and posted, but the recruitment for selling clothes is not as good as other jobs, so it's not allowed to recruit first. I'm really busy now before I'm allowed to recruit. Poor treatment. More accurately, it is worse than other recruitment around me. It's hard to recruit, and it makes me very tired. I started from scratch in recent years, from a junior high school graduate with little knowledge. ! !

Answer why "no" recruitment? Who can't talk? If you are not the boss, you are the manager.

How busy are you really?

What kind of people do you need? If it is another you, I believe the salary will be very low. If you are only busy with one thing, such as changing clothes, you will give priority to greeting guests and cashier, taking into account the quality and control of changing clothes?

You have to teach from the beginning when you recruit, and you can't stay after you teach. After all, everyone is after money, and it is impossible to keep people because of poor treatment. Basically, if you are willing to do so, you can definitely say that you can't find a job. Khan, forget it, the service attitude,,,

It is your responsibility to answer these questions. You are the store manager, and you bring out the service attitude and work level of the clerk. No, you have to be patient. The salary is not enough, and we have to fight for it from the boss. You have to have feelings if you can't keep your salary, right?

Because of the past and long-term self-loss, I was forced to change my personality in order to survive. Although I am easy to learn now, I am still very tired. It was too late when I realized that people should control their own lives when they were alive. When I realized that no matter how big the stage was, I had to be the protagonist to be happy, it was too late. When I realized that the world was like this now, it was too late. If a confused person sees what I wrote, don't expect others to teach you. ! !

The answer agrees with your view that "everything is won by your own efforts", but why change your personality instead of improving yourself? Why do you say "too late"? The inventor of KFC started out with a retirement pension. Are you over 60? Dude.

I just want to say a few more words. There is nothing angry in my heart. Complaining is a very bad behavior. Because of this, I keep all the bad ideas in my heart and try my best to show my good side. Finally, I have a strong dual personality. I found this when I was playing chess in the fourth regiment of the National Army. Although I am a weak person, my chess style is strong, overbearing, fearless and well-defended. But my state is extremely unstable, either high or smelly.

Sincere reply is always the lubricant of life, not repression; Please summon up courage and face the difficulties directly, instead of avoiding them by "two sides". Don't be afraid, please let us see your more frustrated and brave side.

This is a question that I didn't know I could post on Baidu until 8 years later. I have to make up for my empty life anyway.

I grew up differently from others. I get along with people who are difficult to get along with, so my ability to get along with people is very poor, which is beyond my control. My ability to get along with people is obtained through imitation. Man is a reproductive animal, and it is impossible to do things he has never done. Because I really don't understand people, I taught myself human psychology.

Answer: Why do you feel that "I only get along with difficult people, so my ability to get along with people is very poor"? Getting along is a matter for both sides. Is it too extreme to blame only others? Do you look for reasons from yourself? Because what we can change is ourselves, and then influence others through ourselves, that's all.

I'm 28 years old, and I don't even have a girlfriend, nor have I been introduced. Since I began to teach myself at the age of 27, I found that a girl would approach me. Men's ambition really attracts girls to death. I am not reconciled. I want to find that kind of person, but I'm not qualified. People gather at the same level. I know this, so I desperately want to learn it again, but the gap is still irreparable.

Answering the opportunity of life requires "grasping", not "waiting", because the so-called perfection you are pursuing psychologically is beyond your reach. Why not give it a try and take this step bravely?

I have a lot to say. I don't have any friends or people. Don't be poor enough. You will find that there is really nothing. I won't try to do anything against humanity again, but I have done too much before, which is too unstable. Let's not talk about it any more. Besides, I don't know what to say. I'm confused now, so I write very disorganized. Thank you for reading carefully.

The answer is nothing. People are always upset. The last thing I want to tell you is to ask myself what kind of life you want. Then, do your best to achieve it!

Good luck!

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Landlord, if you want to change, you can change, for example, by changing profits through operations, for example, by striving for more authorization. . . Even, change jobs to get rid of anxiety.

Good luck!