Vanity, girlfriends turn against each other in the workplace, how to deal with this situation?

A and B are colleagues in the company. They often make appointments to eat, go shopping and watch movies together. Suddenly, A got a promotion and became B's boss. From then on, A confessed to work, and B was extremely uncooperative, so the dinner was cancelled and the street was stopped. The relationship is very stiff.

Workplace relationships are unpredictable. Two days ago, I was a close friend, and two days later, I was tit for tat, which is puzzling.

In response to this problem, Master Jinghui of Anyi Jieyin Temple said that if you try to find trouble with others every day, your heart will be full of troubles and you will become more and more depraved. If you always see other people's bright spots and admire others, then you are also admiring yourself.

After listening carefully to what we said about the change of AB girlfriends, Master Jinghui told us about an A Temple Master and a B Temple Abbot Master. These two masters are brothers of the same school. Master A is older and has been a monk for more than 30 years. Master B is younger and has been a monk for 20 years. However, Master B is now the vice president of Jiangxi Buddhist Association.

Master A said, "Although I became a monk earlier and am a fellow brother, I still respect him very much. Master B represents the Provincial Buddhist Association, and I should support and respond to his work. " Master Jinghui said.

In the same way, as an employee, the first thing to consider is to safeguard the overall interests of the company, not personal gains and losses. In the face of the overall interests of the company, personal interests are put aside. Failure to cooperate with the boss's work arrangement is a kind of damage to the interests of the whole company.

Don't say that your best friend should be happy to be promoted. Even if someone else is promoted, we should bless him. Always have a happy heart, a happy heart, and girls will become younger and more beautiful.

Master Jinghui said that her best friend was promoted and should cooperate with her work.

Buddhism often says: First, respect Buddha; Second, praise comes. In fact, each of us is a Tathagata, a Buddha and a Bodhisattva, and everyone has a bright spot worthy of our admiration.

If you try to find trouble with others every day, then your heart is really full of troubles and darkness, and it will only get worse.

If you are sunny every day and see others are excellent in what ways, admire him, admire her beautiful photos and admire the classic questions he asks. Only in this way can you open your heart, praise others is praise yourself, and don't be shrouded in jealousy and hatred.

Master Jing Hui said that not only this pair of girlfriends, but also many similar situations will be encountered in life. At this time, you must first "view" yourself. You should understand that you didn't get promoted because you lacked practice.

Just like in Buddhism, we didn't reach the level of our ancestors, but we didn't practice enough ourselves. Find the deficiency of your own ability, find the gap, practice hard, and believe that you can become a founder.

Some people say that Buddhism will flourish, and only monks praise monks. Master Jinghui thinks this is unnecessary. Some people may think that the status quo of the monks' group is not good enough, and they need to praise each other and grow together with * * *.

However, in Master's view, admiration is a part of becoming a monk and a duty. A cultivated master is always respectful and admires all good things.

Zen has a famous case-solving about the ancient Buddha in Zhaozhou.

The Zen master in Zhaozhou was called Guanyin Bodhisattva, who lived to the age of 120. Later people called him the ancient Buddha of Zhaozhou. Once, Zhao Wang came to visit him, and the Zen master was in bed, saying that he was ill and lying down to meet him. Zhao Wang was very moved. After he returned, he sent the general to send several boxes of gifts to thank Zhao Jackson. When the general came, Zen master Zhao Zhou put on the cassock himself and asked the monks to March to the mountain gate to meet the general. The general is also very happy to see this scene.

His disciples asked the ancient Buddha in Zhaozhou that you were partial. Zhao Wang is here, you pretend to be sick. You are very ostentatious when the general gives gifts. This is the core of separation.

Zen master Zhao Zhou said no, because Zhao Wang was a Taoist, and I accepted him as a monk. He was very happy. The general is a secular man. Of course, I will receive him with secular courtesy, and he is also very happy.

Buddhism is inseparable from the world. The biggest reason why Indian Buddhism was introduced into China can take root and sprout is the respect for the secular world and the admiration for its achievements.

Praise is a virtue and a method.

Those who study Buddhism should admire; If you don't learn Buddhism, you can do good and be admirable; I don't do good deeds, but I can take care of my family. I also want to admire. As long as others have advantages, we should all admire them.