I have been kissed six times without success, which stems from my inner inferiority. How to improve the success rate?

After six kisses, you failed, making you feel inferior and helpless. I think the reasons should be as follows:

Blind date should be based on matching conditions. If the conditions are too different, there is little hope of success. Among the six blind date participants, the conditions are superior, so it is normal not to be taken fancy to.

Your family, your education, your job, your appearance, your income, your personality, your speech and your social skills are not enough to meet the requirements of others in choosing a spouse, so they were eliminated.

When dating, you talk too much and you are too poor; Too few words, no initiative, no enthusiasm, trivial work, so that people do not agree.

To this end, to improve the success rate of blind date, you must do:

The standard of the object can be lowered appropriately. Low, not high. In this way, the chances of success will be great.

When you want to kiss, if you think you can, you should take the initiative to strike up a conversation, ask questions and care about them. Invite people to dinner if necessary. It's hard to refuse, even if he doesn't want to, he can't refuse.

People are born once and cooked twice. The more contact, the more emotion. Therefore, you should take the initiative to get people's phone numbers, WeChat and so on. Try to contact many times. You'll be cooked with more contact. Cooked will be pleasing to the eye, and the chances of success will be great.

If possible, we can take her parents' route. Pay more attention to her family and get the love of her parents. You chase hard, her parents rush hard. It will be finished.

Your conditions are still good! There is nothing to feel inferior about! The success rate of blind date is low and there are not many times. Don't be hit by times.

Blind date, eye contact is very important! Give you some advice:

1. Before the blind date, learn as much information about the girl as possible from the introducer, and be interested! Growing environment and so on! You can't fight an unprepared war! Understand this even if you don't meet, just prepare for the next blind date!

2. Nowadays, girls are all Yan Kong, so when they meet, they should dress themselves up in handsome sunshine. As the saying goes, people dress up their saddles. If you are not particularly handsome, you will wear clothes and make up. Handsome hairstyle and decent clothes will make people have a good first impression and want to associate with you!

3. When dating, you can't be a dull gourd and say nothing. Girls think you are boring. Or it's endless. Girls think you are unreliable. Tell her what she needs to know, and don't say too much. If girls know this, you are wrong and will make you look superficial. This impression is not good. Interesting people are popular everywhere. Make girls happy! There must be something down there. If you are too introverted to find a topic, then watch more interesting videos and jokes at ordinary times, study now and save more, which will always come in handy.

4. Always sum up the reasons for the failure of blind date, be more brave, find out the key to the problem and adjust the plan in time. There's no shame in marrying a wife.

Also, when you meet a girl you like, don't give up if you don't succeed at the first meeting. Just pursue it, let the girl see your sincerity and know how good you are! Will be moved!

There is always one that will suit you! Come on!

In fact, in reality, it is not uncommon for a blind date model like you to fail six times. Once, twice, three times, two consecutive blind date failures. In real life, you are definitely not the only one. Perhaps the reason is that fate has not arrived. Maybe the problem does appear on yourself. If you fail due to lack of Excellence, there will be no fate, so it is reasonable that the blind date failed six times. So I think it's not surprising that this blind date failed. As the saying goes, an adopted daughter wants everything, 99 of them go back empty-handed, and only one stays, so there are still many people who fail in blind date. But then again, how to improve the success rate of blind date is really worth discussing. I don't think it takes six blind dates to succeed, and then you can't copy it mechanically. Don't follow the mode of fenugreek, change the mode of blind date, adjust your mentality, don't feel inferior, build up strong confidence, be optimistic and cheerful, don't let introversion occupy your own horizons, try to make yourself extroverted, and give full play to your conscious potential quickly. Without innate advantages, then change the status quo, dress yourself up, play another role, face the interference and pressure of reality with a down-to-earth and sincere attitude, and improve your passive behavior in the past. Be brave, be brave, be positive, try to make yourself excellent, exercise your strong will, learn more from other people's successful experiences, make more friends, improve your social skills, learn language communication, run your own store, slowly expand the scale of your store, try to make your own business successful and earn more money first. In this way, I believe that many things happen, you will find the person you love, and there will be girls who worship you because of your outstanding success. Everything goes well!

Blind date is not successful, knowing that it stems from one's inner inferiority, we must first solve the problem of inferiority.

Don't be proud, don't overestimate yourself, but also position yourself correctly and don't feel too inferior.

First of all, we should know about the current love market. What is your family background and personal conditions? What level do you belong to in society, and then brainstorm and work out your own mate selection criteria.

Blind date must have standards.

Before dating, you should know the situation and see if the other person's conditions are roughly in line with your own standards. If you are close, you can go.

Blind date mainly depends on the eyes, whether two people are comfortable sitting together, whether there are waves in their hearts, whether they are extremely happy and excited.

Some people say modestly that I have no standard for finding friends. No standard is a very troublesome thing, because no standard is a big standard.

People with low self-esteem are unsuccessful in blind date. They are not really inferior. They are at a loss and don't know what their standards are. They always feel that everyone on a blind date is a little unhappy.

Without standards, we will see that no one meets the standards. Too smart people have no money, rich people don't make progress, and enterprising people definitely don't look good.

Blind date is the same as company recruitment. How big the company is, what kind of salary and welfare conditions it has, and then accurately locate what kind of people we can recruit.

After the job advertisement is posted, someone will definitely apply for it and then compare it with the standard. Do it. Forget it if you don't believe it

The question is simple. But the standard must be practical, and only practical can we find the right person.

This blind date first stems from your attitude. Will you tell anyone? Still say that girls can't say it. First of all, blind date shows that you are both willing, and life is not necessarily particularly talkative. What a blind date can do is not to get stage fright, just say what you should say, there is nothing wrong. Second, you should be polite, think everything through, and take all the possibilities into consideration. Moreover, introversion does not necessarily mean reducing the number of items. You can just say that you can't talk, it's boring, and let others be psychologically prepared. Second, you can just say that you are bored. Talk to her often and go out to play. Don't just ask her if she ate, say something else. Come on, if you fail more, you will succeed.

Before you rebuild your confidence, I suggest not to go on blind dates! One of the most important qualities of a man is to have confidence!

Go home and ask your parents, or experienced and capable relatives, to learn how to speak. ! How to praise the woman you like? ! Then go to the internship!

You can drive a Ferrari with one hand instead of six times.

Keep fighting and have confidence in yourself. I had more than 20 blind dates before I got married and finally succeeded. It's a test of life for you, just be brave!

Face it calmly and be confident! Confidence! Confidence!

Why should we feel inferior? We are all from this world.