My boyfriend said that if I don’t have enough money, I can tell him. Is he serious or just talking? Then do I really want to ask him for money?

Since he said this, it generally means that if you need money, you can ask him for help. Whether it is true or not depends on his personality, whether he prefers hypocritical people or serious people. Generally it's not too fake.

But you have to remember two points:

1. Most of it depends on yourself. You can ask for it a few times occasionally. Don’t make too much money. If it is too much, remember to pay it back. It does not mean that you will rely on him to support you in the future, but when the money you earn is not enough for your expenses in certain areas, you can ask him to help temporarily. Whether you pay back the money or not depends on your relationship.

2. You have to remember that asking for money is different from borrowing money. If you borrow money but pay it back, the debt you owe is very small, and he just did you a favor. But if you ask for money, your value decreases every time you ask for money. Compare your relationship to a scale. Every time you ask for money, your bargaining chip will move a little closer to his side. To put it simply, you will owe him a little bit, whether he cares or not, but the actual relationship between men and women will be like this. , so that the equal relationship between both parties will not be maintained.

3. Therefore, if you want to marry someone and completely rely on them, then be bold and ask for it. After all, you want to become his wife, and he should pay some attention now. If you are just boyfriend and girlfriend, just do it occasionally when you think it is necessary, not too often, and set a total amount, so that even if you divide it in the future, there will be no disputes if the money is not much. If you want to maintain your independent identity and value, you can borrow it and say you will pay it back later when you have money. It can also be said that this has nothing to do with the relationship between the two parties, but you know that it is not easy for anyone to make money. Even if you don't return the favor for a short period of time, the man will feel that you are an independent woman and will respect you more and increase your value.