Why do you have to separate tables when you go to your boyfriend's house for dinner?

As a girl, if I go to my boyfriend's house for dinner, my boyfriend's parents let me eat at different tables. This custom is really unacceptable to me, which shows that my boyfriend's parents are typical patriarchal concepts. Living in such a family environment may also be a test of our future feelings. It is possible that my own boyfriend will uphold a male chauvinism concept in his daily life, which will also lead to certain problems for the two of us in the future.

However, I have arrived at my boyfriend's house and was asked by his family to share a table for dinner. In this case, I won't refuse. After all, the first time I go to my boyfriend's house, I must leave a relatively good impression on his parents, and I can't hurt their face because of such a thing. This will only make my boyfriend ugly, but what I have to do is to communicate with him alone after I come back from my boyfriend's home. Explain your inner thoughts and feelings, and hope that my boyfriend can communicate with his parents well, change this concept of son preference in daily life, and let my boyfriend realize that if he holds this view, then the two of us will definitely encounter certain barriers and contradictions in our future feelings. If my boyfriend can understand me and agree with my point of view, then I will continue to choose to be with him. However, if my boyfriend has objections and reservations about this view, then I will re-evaluate whether my relationship with him should continue to develop. After all, marriage is not a child's play, which is related to my happiness in the second half of my life.

Although many girls will encounter this kind of problem and phenomenon, as boyfriends of these girls and their parents, they should also realize the mistake of this view and really learn to respect their future wives and future daughter-in-law. Eating at separate tables for men and women is only a detail, but it will also hurt the feelings between family members and should be put an end to it. Only in this way can we achieve a harmonious family relationship. This problem is a matter of principle in the eyes of many girls, and it is impossible to compromise. As husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should adhere to the way of mutual respect in daily life to ensure the harmonious coexistence of family members.