Is it okay to educate children to just say what to do and not tell why?

As an educator and a mother with children, I want to talk about my personal views here. I think it's wrong to just say what to do without telling them why to educate their children. Because children are still young, the world is colorful for them in the process of exploring everything. Children are the most curious, and their little brains are full of 100 thousand why? I want to touch and do everything I expect. Everything is so beautiful and attractive.

Nowadays, I often see images of various treasure mothers educating their children on some platforms. To tell the truth, most of them are simple and rude. As long as the child is found to have done what he thinks is good, it is slap in the face and abuse. Roaring children, don't do this, don't do that. . . . . . Another part is that children do whatever they want, regardless of whether they care or not. Personally, I think this is also inappropriate. In fact, as parents, as long as we have a little heart, we should guide our children how to do it in the future while correcting their problems. Is this right? So what should I do if I encounter this situation in the future? I believe that children will gradually understand.

Parents' education of their children directly affects everything of their children, emotional intelligence, which is a very familiar and unfamiliar word. In the life of a child who grew up in a harmonious family, there is no inferiority and bitterness in his dictionary. On the contrary. Just as it should be. I remember once, a friend came to my house with his baby. At this time, a guest came. I was cooking and his mother was taking care of him. But, that naughty guy. After a while, they did a lot of damage. I didn't know at that time that they went home after dinner. When cleaning, I saw my lover's leather shoes in the bucket of the toilet. The bed in the room is full of melon seeds. There is a layer of fireworks floating in the water tank at home. Oh, I get bigger and bigger when I see that head, and I don't know how his mother brought up the child.

The children in the neighborhood are only two or three years old. They come to my house to play every day, but they never take other people's things or eat them. In my house, they don't take or touch other people's things. Young as she is, she is very sensible. In these respects, I think the mother of the child has contributed. A child can be seen whether his family education is lacking. What correct guidance have parents made? Neighbors have done a good job in this respect, so that children should know from an early age what is right, what is wrong and what can and cannot be done. When educating children, it is also important to tell them clearly and let them know why they can't do those things. Don't let him do this.