What is the most destructive thing you have experienced personally?

Let me talk about the most destructive thing I have experienced personally, but everyone's lifestyle is different. Maybe you can't accept it, but it is normal in the eyes of others. Sometimes you think it's ordinary, but it's really ruined in the eyes of others.

1. There is a man in our village. His family is poor and he can't afford to marry a wife in the local area, because the bride price is at least 80 thousand, and he has to buy something else. If he doesn't have 65438+ ten thousand yuan, he can't get married. So this guy went to Vietnam and spent 20 thousand? Buy? I have a wife. This woman is beautiful and young. She just came to the village and kept away from everyone. After a long time, she played mahjong with other people and learned the local dialect.

After half a year, I was pregnant. The first child gave birth to a daughter, the second gave birth to a daughter, and the third child was a daughter. Then the family makes money for the man, and the family is under great pressure. He often borrows money from relatives. In the case of no choice, the man went to the construction site to work, but soon left the accident and accompanied a sum of money to his wife.

Then, this man's family is not calm. After all, this wife is Vietnamese. Now that her husband is away, Wan Yi and her children run back. They don't know what will happen to them. So several relatives discussed finding a man to marry this woman in the village.

After searching for a circle, no man is willing to take over such a messy thing. Then he asked the woman if there is a suitable man. Then the woman said yes. She said that she likes her cousin (her husband's cousin). Then everyone asked that? Cousin? I didn't expect him to. He said that his family was poor and he couldn't afford a wife.

Finally, the Vietnamese woman married her husband's cousin with her three daughters, and let the cousin move into the house where her husband used to live. Fortunately, two people really live together, not as bloody as the TV series. In less than a year, the woman gave birth to a son, and now a family of six is ok, but the man's sister is very unhappy, thinking that this kind of thing is too shameful in today's society, and then she goes out to work and can't come back.

This also happened in our village. A woman gave birth to four daughters, and later her family was too poor to support her, so she gave her youngest daughter to the people in the village next door. Later, the daughter grew up and could earn more money. Then her parents go to their adoptive parents every day to ask their daughter to pay alimony. If not, she will let her daughter go home to provide for their old age.

Finally, the adoptive parents' home was disturbed, and then they discussed with the girl and moved to the city. The house was empty. Here comes the matter of spicy eyes. The girl's parents were so thick-skinned that they took someone else's house. Two people moved in, let the other children look after the house and wait for their adoptive parents to come home.

After so many years, the two families have been deadlocked, as if the adoptive parents gave the old house to their relatives, but the relatives did not come back and have been occupied.

In short, every family has a difficult experience!