My mother-in-law's prose

Today's mother-in-law is not the mother-in-law she used to be.

When her husband was very young, her mother-in-law fell ill because of an operation, and she had to lie in bed every winter, unable to cook for her children and clean up the housework. Children's independent living ability has been cultivated, and all children are proficient in washing and cooking. Every time you get sick, you should inject glucose intravenously, eat something nutritious, and then slowly go down to the ground.

My husband is the youngest of my mother-in-law's five children. When we get married and have a baby, my mother-in-law will come to our house to help take care of Phyl, wash the pulp and do some housework, so my husband and I can work with peace of mind. My father-in-law looks after two acres of thin land at home alone. When her mother-in-law was 62 years old in the autumn, when she was taking care of Tengfei at her second brother's house, she suddenly fell ill again. Her second brother is just studying outside, and her second sister-in-law has to take care of two children while working. She had no energy to take care of her mother-in-law, so she had to take her to our house for half a month and finally stood up again. Since then, the mother-in-law who had anemia and hypotension has become a patient with hypertension and coronary heart disease, and the medicine has never left her body.

It was an afternoon in the autumn of 2003, when I suddenly got a call from my eldest brother, my father-in-law was ill in the county hospital! My husband, my second brother and my second sister-in-law work in the same town. The four of us took a taxi to the hospital together. My father-in-law is still in the emergency room. When I was having lunch with my mother-in-law, I suddenly coughed up blood and fainted to the ground. My mother-in-law called her eldest brother and called an ambulance to the hospital. After careful examination by doctors and comprehensive diagnosis of various examinations, esophageal cancer is advanced! A bolt from the blue, 72-year-old father-in-law has always been in good health, how did he suddenly get this disease? Husband can't accept it, crying in the corridor. It's no use crying when you're already sick, so deal with it actively. After consulting with the five brothers and sisters, the doctor decided to treat conservatively. So, my mother-in-law locked the door of her hometown and lived in our house with her father-in-law. Everything at home was taken care of by her eldest brother and sister-in-law. Every day, my mother-in-law goes to the hospital with her father-in-law for radiotherapy, walks with her father-in-law and watches the traditional Chinese opera programs on CCTV 1 1. We bought all kinds of good food for her father-in-law, and her mother-in-law cooked it for her father-in-law in different ways. That's it. The thinner and thinner father-in-law left us forever in the autumn of the following year and left his wife who had been with him for 55 years.

Since then, my mother-in-law has never left our family and has become a member of our family. She cares about the life of her son, daughter-in-law and grandson. We have become travelers of the past, especially me. I put all my energy into my work, which is particularly outstanding. However, I bought everything in my mother-in-law's house, such as haircut, pedicure and medicine ... I am sometimes busy, so I let my third child buy it because she is not at ease.

My mother-in-law has always been a patient with hypertension and coronary heart disease, and the medicine has never stopped. She has been moving forward healthily and tenaciously, going to the hospital 3-5 times a year for some days. After leaving the hospital, he recovered for a week and returned to normal. I went downstairs for a walk, chatted with the old lady in the community and cleaned up some housework.

Recently, the 88-year-old mother-in-law has changed.

Don't close the door when sleeping, saying it's hot and dry (I'm afraid of noise); During the day, the north and south windows are open and the sofa is lying, saying that it is air circulation; My leg hurts and I'm still walking around the room; As soon as I saw my husband and I go to work, I said it hurt and itched; Say to me: Ma Fei, if only you were at home with me when you are not at work. When I get off work, I stay at home with her, upset; Get angry for no reason, lose your temper for no reason. I will forget what I said and did in an instant, and deny what I said and did; Take medicine after lunch, lie down for 1.5 hours, get up and say it's dark before taking medicine; Listen to me. I'm in the hospital for chemotherapy, and I'm busy looking for her medicine box. This medicine is gone, and that medicine is gone. I said, I'm ready. If it's gone, let my second sister buy it. Her mother-in-law said she wouldn't buy it. She doesn't know what to buy. On this day, my elder sister came, and I asked her to learn to pedicure her mother-in-law's corns. My mother-in-law kept saying, I can do it. Sometimes I am angry and funny: "Mom, I am a cancer patient now. You are exhausted! " "

It seems that my mother-in-law's cerebellum has shrunk!

Old children, old children, it seems that on that day, that smart, capable and kind mother-in-law is gone forever, and now we need to take care of them like parents take care of their babies.