What are the six qualities that a man deserves to marry?

There is a song called Sister Sister Stand Up. The lyrics sing: "Ten men are seven stupid, eight stupid, nine bad, and everyone loves them. Sisters jump out, even if it is sweet talk, deceive him, love him well, and never let him leave. "

This song sings a girl's wish, that is, to get that good man. However, this song also brings out an eternal mystery. What kind of man is a good man?

I think everyone has different standards for defining a good man. Some girls think that a man who is willing to spend money for himself and can make money to live a good life for himself is a good man. Some girls think that it is a good man who wants to be good to himself and can give himself warmth and security. Some girls think that a man who can bring it back is a good man.

Actually, I think it's just like shoes don't fit. Whether this man is good or not, only the people who wear it know, only the women around him know.

However, after listening to the stories of the six of them, I found that most good men have the same characteristics. Probably that sentence, love rat has different scum, but good men have similar good.

So, if your man has these six characteristics, I think he is worth marrying.

1, he will eat the rest of you.

Short story, I have seen a TVB TV series. The hostess especially likes eating milk and making cookies, but she doesn't like drinking milk. So, every time she finishes cookies, her milk boyfriend drinks them.

She said that the man looked at the woman's face with satisfaction after drinking milk, and she would never forget it. At that time, she firmly believed that if a man would eat what you left behind, he would love you very much.

For so many years, Xiaoxiao has been looking for this little happiness in her heart until she meets her current husband. This is a man of few words, but very careful. Since the first meeting, he has been silently taking care of Mix.

He remembers what Xiaoxiao likes and can't eat. He will take care of Xiaoxiao's emotions and accompany her to do many things she wants to do.

What made Xiaoxiao determined to spend the rest of his life with him was that once two people went out together and ordered a little clay pot rice, but after eating a few mouthfuls, he found that it was not what he wanted.

When her boyfriend asked her to order whatever she wanted, she was a little hesitant and thought it was too wasteful. My boyfriend didn't even think about it, so naturally he took the small rice and ate it, saying that he had eaten too much anyway.

Looking at him, two words suddenly came to mind, that is happiness.

Girls are really simple creatures and are easily moved. If you are kind to her, she will give you double reward. So her boyfriend is now a little husband. He still eats snacks and leftovers, and he also gives her the happiness she wants.

A man will eat the rest of your food, which proves that he loves you enough, indicating that he is not pretending in front of you and is not afraid of losing face.

Such a man is worth marrying.

I'm waiting for you to hang up first, whether it's a phone call or a video.

After reading a sentence, I said that the person who always lets you hang up first must love you very much, because the person who hangs up later will inevitably feel lonely and sad when he hears the end of the beep.

Linlin said that when she is in love with her husband, whenever she calls and videos, he will wait for Linlin to hang up first. Once, Linlin was on a business trip. She was a little afraid of staying alone in a hotel, so her husband accompanied her to watch videos until she fell asleep.

When she woke up the next day, she saw a message from her husband on her mobile phone. He said, "I saw you fall asleep, waited for a long time and called you many times to make sure you wouldn't wake up." I hung up. Call me when you wake up. Oh, I have been there. By the way, you are not drooling. "

At that moment, Linlin felt so sweet. She feels that if she can live like this all her life, she will be really satisfied.

My husband has been very kind to Linlin since we got married. Once two people talked about what happened when they were old, and the husband said, "I hope you walk in front of me, because those who walk behind have to bear more." Don't worry, I will protect you in this life. "

You see, people who love you always want to help you out of trouble, from a small phone call to the end of your life. They all want to help you solve all the problems behind you and let you run forward freely.

If you meet such a man, I think you can consider marrying her, because in his heart, your happiness will always come first.

3. I will take the initiative to carry my bag when I see you.

I think those natural little moves between lovers are the most touching.

I have been out with my sister several times recently, and her boyfriend always accompanies me. I found that every time a boy sees his sister, he will take the initiative to pick up her bag at the first time. This small move, seemingly casual, makes people feel very warm.

Probably because of my sister's sensitivity, I will observe this boy very carefully. I found that he is not only a little trick, but also silently helps his sister choose what she doesn't like, helps her choose shrimps and bones, and buys her hot drinks when eating.

All these show the boy's love for his sister. I asked my sister how she felt about that boy, and she said it was warm and practical. In fact, for a girl, this is enough.

I remember once upon a time, there was a friend's boyfriend. No matter how heavy her bag was that day and how tired she was, he wouldn't help carry it because he felt ashamed.

Such a man, in his heart, you can never compare with his face, can you still entrust yourself to him?

It's no big deal that a man will take the initiative to carry your bag, but I think it just shows your position in his heart. A man who won't be nice to you before marriage, you must never imagine that he will be nice to you after marriage. That's impossible.

I'll tell you to stand still, and then I'll come to you

At the moment when many girls are dead men's hearts, I can't take a taxi alone. I hope my boyfriend can pick me up but I am rejected. Seriously, if a man doesn't pick you up in the rain and let you take a taxi home, if you don't pick you up after working overtime, let yourself be careful, if you are sick and uncomfortable, let you go to the hospital alone ... then, he doesn't love you.

The man that Qingqing met always appeared when she needed it most. Qing Qing said that she has always been a particularly independent girl. Even if it rains or falls ill, she wants to find a way to go at the first time, instead of asking anyone for help.

She was not born with this personality, but she was injured too many times and could no longer rely on others defenseless. Yes, when you want to rely on others again and again, but you are ruthlessly rejected, you will never trust anyone again. Those girls who are independent enough to make you feel distressed have had times when they especially want to rely on their other half, but they just met inappropriate people.

When Qing Qing met her current boyfriend, she was still the stubborn girl who wanted to rely on herself for everything, but her boyfriend told her again and again, "I want you to rely on me, and I hope you can do whatever you want."

Seriously, Qingqing didn't believe it at first, but later, every time Qingqing worked overtime, he would pick her up. Every time it's windy and rainy, he will tell Qingqing not to leave when he goes to work.

Qing Qing said, it's really great that he will come to you no matter what happens. This has happened many times, but Qingqing slowly let her guard down. She said that she thought that she would never meet true love in her life, which seemed too pessimistic.

Now married, still so sweet. So, if you meet a man, he will tell you to stop, come to you and marry him, and you will be happy.

5. I will pay for you silently.

It's normal for couples to pay each other, but some men always like to emphasize how much they have paid for you. I hope you can be grateful. This kind of man is selfish.

The man who really loves you will silently pay for you and won't even tell you how much he has paid. They don't want you to be stressed, and they don't want you to feel guilty and accommodating.

Yaya said that she never felt that her husband had done anything for herself before, and she always felt that everything he did was just a very common thing. But suddenly once, her husband had to travel for a long time, and Ya found herself at a loss.

When she got up in the morning, she didn't know what to do for breakfast, because her husband used to cook it for herself. After work, Ya Ya doesn't know where to finish her meal, because her husband used to order food. In a week's time, the home became a mess. Yaya couldn't do housework, and many of her things could not be found.

She called her husband in tears and blamed him for raising a giant baby. When she said this, she realized how much her husband had paid for herself over the years.

My husband smiled and apologized on the other end of the phone, saying that he had to explain this to Ya Ya before he left. Yaya asked her husband if he was tired of doing these things, why he never told himself? He just said, I am willing to do these things for you.

Look, is it really warm? When a man is willing to pay for you silently and never asks you for anything in return, this man is worth marrying, because only such a man will be willing to pay for you all his life instead of showing his true colors on a whim.

6, will refuse the temptation of other girls.

What is the most important thing to spend a lifetime with a man? I think it is a sense of security. So how can men give women a sense of security? Is to refuse the temptation of other girls.

Many people say that not a good man will cheat, and many men who have nothing will prove themselves or seek comfort by cheating.

Therefore, judging whether a man is suitable for marriage depends on his attitude towards the opposite sex.

Feifei said that her boyfriend's husband was particularly popular with girls at that time. Every time I go out to eat, girls will add his WeChat. However, he always said, please add my girlfriend, so he politely refused.

Moreover, his friends also said that every time he went out to play, he never chatted with other girls. No matter how other girls suggest approaching him, he will only say that he has a girlfriend, and even if he needs to take a photo with a girl at work, he will always put his hand behind his back.

Feifei has talked about bad relationships before. Those men refused to disclose their relationship with themselves, and generally cast nets to concentrate on salvage, always keeping a retreat for themselves, which made her feel as if she had talked about a fake love.

At that time, she thought all men were like this until she met her husband. At first, she thought that this man might be faking it, but slowly, with more times, she began to believe that there really is a person in this world who will refuse all possibilities for you and be single-minded to you.

You have to wait, he will come.

What kind of man you want to marry, you must know for yourself, don't miss the right person in indecision, and don't pay for your life by mistake because of impulse.

If you want to ask my advice, I want to tell you that a man with these six characteristics can think more about it. After all, if you love it, you can't pretend or hide it.