Do you think it's better to have a boy or a girl in life now? What are the benefits?

The first child must be a boy. Very good!

Don't call me old-fashioned, that's what I think. That's what God arranged for me. When my son was born, the whole family was very happy.

What's wrong with having a son inherit the family business?

My second child is a girl, which I think is better. Who doesn't want to have a daughter in society now? If it is wartime, I'm afraid no one wants to have a daughter! Because it's hard for you to protect her.

Peacetime is different. It is a very happy thing to have a sweet little cotton-padded jacket.

Well, it is not easy to raise a child in today's society. After having two children, I don't want to have any more children.

I don't know about you.

In fact, I think it's better to have children naturally! After all, boys and girls are all the same.

Never interfere in order to want a boy or a girl. Induced labor is very harmful to mother, so try not to take this method.

I think everything is fine. I never thought about whether it was a man or a woman when I was pregnant, as long as I was healthy. No matter what you are born with, there will always be a good side. So whether boys or girls are good, in fact, everyone is talking more about growth. I think these are all relative.

The benefits of boys

Don't worry. There is not much difference between boys and girls when they are young, but they begin to show differences from adolescence. In the process of growing up, I was actually more worried about girls and boys. Furthermore, on the whole, because I feel from the bottom of my heart that that boy will not leave home, I feel relatively at ease with that boy. If it's a girl, it's really heartbreaking as an adult. Relatively speaking, boys are more reassuring.

The benefits of girls

Girls are more caring. Girls are generally more careful, so they are more caring. A girl as a child will be the source of happiness for everyone. Probably, most people think that girls can't stay with them all their lives, which is more relaxed. When I grow up, I will be a sweet little cotton-padded jacket. Especially after they grow up and get married, they can better understand their parents' difficulties. Compared with boys, they mature relatively late and are far less considerate than girls.

In fact, whether boys or girls, the key lies in people, education is good or not, are all the same.

Few people should pay attention to the question of whether it is better to have a boy or a girl now. Both boys and girls are very excited and happy for young parents.

However, it does not rule out the expectation of some grandparents to have a boy. When they hear that it is a boy, they will be happy from ear to ear, but when they hear that it is a girl, they will be dull and colorless, and even leave.

There are two young relatives at home. After four or five years of marriage, they have no children. My mother-in-law has always said that she gave birth to a child last year, which is a girl. Because she was near, we were in the hospital when she was born. Her family and her husband's family were waiting outside the operating room.

Hearing the nurse carrying the child out, the mother-in-law ran over and asked if it was a boy or a girl. When the nurse said it was a girl, her mother-in-law's face suddenly darkened, but when she saw her mother-in-law's parents passing by, she immediately showed a habitual smile and said, "Oh, my god, the baby is so cute. It looks exactly like her father." The appearance of hypocrisy is obvious.

The son got married and gave birth to a child. His surname is still the same as his father's. Generation after generation, China people only pay attention to the family line, but their daughters are different. Although it is a sweet little cotton-padded jacket, if you marry someone else, your child will take her husband's surname.

But why is it a fame to have a son and a blessing to have a daughter? Think about it. Are you happy when he grows up, marries a wife, has a son and a big fat man? But what about his son's money for a wife? House, bride price, car ... which one is free? There is less pressure to have a daughter. Families with better conditions will accompany a suite or a car. Those with poor conditions will do their best to accompany them and see their wishes, but sons are basically hard.

And these things are not bound by any conventions or rules. As long as two people have a correct concept of fertility and education, no matter whether they are boys or girls, they should not have any prejudice. Children will be the treasures of their parents.

The first type: the first-born girl.

If the husband is a girl, the offspring are boys. Boys will be favored and have a higher status in the family. Because of their young age, family members naturally show more love for young children. There are also some families who have a preference for boys, especially boys. If the elder sister is older than the younger brother, there will be more things to do.

If my brother is naughty, my sister will discipline him severely. He will also have a strong personality and be strict with his younger brother. Usually the first child is a girl's child, and she is very independent and can handle everything by herself. When parents are not at home, they can also take care of their younger brother like adults.

The second kind: the eldest son

If the husband is a boy, this situation is completely different. Boys themselves are a little impatient and playful. But if you have a sister at home, things will change. Boys will feel responsible and must take good care of their sisters. In character, it will also become softer and more stable and responsible.

Everything is for my sister's sake. Let her eat first when eating. Moreover, if the husband is a boy, after the girl is born, the elder brother will not only have a companion, but also give her care and help. Because of this, many families want boys and gentlemen. There are also some families who want to have another girl after giving birth to a boy. Especially when there is only one boy in the family, it is easy to be spoiled by the family. At this time, a little sister will be added to the family, and the boy's personality will also change greatly.

Is it better to have a boy or a girl in the first birth?

It doesn't have to be like this. The first child gives birth to a girl, and the second child may give birth to a boy or a girl. This is generally uncontrollable. In fact, it doesn't matter if you have boys and girls, as long as the baby is healthy and healthy. Nowadays, preference for boys is more serious in most rural areas, but everyone knows that boys are famous, girls are blessed and having a boy is very happy. In fact, think about how lucky your future parents are to have a girl, because girls are more docile and obedient.

In fact, parents and elders should enlighten them. Is it better to have a boy or a girl in the first birth? I think let nature take its course. This kind of thing is not for people to decide. In any case, the healthy arrival of children is a good thing. Whether it is better to have a boy or a girl in the first birth is also related to academic qualifications. I believe that if rational parents educate their children, boys and girls will have no problem.

Having boys and girls is not a choice for parents. If you can choose, of course, you all want one son and one daughter.

Billionaires with rich wealth all want boys to inherit their wealth and business, such as the gambling king family. After Ming Xi gave birth to a boy, He Youjun said between the lines: "We are boys, the grandson of the gambling king, and the only male among the grandchildren." If the baby is a girl, it is estimated that the report will say when it is planned to call again.

Of course, in some places, people also have the custom of favoring boys over girls. For mothers, boys and girls are pregnant in October. How can we treat our children lightly because of gender differences?

Some people say that raising boys burns money and raising girls makes money. This is still an old idea. Giving birth to a girl requires investment. It's not the old society now. Girls don't go to school and do farm work at home to cut pig grass. If you don't study or learn something now, you will fall behind the times.

Besides, do girls earn money when they are married? The bride price given by the man is still for the couple. Any parent will be willing to spend his daughter's bride price, and can't wait to post more.

Therefore, enlightened parents will feel that giving birth to boys is as stressful as giving birth to girls.

Even if the gender is different, the boy is careless and the daughter warms her heart carefully, but no matter the boy or girl, as long as you educate with your heart, you will gain endless benefits. The careless boy will warm his heart, talk to his mother and massage his feet. As for girls, they can draw pictures and make handicrafts with their mothers, and go shopping and buy clothes with their mothers.

In the process of accompanying my children, I can go through my childhood again and grow up again. What a wonderful thing! As for having a boy or a girl, it is all the same.

If the first child is a boy, the family will be very happy. Because boys grow up to a certain stage, they will show male chauvinism. At this time, many boys will subconsciously protect their sisters. Therefore, parents need not worry at all. Both children will be bullied outside and protected by their brothers. Although they will encounter all kinds of ups and downs in life, as a brother, he will protect his sister for the first time at any time, so parents don't need to worry too much.

Second, if it is a girl, the family will be happy, because when the girl grows up to a certain stage, she will know how to take care of the children younger than him, and will also help her mother reduce the burden, and the girl will not be too naughty. And parents don't need to worry too much.

So when we look at a person at ordinary times, we don't have to have boys and girls.