How to be quiet and angry (sister-in-law's contradiction escalates into an enemy)

Sister-in-law is two women with different personalities and different life trajectories entering the same family. The subtle relationship between brother and sister appeared from the beginning, and hostility in life became more and more obvious. They always doubt each other's ideas.

Children are the pride of parents, especially girls. When it comes to marriage, parents will seriously ask about the boy's family situation. When they heard that there were many brothers in the boy's family, the woman was not happy and worried that her daughter would be wronged when she got married. Why do you say that there are more brothers and more troubles? I have heard it many times in my hometown, and my sister-in-law often quarrels over trifles.

Sister-in-law War

The contradiction of a big family is mainly the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the contradiction between brothers and sister-in-law. Many contradictions are caused by interests, and almost many contradictions come from interests. For example, the life of big brother is more comfortable than that of younger brother. Big brother often helps his younger brother behind his wife's back. When his daughter-in-law knew about it, a family conflict began.

Parents can't have a bowl of water. Seeing the rich living conditions of the eldest son, the mother-in-law began to favor the younger son and speak for him everywhere. When the eldest daughter-in-law saw it, she was jealous and found fault with her mother-in-law. She never wants to buy gifts for her in-laws. She bluntly said, "Be partial to her youngest son and don't look for us." Even if the in-laws are sick, the daughter-in-law is still worried that "everyone wants a younger son, and he is sick and looking for a younger son"! There are many brothers at home. Generally, the eldest bears a little more, and the youngest is always spoiled by parents. Two sisters-in-law began to be jealous and suspicious.

Sisters in legal contradictions

Parents are getting older and older, and the industry is distributed to their children. Old people naturally have no source of income and can only rely on their sons to provide living expenses. It's better for the old man to have a fixed residence, and the two brothers take turns to take care of him, so that the old man will be pushed around. Old enmity and hatred will appear, and both of them will not give in, for fear that the elderly will spend more of their own money and even turn their inner resentment into a "language attack."

The separation of brothers is a common contradiction. It is normal that one tree has many branches and one family is scattered. Contradiction is the root of unfair separation. The two brothers have deep feelings and don't complain more or less, especially between their sisters-in-law. Being a big brother has a sense of responsibility and wants to leave good things to his younger brother. In front of his younger brother, he is a generous eldest brother, but in front of his daughter-in-law, he becomes a "trash can". His daughter-in-law even scolded him for not fighting for property for his wife and children. The narrow-minded daughter-in-law can't swallow this tone and feels unfair to her family. So, the contradiction came.

Sisters in legal contradictions

I often hear "mother-in-law is at my youngest son's house". In fact, the imbalance between the old man and the two brothers is the reason for the disharmony between sister-in-law and brother-in-law. The old man takes care of one child, while the other takes care of nothing, not even the baby. The way to serve two daughters-in-law in the second month is different, and the sisters-in-law are also secretly fighting, and no one will obey anyone. When the old man is bedridden, his sister-in-law will disagree on hospitalization expenses and maintenance obligations. Although there are some small contradictions, their hearts can never be opened. Over time, the contradictions have become bigger and it is difficult to live in peace.

As the saying goes, everything goes well at home, and everyone has a side of pursuing advantages and avoiding disadvantages. Everyone is running their own small family, of course, the interests are also starting from themselves. Some sister-in-law and mother-in-law get along well. They have never been red-eyed because of trivial matters. Everyone gives in to each other in life and takes a step back. Small contradictions go with the wind, and big contradictions are naturally suppressed.

Sisters in legal contradictions

How to eliminate the contradiction between sisters-in-law? Brothers should understand each other, be humble to each other, communicate with their wives more, and cultivate the feelings of their sisters-in-law. Brothers should try not to keep up with the joneses, and should not blame their parents for their so-called fairness, but should understand their care for small families. Be generous and tolerant when things go wrong. If one party is willing to endure hardships and tolerate, the other party will be affected, and gradually, the contradiction between sister-in-law will be less.