What does the Analects of Confucius say about making friends?

The sentences about making friends in "The Analects of Confucius" include "I have to examine myself three times every day: Is it unfaithful to seek others? Do I trust my friends when I make friends? Do I trust my friends?" If you are not as good as yourself, don’t be afraid to change it.”

1. I have to examine myself three times every day: Are you being disloyal to others? Make friends but don’t believe it? Are you not used to it? ——From "The Analects of Confucius·Xueer"

Translation: I reflect on myself many times every day: Is there anything disloyal about doing things for others? Is there anything wrong with keeping promises when interacting with friends? Have you reviewed the studies taught by the teacher?

2. Confucius said: "Zuo Qiu is ashamed of his clever words, his charming appearance, and his courtesy. Qiu is also ashamed of him. He hides his grudges and is friendly to others. Zuo Qiu is ashamed of him, and Qiu is also ashamed of him. "——From "The Analects of Confucius·Gongye Chang"

Translation: Confucius said: "Sweet words, smiling faces, nodding and bowing, Zuo Qiuming thinks it is shameful, and I think it is shameful; having sex with others with resentment. Friends, Zuo Qiuming thinks it is shameful, and I think it is shameful as well."

3. Yan Yuan and Ji Ludai. Confucius said: "What do you say about your aspirations?" Zilu said: "I wish that my chariots and horses would be lightly furred, and I would have sex with my friends, and I would have no regrets about it." Yan Yuan said: "I wish that I would never do good deeds, and that I would not do any hard work." Zilu said. Said: "I would like to hear your ambition!" The word goes: "The old are at ease with it, the friends believe in it, the young are pregnant with it." - From "The Analects of Confucius·Gongye Chang"

Translation: Yan Yuan and Ji Lu serve hour. Confucius said: "Why don't you tell us everyone's wishes?" Zilu said: "I would like to use my chariot, horse and fur coat with my friends, and I will not regret it if they break down." Yan Yuan said: "I hope I can do it without showing off my advantages. , Don’t promote merit.” Zilu said: “What is your wish?” Confucius said: “I hope that the elderly can enjoy happiness, the children can be cared for, and my friends can trust me.”

4. Confucius said: "The Lord is loyal and trustworthy. Don't make friends who are not as good as yourself." - From "The Analects of Confucius·Zihan" "Friends, don't be afraid to correct mistakes."

5. Confucius said: "Three friends will benefit you, and you will lose three friends: friends who are straightforward, friends who are forgiving, friends who are knowledgeable, friends who are friendly, and friends who are friendly. Friends who are treacherous will be harmed. "——"The Analects of Confucius·Ji Shi" Translation: Confucius said: "There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. Make friends with integrity and integrity. , Knowledgeable friends are beneficial. It is harmful to make friends with flattering people, people who flatter others on the surface but slander people behind their backs, and people who are good at talking. ”

6. A gentleman makes friends through literature. , Assist benevolence with friends. ——From "The Analects of Confucius·Yan Yuan"

Translation: A noble person gathers friends with his literary talents, and relies on his friends to support his benevolence.

Sentences about learning in "The Analects of Confucius":

1. To know something is to know it, and to know it is to know it, and to know it is to know it. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Zheng"

Translation: Knowing means knowing, not knowing means not knowing. This is smart.

2. A man with lofty ideals and benevolence will not harm his benevolence by seeking life, but will kill himself to achieve benevolence. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong"

Translation: A person with lofty ideals and a benevolent person will not compromise benevolence in order to survive, but he can sacrifice his life to achieve benevolence.

3. When quality is better than literature, the country will be wild; when literature is better than quality, history will be achieved. Be polite, then be a gentleman. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Yong Ye"

Translation: If simplicity exceeds literary talent, it will inevitably appear rude; if literary talent exceeds simplicity, it will inevitably become vain. Only when literary talent and simplicity are perfectly combined can one become a gentleman.

4. Do your duty and do not give in to the teacher. ——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Linggong"

Translation: In the face of benevolence, even the teacher cannot be humble to him.

5. If his body is upright, he will not do what he is told; if his body is not upright, he will not do what he is told. ——From "The Analects of Confucius·Zilu"

Translation: (As a manager) If you behave upright, you don't need to issue orders, and things will be implemented; if you are not upright, even if you issue orders, the people will also Won't listen.

6. People who have no faith do not know what is possible.

——"The Analects of Confucius·Wei Zheng"

Translation: If a person is not trustworthy, I really don't know how he can do it. It's not okay to accuse people of not being trustworthy.