My husband is very stingy. What should I do?

It is rare for a husband to be so stingy. You are all married, and you can't reach the goal of spending money. You are drunk, too. In fact, it's good that your husband doesn't want to spend money, and a man who doesn't have to go out to spend money all day is much better. Not willing to spend money is not a habit formed in a day or two, but it has been like this since childhood. Didn't you find that your husband was unwilling to spend money when you first fell in love? You can infect him slowly with your own actions. The most important step is to control the financial power of your family in your own hands, so as to save your husband from limiting your expenses. Nothing you can do can stop it.

There are many manifestations of unwillingness to spend money. I think if your husband is unwilling to buy things for his family and pay for his elders, then this is a big problem. I have seen men who dig holes around their neighbors' houses and are unwilling to spend money to buy things for their parents. If your husband is like this, even if you quarrel, be generous. There are many ways to save money, not for the daily expenses of the elderly and the family.

If your husband saves money elsewhere, forget it. If he doesn't want to spend money, forget it, as long as you are free. Men don't want to spend money as long as they have the ability to make money. Why? If your husband always hates you buying clothes and bags, then I think there seems to be something wrong with your marriage. Spending money has its own ideas, and other places must have different views. For example, if you are not willing to spend money when eating, you are definitely not willing to buy meat. Over time, it is inevitable depression.

Therefore, you hold financial power in your own hands, better than anything else, and you can spend money freely. If he is willing to save money and refrain from spending money, so be it.