Bi Shumin said that women need wisdom more than men to make themselves more perfect and the world more wonderful!

Soft, sometimes stronger than a storm,

Starting from herself, Bi Shumin wrote a book about the spiritual growth of women.

Dozens of essays, one after another, tell women's feelings about love, marriage and family.

With the theme of "Women's Growth", this book collects dozens of Bi Shumin's essays in different periods, and expounds women's feelings about love, marriage and family growth.

Softness is the restraint of strength and the serenity of high self-confidence. May you feel soft as a cloud one morning.

soft power

Bi Shumin

Women need wisdom more than men, because they are softer animals. Wisdom is the golden soft armor of excellent women. Only when you save yourself can you save others. A woman without wisdom is a transparent seaweed. They have neither the ability to fight back against foreign invasion nor the countermeasures to adapt to their own variation. These cities will never be defended. Wisdom is an axe in a woman's delicate hands, a thorn in her journey and a relic around her. In the face of the complicated sea, wisdom is a white sail that never fades in the daughter's home.

Excellent and intelligent women, representing the hemisphere of human brain, send a loud and slightly sharp voice to the world, echoing in front of every mountain.

But women have little wisdom. They are clever rather than sober. Too much powder blurred their eyes, and the narrow circle bound their imagination. Their sense of smell is easy to be dull in sweet words and confused in complicated paths. Wisdom is not only a gifted only child, but also an experienced, experienced and courageous student. Wisdom is a piece of grass, which needs carving, and carving needs opportunity.

Not every gem will be bright, not every tree species will be tall and straight.

I am a conservative farmer. Facing the wheat seedlings on a barren land, I really dare not estimate the harvest too well. There are usually fewer smart women than we think.

A good woman still needs courage. On this small planet, there is no contradiction, and the contradiction between men and women is still thriving. The warring sides will always fight with each other, just like a rope twisting a thread forward. If you are an excellent woman, no matter which field you sail to, you will meet the best man in the world sooner or later. Don't expect a dry straw for you to lean on, and don't always look for an old roof in the street to shelter from the rain. When you are inferior to a man, he will help you generously; When you pass a man by, he will fight you seriously. Is this a good woman's luck or misfortune? A kind, intelligent and brave woman should dare to walk alone in the dark wilderness, swim across the river like a mermaid at the wilderness ferry without bridges, boats and crows.

What's the ratio?

Looking at the increasingly sparse queue, I really can't bear to make the sieve hole too big. But women are naturally timid, just like mimosa is willing to close its leaves. You can't be too hard on them.

Now, there are not many women walking on the long stairs.

Finally, talk about beauty.

It is cruel to ask for a woman's beauty after such a hard journey, just as we look for crystal flowers after a storm.

But women need beauty. Beauty is a woman's first and last charm. The unfair woman failed the favor of the creator. They are not the scenery of the world, but they have become pollution.

What is beauty? A thousand people have a thousand different opinions. I can only throw my bricks.

Beauty is harmonious first. Harmony of face, harmony of body and harmony of spirit and flesh. Beauty is not a delicate and ingenious combination of parts, but a whole beauty, and even defects are a kind of harmony, just like the laurel shadow in the moon. Isn't that the most reliable material basis for the bright moon to cause countless reverie? Harmony is a kind of brilliance that the soul radiates outward, and it finally moves towards holiness.

A beautiful woman, secondly, be gentle. The feeling of being too hot and noisy is not beauty, but a kind of excitement. The beauty of an excellent woman is like a breeze, giving the world a subtle warmth. Of course, it can also accommodate the enthusiasm like a bonfire. But you see, the tongue of the beating flame is so soft, like bright red maple leaves, like soaked red silk, and the passionate part is still delicate and soft.

Beautiful women should be lasting. All fleeting beauty belongs to things instead of people. Beauty is as pure as dew when she is young, as vigorous as birch when she is young, as dignified as ears of wheat when she is middle-aged, and as smooth and dignified as an estuary when she is old.

Beauty can stand the scrutiny of time. Time is not the enemy of beauty, but the agent of beauty. It makes beauty present different states at different times, from simple to profound.

The beauty of a woman is not just a lantern lit with candles, it is natural gas that can burn continuously. The duster of time gently sweeps away the beauty of a woman's face, but it is cultured and gives her an eternal cosmetic-the so-called temperament. It's a pity that some women are silly and lose their temperament.

It may be said that all beautiful women are beautiful.

I built a pyramid among women, which is my golden section for women.

So, how many outstanding women are there? Not much.

Is my ratio too harsh? Am I too pessimistic about the world? Have I seen more women's shadows? Isn't there a clear difference between Excellence and mediocrity?

The modern world needs quality products. Ladies buy a high-quality bag. Why don't we pursue our own Excellence?

A good woman is like an iceberg, only a few tenths of her huge body can surface. There will never be too many fine products, otherwise they will be fakes or staple foods.

Shouldn't women be as kind as eyes? Isn't a woman without wisdom unable to soar like a bird without wings? Perseverance, courage and tenacity are just as important to women as clothes. Don't women cherish beauty just like old women cherish their last tooth?

Let's all strive to be an excellent woman. Make the world more wonderful, make yourself more perfect, fight against time and make the universe eternal.