Love a person but can't express 1 points.

1. Psychological construction:

Many people always have the desire to pursue the girl they want, but in the end they will never catch up. Maybe those people will say that they are timid, and some people will say that they will wait a little longer and catch up in a few days. In fact, these ideas of "wait a minute" or "dare not" are the enemies of pursuing girlfriends. You know, in this year, it is almost impossible to wait for girls to deliver themselves. Unless you are handsome or rich, it is best not to think about this kind of good thing that fell from the sky. So, in this case, how do you chase your girlfriend? In fact, it won't be very difficult. You know, in fact, most women are very poor. Under the constraints of social morality, they can only wait for men to chase them. If she gives up your pursuit today, they will also worry about how long it will take for someone to chase them next time. Of course, this is not very applicable in Jiaotong University, but it is a very cruel fact for women outside.

On the other hand, it is not a problem that some people are afraid of failure and will be laughed at by others. Think about it, if you say that you don't have a big mouth, she dares to say that she is being chased by someone, but she doesn't like it, it is tantamount to killing herself. Today, she talks nonsense everywhere. Who will dare to chase her someday? Everyone is afraid of being an idiot in her mouth. I knew a woman before, and someone in the class came to chase her and flaunted all around. As a result, no one laughed at the man. On the contrary, the woman didn't have anyone to chase her until her senior year, and she didn't know her ignorance until she was old. Where did she come from? So don't be afraid to become the laughing stock of others. As long as you don't say anything, who will know that your pursuit has failed? Moreover, failure is not shameful, and cowardice can really never catch up with the girl you like! Besides, how do you know that she is not waiting for you?

Some people think that they are ugly, which doesn't seem to be a problem. Ugly people just can't catch up with little girls. Some girls who don't grow up always regard men's good looks as the most important selection condition. I think for this kind of woman, she will have problems sooner or later. Think about it, of course, a handsome guy is loved by everyone. When she is old, when she is old, what about the man who will stay to see her beauty and pursue her? I have also been laughed at by a woman for being ugly. Well, there may be more than one ... Last time I returned to Taipei by train, I was called Bunny (two oversized front teeth) by the lady of Juguang, but this is not a problem. I can always find a girlfriend. If I hate myself, I think even other girls will hate you. It's not that I haven't seen a beautiful girl with an ugly boyfriend. How do you know she won't like you unless you try? Anyway, as a dead man, try to have a look at it. Maybe it will be successful, but it is always better than winning the invoice!

So, don't be afraid of failure. Anyway, even if it fails, no one knows. It's always good to try. But don't chase one thing after another all day, then I will be guilty.

However, don't always think about chasing big beauties. People like that are chased every day, which is beyond the reach of ordinary people. Of course, it is not without exception. Some beautiful women just want a good man who can be trusted. No matter whether he is good-looking or not, it is naturally possible to like ordinary men. Maybe you are the type she expects, but how do you know until you try?

Having said so much, I just want everyone to put aside psychological barriers first, but if you say that you have nothing, why should others like you? Even if you catch up for a while, you can't keep it for a long time, so it is necessary to enrich yourself properly. Enriching yourself doesn't mean that you should learn from the East and the West. The main thing is that you can give full play to your strengths properly, and it's not too late to learn something else if you have spare time. Besides, it's not that you want to catch up with girls. However, if people want to live a valuable life, they always have some advantages!

Then when you can pursue the woman you love with a normal attitude, you have taken the first step towards success.

2. Pre-homework:

First of all, everyone should have an understanding, that is, how to select the object. You should be sincere in choosing a partner, and don't hold on to the mentality of having fun and leaving. Similarly, you should also consider the matching of personalities in advance to avoid the trouble of breaking up another day. However, this is a matter of opinion, and as long as both parties are satisfied, no matter how many difficulties can be overcome.

When you have chosen your goal, the next thing you have to face is how to get her attention first.

Here are some suggestions:

A. No matter how trivial it is, as long as it is related to her, it must be emphasized:

When talking with a woman, you can first find that if you have something in common with her, the woman will immediately be right. It is not only women who will have this kind of performance when they find that there are similarities, but also men, but they are particularly remarkable in women. Women are very sensitive to the things that form their destiny. Among all sentient beings, if only you have something in common with her, she will feel mysterious and smell the fate, so she will have a special affection for you. So you must emphasize your similarities and similarities with hers.

B. What women appreciate is the elegance of men's conversation, not the content of the conversation:

Usually, girls' evaluation of a man is based on vague and approximate impression judgment, rather than objective and detailed analysis. For example, it is rare for women to say that this person has big eyes and a wide forehead, but it is easy to criticize such things as "good people" and "gentle and kind people"; The same is true for the evaluation of attitude, such as "enthusiasm", "openness" and "honesty", etc., focusing on the tone or movement of the opposite sex, which is also a characteristic of women. Therefore, some people always think that their eloquence is dull and they have nothing to say, and they are worried that they can't attract women's attention. In fact, instead of being passive and condescending, it is better to talk about your own work or expertise actively and compare your gestures. Then, although women don't know what you are talking about, they will open their eyes and appreciate your conversation style, and then accept your words, and even re-evaluate that you are really "extraordinary" and immediately show a cordial attitude! I have a school girl who is like this. Although I can't understand some difficult theories when I give a report on stage, she always says that I am so charming when I am on stage, so if you think you can't speak, don't lose heart. Girls only look at your style and pay less attention to your content.

C. Having * * * common goals and objectives is the first step to open her heart:

Making two people have * * * common goals and objectives can easily give her the illusion that they are the same fate, which is also a common trick of many playboys. This phenomenon is very common in large companies, such as bosses and secretaries, who are particularly prone to feelings because they have to face external events together. In fact, you can also think about it yourself. Now, if you and your classmates work together for the same job, will they be closer? Similarly, if you can have the opportunity to solve problems with her, or stand on her side in ideas, you will be able to close the distance with her immediately! In the same way, it is the same in speaking. It is better to say "we" than "you and me". Further, sometimes, if you have made any mistakes or some little secrets that people know and are harmless, you can also let her know. Of course, if you only say it to her, it is very easy to narrow the distance between the two sides because they share the same secret. Or if two people make some small mistakes together and don't let people know, it has the same effect.

D. When talking, avoid asking "yes/no" questions to answer:

Some people always have nothing to say when they first meet. Come to think of it carefully, many people make the same mistake, that is, they always ask questions that can be answered with "yes" or "no" ... Well, for example, you ask her, "Do you watch movies? It is better to ask her: "What leisure activities do you usually have? "Come well. Because every time she just says "yes" or "no", she can answer, so the conversation between them is not over at once?

e. When talking with girls, we must pay attention to some taboo sentences that can't be repeated:

Girls are more likely to be hinted than men, and repeated sentences that men don't care about will still unconsciously influence women's thoughts. For example, if a woman thinks her skin is black, if you always talk about how bad other people's skin is, she will mistakenly think that you are disrespecting her, which must be paid attention to when you first start dating.

F. Skills of praising women:

I think, as we all know, if you want to chase a girl, it is inevitable to praise her a few words. However, some people praise women and others flatter them. To praise a woman, you must put forward a specific "where", how to say it, for example, you should praise how beautiful a woman is, you can't say "You are so beautiful", but point out clearly: "Your skin is fine!" "Or" Your eyes are so spiritual! "Wait", if you want to have something to say, you should clearly express her good points, otherwise people will easily have the illusion of flattery, so it is not good to praise her due benefits. Or you can say "Everyone thinks you are so beautiful" in another way, and use other people's words "Everyone says" to praise you, so women tend to think that this is not a compliment, but a real one.

First of all, you should take the initiative.

Generally, girls like men with a sense of responsibility. Women pay great attention to the first impression, so be mature. Think about which woman will fall in love with a naive person.

Mature men will be brave enough to face their responsibilities.

Take the initiative in alone with her, but keep it moderate. Girls are timid, so don't scare her. < p Everything is done in a panic but not in disorder. There is a man's temperament and grace. There is compassion, especially things like small animals. (Women like such men)

You should also have confidence. Without confidence, you can't do anything well. When you encounter something worrying in life, you should be optimistic in front of it (provided that she knows that you have met it) and show her how strong you are.

If you are sincere, you can't do anything well. Then she will definitely come to your side.

If she is worth chasing, take action.

I have found some ways to chase girls for you, and see if it helps you.

< The difference between popular men and unpopular men >

popular men always keep a respectful distance from women who are not ideal, but for women who are eager, there are ways to put her by their side. Women are bound to be curious about men who attract attention (curiosity is the fatal wound of women), and this curiosity can be used in interesting conversations and fresh intelligence information. If you are not popular, even if the other person is curious, But as soon as I see you, I can only escape desperately. Unpopular men are always quite lonely around me. Whenever I want to be in a lively atmosphere, I want to be a popular man. I must have self-confidence (self-confidence without arrogance is the only way to chase my girlfriend, remember! ), and good interpersonal relationships, I believe that in this way, good girls will belong to you.

< From friends to lovers >

I finally have the opportunity to ask her out, but I don't know what gift to bring. On this occasion, it's best to bring a flower, so that you may be able to pin the flower on her chest (giving gifts is knowledge, but it is unwise to put flowers on the chest of an "unfamiliar" woman) or send it, which naturally forms the opportunity to kiss each other. As for dining, you may have to be a little cautious for the first time. However, after the second time, you can choose two-person food to enhance each other's intimacy. If you and she can eat big mouthfuls, then your relationship is not just friends, but lovers.

< Give yourself a chance to step into her inner world step by step >

After the other person becomes your girlfriend, many people are worried that their relationship can't go any further. In fact, these people either don't care too much, or often let the opportunity to enhance their emotions slip away. In the female ethnic group, they attach great importance to boys who want to help women with their coats, because when they take off their coats, if there are men present, it is easy for women to have the illusion of lovers. If you can say, "Put things that are easy to forget on my side", it will bring you closer to her. But if these behaviors are not used properly, it will be self-defeating.

< Make accidents >

Mystery is very important for women. Compared with men introduced by others or met in the workplace, men who meet by chance are more attractive to women. If this accidental situation happens repeatedly, women will definitely believe in the existence of fate. But can a second chance be created? In fact, this is what everyone can do. If you want to meet a girl anyway, you can check her commute route and other related matters in detail, so it is much easier to create a second chance. It is much easier to accept the sight of women to be a successful man. Women always pay attention to the essential existence of men's true colors, so when understanding that men's true colors are not their favorite types, Most people will take the opportunity to escape. It is best to make some changes if they can match her preferences. Moreover, an excellent memory is a female characteristic. Some men have forgotten a sentence, but women remember it very clearly, so you must remember everything you said to her

<; What kind of gift would she like? >

In terms of gifts, if your girlfriend likes small items, you can send rings, watches or flowers, and if she likes large items, you can send large dolls or large and numerous bouquets, which will win her heart. Generally speaking, most people who like small items are mature people, because these items can be placed within their control. Therefore, most women who like big dolls are still a little childish, so when she is happy, she may cling to her boyfriend. However, it is also possible that after she is tired of hugging dolls, she doesn't want to hug you anymore. In this respect, women who like small items seem to be easier to cultivate long-term love, although they will cost you more money.

< Give her dreams in communication >

Some people think that girls are easily deceived, but is this really the case? In fact, girls will have the idea that they will be willing even if they are cheated when they face the prince charming in their minds. So when a well-dressed man appears in front of them, these girls will probably gamble their luck according to their wishes, so it is the most important.