What should my in-laws do if they want to live in their new house for a long time?

Coincidentally, I just talked to one of my colleagues about this topic today.

My colleague's house will be completed in the second half of next year. Her in-laws now say that they will live with my colleague's wife for a long time after the renovation, and even let my colleague cook for them every day. My colleague is full of fear about her future marriage. She asked me what to do.

Yes, what should newlyweds do in the face of such an ignorant mother-in-law? My method mainly includes the following points:

1. Communicate with your husband

First of all, you have to convince your husband that you can coquetry or even make noise with him and show him your attitude. Whether he acquiesces or denies it, you should communicate with him first, let him know your thoughts, and you should also know his thoughts. Then let your husband persuade your parents to give up the idea of living with you permanently.

Try to find a third person to convince your in-laws.

"I don't agree to live with them for a long time", it's not suitable for you to tell your in-laws anyway. So I suggest you find a third person besides you and your husband, who can be a relative or a friend, and find a suitable opportunity for him to help you persuade your in-laws not to disturb your husband and wife's small life.

In fact, my in-laws will come to my son's house for a few days, and I believe everyone will welcome it, but it is too inappropriate to live for a long time. The young couple live in a new house. What does the old man mix with others? Although he is still your son, he is no longer a child. He is an adult and independent. Married, have their own family, also have their own life.

Therefore, the elderly really don't interfere too much and give the children some space!

And the old man should have his own life, don't be so hard around his son all his life! When your children grow up, you should enjoy life.

3. The enemy will block and have the means of cover.

What would you do if you tried all the above methods, but none of them worked?

You can use some small methods and techniques to make them retreat. For example:

1) Fight and flirt with your husband in front of them. In short, you can try to do anything that can embarrass the old couple. They are so embarrassed that they don't want to live with you.

2) With a straight face, how to get along with each other at ordinary times, but at the critical moment, it is troublesome and inconvenient to let the four of you live together. For example, when they all want to use the bathroom in the morning, you should seize the time to occupy the bathroom first, wash, bathe and make up, and time will pass. If they want to use the bathroom, let them wait anxiously outside. After several visits, they felt inconvenient and slowly gave up the idea of living with you again.

Finally, I wish all good girls meet sensible good in-laws, all parents in the world can have their own lives, and don't live too hard for their children!