After I got pregnant, I was abandoned by love rat. What should I do?

If you are not ready to be a mother and give this child a complete home, or even a happy life at all, then don't let him suffer on earth, let him find a good family by reincarnating.

Many people say that women are [selfish] or [cruel] when they have an abortion. If they don't feel cruel, B-ultrasound finds out that the child is a congenital disease. Why do you want to give up the child? Born, bravely born to raise him all his life. Dare not? This is not a selfish question, eugenics is not only for self-interest, but also for this child.

In the process of growing up, this child may see that other children have things that he can't have, and other children have parents to take care of them, but they don't, which leads to depression and self-harm. If parents can't take care of their children's growth, the child may give up his own life.

what do you mean, if you are born, you have to raise it. What should you raise it with?

If you give birth to this child, will you raise it yourself or let him go to his father in love rat? Are you going to continue working? For children to eat and drink, for children to read, your energy is limited, so children lack guidance and love in the process of growing up, and gradually rebel and embark on the wrong path.

I believe you know what I said. But the only reason not to give up the child is to look at your parents' attitude.

I have seen a Taiwan Province movie "Love" before, directed by Doze Niu, in which the heroine is played by Chen Yihan. She just plays a girl who was abandoned and didn't know she was pregnant, but she told her parents about herself, but their parents supported her to give birth to her child and help her raise it. Anyway, your parents love you the most. If, like many feudal families, they know that their daughters got pregnant before marriage and drove out of the house, you can also give up this family of origin.

If your parents cherish you and are willing to give birth to your child, and help you bring the child up, give him a warm home and a happy childhood, then you can give birth to the little guy. After all, it is a life.