What is the main source of your anxiety?

More and more people are seeing psychologists, and young people are generally anxious.

Older people think that today's young people have cars and houses, and parents hold their children, thinking that they are the happiest, but each generation has its own difficulties.

The pressure on young people mainly comes from these aspects:

In terms of work, jobs within the system are hard to find. According to statistics, the average admission rate of civil servants is 800: 1. Work within the system is stable and decent, and there are legal holidays. These are all advantages. But when it comes to income, it is not very high. Without the help of parents, it is too difficult to buy a car or a house.

Private enterprises may have higher wages, but they will work overtime, and there is still great uncertainty, which is greatly affected by the market economy.

Every job is not easy, there is no hard work, and the pressure from all sides in the work is not small.

Emotionally, with the progress of society, people pursue individuality and freedom more. According to statistics, there are more divorces than marriages in the marriage registry.

The elders may not have romantic love, but they tolerate each other and can live together for decades. With the modernization and convenience of communication, there are great difficulties in emotional instability and family stability. Facing the instability of marriage, I would rather not get married than get hurt.

In family life, children born after 1990 are basically only children. They have been spoiled since childhood, with special personality and lack of inclusiveness. Marriage is a matter for two families. After marriage, you should get along with both parents. When children are unwilling to socialize and feel tired. This is why there are so many people who are afraid of marriage.

In terms of raising a baby, raising a child requires not only money but also a lot of energy. Think about it. A little girl is 24 or 5 years old after graduating from college. She is married, has children, is pregnant, takes maternity leave and takes care of her baby. While taking the baby to work, everyone who has experienced it knows that she is very tired, working for a short time, and has to have a second or even a third child. As a woman, especially a professional woman, it is difficult to raise three children.

Although the country advocates the three-child policy, not many people can have a second child. Without the help of their parents, two young people can't afford to raise three children, and their financial resources and energy can't reach them.

If you can get a foothold in a big city, there will be pressure on buying a house, repaying a loan, communicating and so on. These pressures are put on the pampered generation, which is the main reason for their anxiety.

A generation has a generation's life, and a generation also has a generation's pressure. These are the actual pressures faced by young people after 90.