After my husband betrayed his marriage, my mother-in-law comforted me: 35 is the best divorce age for women. What should I do?

I believe that many people have feelings for themselves and stick to a bottom line in their hearts, and most people's bottom line is actually based on the principle of not cheating. However, some people are unwilling to cherish the people around them and choose to step on this bottom line. At this time, the other half will often be seriously hurt, but even so, some people may still hesitate for various reasons. No, a woman said that her husband had betrayed his marriage and didn't know what to do, but her mother-in-law comforted her that 35 was the best divorce age for women. In fact, I think this mother-in-law is right. This kind of remarks made by this mother-in-law completely treat her daughter-in-law as a daughter. As a betrayed person, I really should think about it.

0 1. Cheating is really the bottom line.

Many people have asked, can you accept general emotional infidelity or physical infidelity, but in fact, I think more people will definitely answer this question and refuse to accept it. No matter which one is cheating, it actually means betraying this feeling. This betrayal is enough to make the other party cool. Cheating is the bottom line. In fact, it is not made by imitating many people. It's just that in a relationship, we are all eager to really have each other, and we are also eager to join hands with someone to grow old together.

02. How can you live without divorce?

This woman is even hesitating about her choice. In fact, I think if I calm down and think about it, I might know what I should do. For a simple example, if you don't choose divorce at this time, how will you spend the rest of your life?

This man betrayed this marriage, which has actually left a heavy injury in this woman's heart. When a person is really hurt, he will have a feeling of despair, and you no longer have any expectations for the person in front of you. No matter what he does, your trust has dropped to zero. Under this premise, do you think two people will be happy in their future marriage? And generally speaking, there will be a second time when there is 1, and you can bear the pain of 1. Can you accept a second blow in the future?

Life has a long way to go.

The point is that you are just 35 years old now, which is equivalent to getting married. You just started walking, and it was already so difficult at the beginning. How should you manage your future marriage? Your life is still so long, and we only live this once. Don't you want to find a bosom friend to spend your life with? This is our only chance. Do we really have to waste time on a scum?

Besides, think about it, if you divorce at this time and find your suitable partner later, then a beautiful life is waiting for us. Do you have to jump into hell?