Children's lack of gratitude has a lot to do with their parents' education. It is very important for children to learn to be grateful.

Nowadays, children pay great attention to the sense of ceremony on their birthdays. Obviously, they are six years old this year. Last weekend, his mother held a birthday party for him, and he invited some of his good friends to play at home.

Other friends must have brought some gifts at that time. A week passed and Mingming's mother was thinking about her children. She must have opened all the presents and looked at them. Then she asked the children, "What are those gifts like? How are they? "

"Last week, my mother saw other children bring many gifts. What do you think of these gifts? Do you like anything in particular? Mom will put it on the bookshelf for you, and you can read it every day. "

"I don't like anything they buy. I took a look and put them there. Stop it, I don't want to celebrate my birthday any more. Too boring. "

After listening to this sentence, Mingming's mother was also embarrassed. After all, the birthday party is about thinking about children, and now they are slowly growing up. Holding parties can also help children get along better with other children.

I didn't expect the child's heart to be like this, and I didn't feel grateful for the gift given by the child. Obviously, my mother showed a very unhappy state.

At this time, Mingming's mother remembered the child's attitude towards others and was very angry.

I remember once my sister cried, and I was cooking, trying to get Mingming to help her out of trouble.

I didn't expect to complain while doing it. I never think mom and dad are very hard. The most important thing is that what he does is actually within his power.

In fact, I believe that any treasure mother will feel very angry when she encounters such a situation. She has done a lot for this family, but in the eyes of children, she is nothing.

The child's own gratitude also dissipates after encountering something. Is it true that children lack gratitude?

Many parents will tell their children when they are young: "You should be grateful to anyone and anything."

In front of mom and dad, all the conditions offered to you are hard earned by them. If you lack gratitude, you are actually destroying their concern for you.

In the process of getting along with others, there is no need for others to be nice to you for no reason, so people should respond with "thank you" as long as they show proper concern.

If you remain indifferent for a long time, you will naturally get no respect from others, and others will not pay for you and play with you.

In other words, not all children will listen to their parents. Some children even say thank you, but they never think so in their hearts. They even think, "Whatever they do, I didn't do it myself."

I remember once after my child won the prize, I said to him, "The members of your team are also excellent. Without their help, you won't get this grand prize this time. "

I didn't expect the child to say directly, "They didn't help me do anything, and they can't say anything! Really, I did it all by myself, which made me feel very shocked.

In fact, any behavior shown by children has a lot to do with their daily concepts and education.

Nowadays, many parents love their children more than usual. For children, in a family, they are the core, so after entering kindergarten, children may not have important control over their status.

Arrogant, ignoring others.

Imagine that when everything we do is from our own point of view, some problems will inevitably arise.

Especially what I said above, the child won the prize and was unwilling to admit the help of others, which is also a concrete manifestation of his inner arrogance.

The embodiment of inner vanity

A person can't succeed without the help of people around him. After all, unity is strong. However, some children always want to take credit and show their abilities.

In this process, we naturally ignore the ability of teamwork and are unwilling to show others' abilities.

We should be clear that gratitude is the first step for children to succeed when they grow up.

If you always think that your ability is strong enough, it will only lead them to failure. After all, modesty makes people progress and pride makes people fall behind.

Parents should also clearly understand the modesty behind gratitude and avoid children's excessive neglect of the role of gratitude. Long-term lack of gratitude will naturally cause these problems for children.

Ego, selfishness

However, in the process of teamwork, a person who does not know how to be grateful, only knows how to express, and is unwilling to respect the fruits of others' labor will actually appear selfish. No one wants to get along with such people.

I don't know how to empathize

I only see what I have paid, but I never think about what others have done in these things.

In a team, people's existence is the contribution of things, ignoring the role of others, highlighting their own abilities and not understanding others. Will such a person be welcomed by others? The answer is no.

It is difficult to gain a foothold in society.

In any small matter, children show an attitude of being unwilling to thank others, so when they grow up, their small thoughts will be seen through when they cooperate with other people with ideas, which is taboo in teamwork.

If you just want to take credit for yourself, why should others cooperate with you? Such people will also find it difficult to gain a foothold in society.

We should be clear that gratitude is more important to a person's growth. As parents, it is not just lip service to cultivate children's gratitude.

Teaching children to say thank you does not mean that they are really grateful and can be kind to all those who have helped them. How to make children truly grateful is what smart parents do.

1. Let the children know how to think from the perspective of others in a * * * family way.

After children engage in team activities, parents can make their children aware of the contributions of others through corresponding questions.

What programs did the students in your class perform at this New Year's Day party? Mom heard that your class won the first prize, which is really excellent.

What role does your deskmate play in it? Is it hard?

I heard that Lili still has to dance, and it is very hard to go home every day. Does her performance look good today?

Yes, when I went to see your rehearsal, I saw Mingming singing all the time, and my voice was almost hoarse. It's really hard.

Of course, so is my baby. She has been reciting words every day these two days. Did she behave well today?

Just like the simple questions above, in fact, a child can feel the contribution of others in an activity without letting him put all the credit on himself.

2. Set an example and let the children be grateful.

You old bastard, why did you come to my house again today? I told you not to come again, didn't you hear me?

Your grandmother is a devil who only wants money. Next time you see her, avoid her and ignore her.

What do you think your grandparents are good at? Now that they are old, they can't bring any benefits to our family.

In the process of getting along with children, some treasure mothers always express their inner dissatisfaction with their parents-in-law.

Imagine what the child will think after hearing some of the above words.

If we don't know how to respect our parents, how can we make our children respect and be grateful to others?

If you want your child to be grateful, you must first understand the truth of setting an example. We should first honor our parents, which is a good example for our children.

3. Take the children to heart, no matter big or small.

Small enough for someone to pick up a glass of water for you, big enough for someone to help you solve a problem. In fact, we should all express our gratitude to others.

Some treasure moms always think too much about gratitude when educating their children, which limits their hands and feet.

Everything, big or small, involves the efforts of others, and parents should also make their children aware of the significance of other people's behavior.

When children know how to be grateful to others and give back, parents can also encourage their children to realize that their actions are correct. Under such circumstances, the child will naturally persist for a long time.

Everyone wants to see kind people, and the most important thing of kindness is to know how to pay. A person who knows how to be grateful inside, they are bound to be willing to give their meager strength.

We also hope that every parent can understand the importance of gratitude to people themselves. It can make him considerate of others, show his charm and communicate well with others, which is of great help to children's study and work. Of course, in daily life, we should also pay attention to the influence of our actions on children.