I have been shopping for my sister, but once I didn't buy it, I was called stingy. what do you think? How can I reply if I do this again?

Physical problems are cumulative, and behavioral problems are habitual; Physical problems are due to low immune function, and behavioral problems are due to insufficient quality training. You always buy her things. For you, this is a kind of love for her, but it has become a habit for her. After such a long time, she will think that this is a normal phenomenon, and even think that this is the only normal phenomenon. She doesn't care how much you pay, as long as you meet her needs, you have done nothing wrong. As long as you pay less and later, she won't understand. Then you owe her. Accustomed to warmth, you can't stand the cold, accustomed to care, you can't stand injustice, accustomed to protection, you lose the fighting spirit, accustomed to love, you lose gratitude, love is a kind of kindness, but if this kind of kindness is used in the wrong way, it will produce a bad habit, which is very unfavorable and even harmful to the formation and cultivation of a person's personality. Wild animals can adapt to all kinds of environments because they have experienced all kinds of ups and downs. Without suffering, there is no will, without setbacks, there is no maturity. If exquisite life always stays in the greenhouse, it will never have a bright future. If you always take good care of it, it will eventually degenerate into a mess. Your sister is used to your dedication, and her sense of dedication and gratitude has been stifled by this attitude of taking it for granted, so Lian Meng won't even expect her to know how to be grateful and give. You have the courage to let her try and realize what she has got, which is not natural, but you not only know, but also practice, which is conditional. Therefore, when you feel stingy because you don't satisfy her, you should be more stingy, let her know that others' "generosity" to her is not always available, let her know that you should be good at getting it yourself when others can't get it, and also know that others' efforts are not taken for granted, and you should know how to be grateful and return. You can deliberately tell her that what you bought her before was actually borrowing money from others. Now if people want to use it, they should return it to them, and even tell her that it is urgent. See if she has saved any money. Use it first. Don't buy her anything for a while. In this way, let her understand and adapt to the unsatisfied reality, stimulate her consciousness of giving with reality, and make her realize that giving is actually a noble happiness. Let her feel that caring for others is actually soothing her conscience, deliberately creating hardships and setbacks for her, and let her grow and mature in it ... I wish you happiness. ...