This is why I like watching "The Selected Works of Mao"

Friends who carefully read my sharing in Moments must have noticed a detail, that is, I like to apply some things and people in "The Selected Works of Mao" at every turn. Many people questioned my age because of this, suspected that I lied about my age, and thought that I was very old.

Actually, I am really not that big. Like most of my friends, I am a typical post-80s generation who grew up watching Black Cat Sheriff and playing Transformers. The reason why I am keen on "Selected Works of Mao Zedong" and like to apply the content in it is mainly because the "Selected Works of Mao Zedong" describes the human nature of the Chinese people in a relatively simple and easy-to-understand way, and is more story-telling.

Actually, to be honest, I not only love reading "Selected Works of Mao Zedong", but I also read all books related to people. Because the job I do is dealing with people. Since you are dealing with people, you must learn to understand and gain insight into human nature. And books in this area are the best way.

However, the words are divided into two parts, and it is useless to just read the book without applying it. So, use it and practice it. I always say that mastering any skill or ability is inseparable from the eight words "apply what you learn, and combine knowledge with action." Among them, learning to deal with people is like this.

Some people may say that dealing with people is not easy? Just being able to talk and do things is enough. Having said that, there is actually a lot of knowledge.

To put it simply, it is the eight words of "vertical and horizontal, relaxed and relaxed".

Among them, Zongheng pays attention to the direction of speaking. In other words, the conversation must be communicated from top to bottom and from both sides. The so-called "opening up the upper and lower parts" means to achieve accurate expression and consistent upper and lower alignment. To use another way of saying it, it is "unified understanding and consistent passwords." And being able to speak both ways does not mean that what you say does not offend others, and that it is watertight. But pay attention to speaking properly. I once said that another meaning of speaking well is to speak so that others feel comfortable.

What matters in Mahe is the timing of speaking. That is to say, speak when you need to speak and shut up when you shouldn't. It doesn’t mean you always say it or you don’t always say it. Some would say, as the old saying goes, “Silence is golden.” In fact, I want to tell you that silence is really not golden. Sometimes staying silent can make people think wildly. Therefore, you will find that sometimes, as soon as there is negative news, we immediately shut up and stop talking. But the fact is that if this is the case, the Chinese who like to think the worst will compile all kinds of information that is not beneficial to you and publish it everywhere.

Let’s talk about relaxation. Among them, Zhangchi pays attention to the state of speaking. The state of speaking does not depend on the speaker himself, but on the state of your listeners. Sometimes when we talk, including when we do things, we are self-centered, seeking our own convenience and pleasure, and ignoring the other person. In this way, it is easy to cause misunderstandings and even injuries.

Finally, let’s talk about moderation. This has a degree, which we often think of as being measured. This is true, but how much does proportion mean? The author is not talented. In my opinion, proportion includes depth, strength, angle, temperature, breadth and height. In fact, these "degrees" are just one word in the final analysis, which is attitude. I always say that Chinese people are very emotional people, so they don’t pay attention to the content of their speech, but pay special attention to their attitude. Therefore, what matters when speaking in a moderate manner is "attitude". Therefore, I would like to say that when you speak, you must express your position, but don't show your attitude. Otherwise, others will become resistant and it will be difficult to agree on the best things.