In the minds of the two children, I feel that my mother prefers the older child. What should my mother do?

I think we should tell the younger ones that mom and dad love you the most and will not take sides with anyone, because you are mom and dad's favorite, and I love you as well. If you think mom and dad are partial, just tell mom and dad, and we'll tell you why.

Because my sister is older than you, I asked her first. You see, when grandma gave something to grandpa and dad, did she give it to grandpa first? Because grandpa is an elder, we should know how to respect; Sister is older than you. What should we do to respect her?

Maybe we didn't deliberately take sides at first, but attention and attitude have said it all.

At first, it may just be because the second child needs more time and energy to take care of it.

Being the boss, the second child is soft and cute; One is cute and the other is naughty. Whether you admit it or not, the balance in your parents' hearts will still tilt slightly.

The so-called bowl of water is flat, but it is actually a lie.

A study by the University of California shows that 65% of mothers and 70% of fathers unconsciously have a special preference for a child.

Perhaps parents are unconscious, but children can catch it sensitively and arouse huge ripples in their hearts.

A girl of 10 in Nanchong, after an argument with her younger brother, thought that her family was partial to her younger brother and climbed onto the roof to commit suicide.

A girl in Hangzhou 14 committed suicide by swallowing 30 sedatives because her grandmother only made egg drop soup for her brother and didn't make herself.

Family preference, whether intentional or unintentional, often means harm and makes another child fall into self-doubt.

If a child feels that "my parents don't love me and I am an outsider", it is the most cruel treatment for a child.