Teach you how to chat.

1. Talk about daily topics, food, clothing, housing and transportation, and anyone can say a few words.

If you are a person who is not good at chatting,

The chat object I met by chance is also a slow and boring gourd.

If there's really nothing to talk about,

You might as well talk to him.

You can talk about your daily diet,

Ask each other what they think about food and clothing and travel.

Presumably, for things in life such as food, clothing, housing and transportation,

No one can't answer the phone.

You can't know nothing!

So I choose to talk about such a topic.

Can solve the embarrassment of having nothing to say.

2. Learn to compliment others, and everyone loves to hear you talk.

Everyone wants to hear compliments when chatting with others.

This is a kind of respect for each other.

It can also make the other person feel good about you.

So you can pay more attention to other people's conversations in peacetime.

Let yourself learn at least ten formulas for praising people.

And skillfully use these formulas in the chat process,

Then use your divergent thinking,

From it, more topics can be discussed.

Although the word is dead,

But you have to learn to use it flexibly.

In many diplomatic events, diplomat Qiaozui Zhang established many friendly relations.

So in the process of chatting,

These compliments will open your heart to each other.

Only in this way can you give full play to your abilities.

3. Turning the topic to the student period can not only cause scolding, but also have a topic to talk about.

At work or in life,

Presumably, everyone is full of nostalgia for their school days.

This is also about Kan Kan.

Everyone has been to school,

What happened at school,

It must be unforgettable in my life.

Then let's talk about your school days.

Talk about some interesting things that happened at school,

Talk about the dribs and drabs between everyone and their classmates and roommates.

It is also a good topic.

4. Be good at asking questions to each other, instead of just saying and not doing it yourself.

When chatting, the most taboo person is:

While the other person acts as an audience.

A conversation in which two or more people participate is called chatting.

If you can't interest the other person in many ways,

Then you might as well ask each other some questions.

Give the initiative of speech to the other party.

No matter what kind of questions you ask,

Others will not lose face and say nothing.

Once the other person starts talking,

You can quickly find his interest,

Then we can enter the same channel with each other and talk smoothly.

5. Talk about past and future plans.

What remains in memory must be the best.

Everyone has a past and a story.

When there is nothing to talk about,

You can ask each other about their past and the beauty they remember.

And tell each other your stories,

One way and one way naturally resolved the situation that there was nothing to say.

After talking about the past, I might as well think about the future.

Ask each other about their plans and plans for the future.

Guide the other side to talk with Kan Kan,

You won't fall into a situation where you have nothing to say.