What should I do if I can't stand my mother-in-law

Children have their own personality. Maybe this kid is more active. Grandma can't stay with him all the time except talking. Moreover, on the whole, grandmothers love grandchildren more than education. This work is mainly done by parents. It doesn't matter if you are shallow, but if you are deep, you are afraid that your child will not be close to yourself in the future, and his feelings are different from those of his parents. Since we know that the child is like this, we should pay attention to protecting the baby, because the child is not very sensible and may not know the depth. For children who beat their babies and rummage around, there may be no one to play with at ordinary times. On the one hand, they have nothing to do, and they are also very naughty. On the other hand, they may want to attract the attention of adults. When he comes to your house, you can play with him, or bring him something delicious to distract him. Of course, it's up to you whether it's troublesome or not. It's just that I think having one more child at home now is good for the family. Besides, he is the baby's brother, so it is good to get along well with the baby and take care of each other in the future. To put it another way, it may be the same when the baby grows up and is naughty. Except for a few children, most children will go through an overactive stage. If you want him to go to other people's homes like this, you will talk about him if you notice it. If you don't know what he is doing in other people's homes, you may not take it to heart. If grandma scolded him at this time and he came home to tell you how grandma was, would you feel bad? In addition, I personally think it has nothing to do with the status of the family. As long as the husband and wife love each other and the baby is healthy, it is useless to involve too much. What position did you work so hard to get? Will you be happy? It will only be very tired. However, it all depends on personal pursuit and ideas, hehe! In fact, what I want to say is that this is a problem of naughty children. I hope I can overcome it. I remember when I went to live in my sister's unit, there was a child who was a manager like my sister. He often rummages in her house, and insists on playing with the hot kettle for fear that it will burn him. Like this, there is no way, just look carefully and don't put the child in danger. As a child's elder, you can still talk about him, mainly as your nephew. Nine times out of ten people living in this world are unhappy. If they care more, they will be more unhappy. Another thing to say is that children are actually reasonable, and some children can understand reason at an early age. My sister taught the babies to discuss with them when they were very young, and to make sense calmly. You're not the nephew's parents, so you don't bear the main responsibility of education, so you don't have to reason with him. However, you can tell him that the baby is his brother/sister, he is his brother, and the brother should protect his brother/sister and so on. Maybe he won't bully the baby in the future. Maybe someone bullies the baby, and he will be the first to be unhappy. He will feel that it is his responsibility to protect the baby, and he will be very proud. When my little nephew was a toddler, another sister's son was only three years old. When playing with other children, he knows how to protect his younger brother. Moreover, when he was five years old, he could help us watch our brother and prevent him from putting gobang pieces in his mouth. He is very responsible and can see more clearly than adults. Finally, I wish Xiaobaobao healthy and happy growth, and hope that the baby's relatives love each other and are safe and happy! Follow-up: You are right, too. But even if you please him with food, it's the same. His parents never disciplined him. Even if he throws things at home, the guests won't say he doesn't want to. Of course, you will be spoiled after coming back for a few days, so that's why!

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