Advantages and disadvantages of having boys and girls

Advantages and disadvantages of having boys and girls

Advantages and disadvantages of having boys and girls? Many people want to know if their baby is a boy or a girl when they are pregnant. In fact, boys and girls are their own treasures, but some people still have feudal ideas. Let's share the advantages and disadvantages of having boys and girls.

Advantages and disadvantages of having boys and girls 1 In today's society, does having a daughter still mean "losing money"?

Pro: A family with a daughter is very happy. Daughter is a little cotton-padded jacket that parents care about, which can make the family feel happy. Moreover, the daughter is caring and sensible since childhood, and will be closer to her parents emotionally when she grows up. Whether it is a successful career or a successful marriage, I am willing to share it with my parents.

On the other hand: it is not good to have a daughter. As the saying goes, "raising children to prevent old age", the eldest daughter who worked hard to raise her will eventually get married. That doesn't mean helping others raise a daughter-in-law for free, which is not in line with economic benefits. Moreover, the daughter is only busy taking care of her husband's family after marriage, let alone taking care of her parents.

The benefits of having a boy:

In most old people's minds, he can carry on the family line, and boys are famous!

Boys can do whatever they want, not sissy! If you don't listen, it's okay to call twice in the future.

Boys can act like men sometimes. I remember my friend's son and his mother went to the mall. At the age of five, he was carrying a big bag, but his mother's friend didn't take anything. When people began to accuse him of being a mother, the little guy stood up and said, I am a man! What do you think of having a boy?

Daughter is a treasure;

What is the eighteen changes in women's universities? Girls can dress up beautifully, and wherever they take them, this mother has light on her face. Girls have always been smart, so don't worry about where she will make trouble in the future. As we all know, a daughter is a mother's little cotton-padded jacket. A classmate's grandmother is sick, and it is her menstruation that is taken care of around the bed, so that classmate thinks it is better to be her daughter! Most sons contribute money.

First, the economic pressure is small.

Give birth to a daughter, you just need to let her finish college and let her receive the education she should receive before college, and you will be fine. But having a son is different. Having a son, he finished his studies and finally worked. How much can he earn? Generally speaking, it is enough for him to earn enough money. The job is finally stable, and he is getting married again. It seems more and more difficult for a man to marry a wife now. A diamond ring alone is enough for the working class to be busy for a year.

Second, my daughter is my mother's little cotton-padded jacket.

Daughters are more cautious than men. When they get married, they always think of their parents and go home for help. It's not that my son is bad, but that my son is born without considering details. Many parents' worries, they generally don't think of (of course, there are delicate ideas). Female children and mothers are the most intimate! Although my daughter is only 6 months old, she will cry with me when I am wronged!

Third, girls are generally quiet and don't touch dangerous goods, which makes us nervous all the time!

Fourth, the daughter will be considerate. When you come home from work, your daughter will bring you slippers and a glass of water ... Although these are trivial things, parents just want them to grow up happily and healthily instead of doing nothing, but don't these little details in life make us feel comfortable?

Doudou Ma commented: It is good to have a son or a daughter. Actually, it's all lip service. In today's life, parents do not care about their children's return. A son is as good as a son and a daughter is as good as a daughter, which makes parents very sweet. As long as parents properly educate their children's moral character, no matter boys or girls, he will be filial to his parents!

Mother Doudou summed up the hidden dangers of having a boy:

1, the cost of raising a boy is far greater than that of raising a girl.

In order to train a boy into a promising talent, as parents, from now on, we should invest manpower and material resources in careful training, set lofty goals and make long-term plans. Boys are very naughty. Although the leather is clever, it should be measured in everything. I'm old. I'm afraid they'll make trouble. Therefore, they should be strictly disciplined. Girls can spoil them, but boys should never spoil them. Therefore, they should restrain their love, settle down and be strict in all aspects to prevent themselves from dragging their feet. The cost of training him is not counted for the time being. When a man gets married, the cost is considerable. Now look at the wedding scene, wedding, house, bride price, wedding banquet and so on. It adds up to 200,000 to 300,000, so from now on, we must tighten our belts and save money for our children.

2. The social pressure of having boys is much greater than that of having girls.

In an increasingly competitive society, boys will stand in the society in the future and bear much more pressure and responsibility than girls. If a girl is beautiful, it can be said to be a fortune, but if a boy is beautiful (unless he is an actor), it is not necessarily a good thing, because the social evaluation criteria for men and women are different. Girls can say anything. They have a successful career, are strong women, have a mediocre job, and get married when they are old, which is also a good destination. But boys are different. People's demands on them are comprehensive and harsh. If you want to get married, have a successful career, get ahead, have a sense of responsibility and accomplishment, people measure a person by success. It is not difficult to say that a man is indomitable.

You have to bear a great sense of loss after giving birth to a boy.

People are selfish and full of strong possessiveness. In the future, boys will grow up, fall in love, get married, have their own small families and drift away from their mothers. They can't go shopping and chat with you like girls, and haunt you like little cotton-padded jackets. Think about the way you snuggled up in your mother's arms as a child, and then think about the pain of parenting. A great sense of loss arises spontaneously, especially in the future.

Advantages and disadvantages of having boys and girls 2. What are the characteristics of judging having boys and girls?

First, the characteristics of boys and girls' stomachs

The characteristics of a boy's belly are that the pregnant woman's belly is getting bigger and sharper. The characteristic of a girl's belly is that the pregnant woman's belly will soon become bigger and rounder after pregnancy.

Second, the taste characteristics of pregnant women with boys and girls

Since ancient times, there has been a saying that "sour children are hot women". The taste characteristics of pregnant women who give birth to boys are that pregnant women prefer sour food; The taste characteristics of pregnant women who give birth to girls are that their diet will be biased towards spicy food after a period of pregnancy.

Third, the characteristics of fetal heart rate of boys and girls

The boy's fetal heart is characterized by a strong fetal heart, but the frequency is slow. The fetal heart rate of girls is slower but faster.

Fourthly, the physical characteristics of pregnant women with boys and girls.

Appearance change is also a major feature that people often use to distinguish boys from girls. The appearance characteristics of pregnant women who give birth to boys are ugly appearance, rough skin, writing, and even acne on their faces; The characteristics of pregnant women who give birth to girls are that they will become more beautiful and their skin will become smooth.

Fifth, the characteristics of early pregnancy of boys and girls.

The early pregnancy reaction of boys is weak, and most of them have slight vomiting; However, girls have strong early pregnancy characteristics, and there will be some serious symptoms such as headache, long-term poor appetite and nausea.

Sixth, the characteristics of fetal movement in boys and girls

The characteristics of boy's fetal movement are that the fetal movement is to the left and the fluctuation is small, and the small bag on the mother's stomach bulges; The characteristic of girl's fetal movement is that it moves to the right and fluctuates greatly. The fetal movement will be like a wave, and it will be a big bag on the mother's stomach.

Seven, in fact, every baby regardless of gender.

They are all angels sent by God to their parents. I hope that prospective parents will not have some biased psychological thoughts because they are male or female, and welcome the arrival of the baby happily.