Life is short, be sure to be with someone who treats you as a treasure!

I remember every wedding, the priest who presided over it would ask the same question,

"Would you like to marry the woman in front of you? Love her and be loyal to her, regardless of poverty, illness or disability, until death. "

I think every girl will be moved to tears when her groom says "I do".

The biggest wish of many girls in this life is to have such a person who is willing to hold your hand, spoil you only and love you forever.

He will accompany you all your life, from youth to old age.

So what kind of boy can walk with you for a long time?

1 three views are consistent

The five senses determine whether we start or not, and the three views determine whether we continue.

Only when you are with people with the same three views can you have a tacit understanding in love and communication.

Geng you throw, he always catches it and gives it back to you perfectly; You are always in high spirits when he tells you stories.

when you are together, you never need to find a topic specially, and you can have a good chat every time; Even if you are tired of talking, you won't be embarrassed to sit together without saying a word. And you don't have to deliberately please and cater to him, because he knows how to care about your efforts and won't turn a blind eye to your goodness; He will understand your little emotions and won't feel "done"; He respects you enough not to impose his thoughts on you.

I'm bored all my life, so I must be with people who are consistent with the three views and get along with interesting people.

2 Self-motivated

Two people together can promote each other's growth and progress, strive to make themselves better, and make life better, which is the proper value of love.

What we need is a boy who is willing to work hard for your life, so that you can rely on and trust and have hope for the future;

not a mediocre person who only knows how to play games and get drunk all day, but also blames you for material worship.

I have seen some boys attribute their inability to find a girlfriend to "poverty". Actually, to be honest, boys who have just left the society don't have much money, but I believe most girls will be willing to endure hardships with you, struggle together and create your future together.

But only if you show her hope and your attitude.

how can a love without hope be long-term?

And the boy who wants to spend his life with you, his love for you is not only sweet words, but also willing to take practical actions for you.

He will reassure you, and you will have full trust in him, and you will follow the right person in your life.

I will be tired all my life, so I must be with people who work hard.

? Planning for the future with you

What we want is lifelong love, not a quilt of passion.

I've met many couples who broke up. When girls ask their boyfriends about our future, the boys' answers are roughly the same, "I haven't decided yet" and "I'll talk about it then".

This kind of answer often disheartens the girl. She has been waiting for you for so long, but I didn't expect you to give an uncertain answer.

In fact, to put it bluntly, these boys don't love you enough, otherwise, how could they not even have the courage to spend the rest of their lives with you?

and the person who really likes you, I believe that in his mind, he has fantasized about how you put on your wedding dress for countless times, and then he knelt down on one knee and put on that ring for you.

Only the person who is willing to spend his whole life with you is willing to write you down in his future plan.

although your future may be bitter and beautiful, it doesn't matter.

the important thing is that he has you in his future, which makes him look forward to it more.

It's a wonderful life, so you must be with people who are worth looking forward to.

4 Give you the best he can

There used to be a classic question:

Although a boy has only 1 yuan on him, he is willing to take a taxi to pick you up for 3 yuan, invite you to a movie for 6 yuan, buy you a cup of milk tea for 8 yuan, and finally take a taxi home for 2 yuan.

people who want to spend their whole lives with you never care about how much they have paid, but are willing to give you the best.

He will save money to buy your favorite bag and lipstick. He is always worried that you have no new clothes to wear when it is cold; He will prepare unexpected surprises during the holidays; He will take you on vacation and travel ...

Because in their hearts, your happiness is more important than anything else, so they will try their best to give you the best.

Life is very sweet, so you must be with someone who treats you as a treasure.

5 know how to be tolerant

Even people who are harmonious in three views will inevitably have friction and collision in the process of getting along.

There are no lovers who don't quarrel all their lives, but love that doesn't understand tolerance is like a piece of loose sand, and it will disperse after quarreling.

In fact, the more "made" girls in your eyes, the more they love you. They just want your attention and care.

I hope you can give her more tolerance and understanding. After all, there is no perfect partner in this world.

and the person who knows how to tolerate you is that no matter how much trouble you make, you will never turn out his world.

There are always many contradictions in your life, so you must be with people who know how to tolerate.

? Miss you all the time

A boy who really wants to spend his life with you, you will always be the first in his heart, and no one can shake you.

you don't have to worry that he will give you a perfunctory and cold shoulder, because he is more anxious than anyone to see you.

When anything happens, the first reaction will always be associated with you. When you eat something delicious, you will want to bring one to the foodie at home. When you see beautiful earrings, you will think that you must look good with them; When you go to a fun place, you will want to bring you next time. Not only that, his mind is full of you, and there is no room for a second person in his heart.

Being with him is full of security, so there is no need to be afraid that he will be abducted and run away, and there is no need to worry that he will leave one day.

Life is short, so be sure to be with people who always miss you.

7 Take good care of you

It's not enough to spend your whole life with you. A boy who is really determined to spend his whole life with you will leave all his tenderness to you alone.

He will come to take care of you when you are sick. He can cook a snack for you when you are hungry; He will secretly write down your physiological cycle and prepare sanitary napkins for you in advance.

He never says "I love you all my life" to you, but always takes care of you silently.

It's a long life, so be sure to be with someone who will take care of you all your life.

? Having the courage to marry you

Getting married is definitely the most important thing in our life, and it is also the highest expression of loving someone.

Because he only dares to summon up courage and make up his mind to propose to you if he thinks that you are the one who will spend the rest of his life together.

if you keep saying that you want to be with you all your life, but you don't want to marry you,

isn't this a hooligan?

In fact, whether a lifetime is long or short depends on who we are with.

With gentle and tolerant people, it will be very comfortable to get along with each other, and it will not be easy to separate;

Being with someone who knows you and understands you is the most heart-warming. He knows that you are warm and cold, always understands your vulnerability, and gives you warm-hearted companionship.

Being with someone who treats you as an exception will not bear this life. He will treat you as his only one and give you a unique preference.

I hope that the boy who is worthy of our lifelong commitment will appear soon. After all, I am lazy, and I only want to love you in my life.