Today, my husband and I had a quarrel. When my father-in-law found out, he thought we had a fight because he didn't go to work. Then he got angry, not for a day.

People often say "old children". Old people are as sensitive and fragile as children. If they can't hide their children's conflicts, especially in front of them, they will be very sad. Even if it's not their fault, they will automatically think in that direction. If they think too much, they will be angry and sad. Just like children, adults will feel scared and insecure when they quarrel, feel powerless and blame themselves.

When I was a child, my grandfather couldn't see it. I have experienced this kind of emotion of the elderly countless times. Therefore, my advice to you is that there are contradictions between husband and wife, try not to show them in front of the old people, especially not to quarrel in front of them, which will make the old people very uneasy and blame themselves. Fortunately, old people are usually like children, and you can make an agreement with your husband. It is best to resolve conflicts as soon as possible, restore normal family life, and show some harmony and care in front of the elderly. If not, at least you should show one or two in front of the old man, that would be great. Then if there is any conflict between you, solve it outside your home.