As soon as he ate it, it was really delicious, and he wolfed it down happily. Grandma was very happy to see it, so she said loudly to him: "Eat more! These three plates are all yours! They are special

As soon as he ate it, it was really delicious, and he wolfed it down happily. Grandma was very happy to see it, so she said loudly to him: "Eat more! These three plates are all yours! They are specially made for you!"My husband was shocked when he heard this and didn't know it at the time Stopped at a loss. We Chinese people like to speak politely, but some words cannot be taken seriously. But he grew up abroad and didn't understand this matter. Coupled with his grandma's imposing manner, he was a little shorter at that time. I saw him first counting the number of dumplings on the plate one by one, and then said cautiously: "Grandma, I may not be able to eat these three plates of dumplings. I can only eat one and a half plates. If I work harder, I may be able to eat two plates." . But three dishes is really too much.”

The whole family burst into laughter. This was the first time that grandma saw someone taking her joke so seriously. She was also surprised. She was afraid that he would really eat all three large plates of dumplings, so she hurriedly said: "No, I didn't even call you." Eat it! If you can’t eat it, don’t eat it!”

He then felt free to eat it. After this incident, my grandma liked him even more, because "I have never seen such an honest silly boy." This seems to be the only time I've ever seen my grandma take a step back from something she said. Other times, she speaks very bluntly, sometimes even with a bit of a scolding tone. For example, if I don't eat enough, she will always look angry and ask me to eat more. When I was in junior high school, I loved going to school because there were teachers and classmates I liked. So when I got home, I asked when I could go back to school. My grandma said, "Why are you in such a hurry to go back!" Later I studied in the United States. When I was at work and video chatting with my family, my grandma saw it and asked me if I had lost weight. She told me not to lose weight but to eat more. "We are not afraid of getting fat!" It seemed that every time she spoke, there was an exclamation mark at the end. Because grandma speaks with an accent and has some language differences, her husband often cannot fully understand what she means. But he told me that although grandma sometimes scolded her, he could actually feel that her words were filled with care and love for us.

I think grandma should be very proud of me. My grades have been good since I was a child, so she doesn't have to worry about studying or playing the piano. She is even more proud of studying medicine after going abroad. In my fourth year of medical school, I won a large scholarship. After telling my family proudly, my grandma sent me a video. The pride in her tone made me listen to it over and over again. At that time, her hair was already gray because she hadn't dyed it for a long time.

My grandma’s disease is pulmonary fibrosis. There is no cure, so I can only use hormones to delay the disease. I met her at the beginning of 2020 and spent the Spring Festival together. A few days later, she had to return to the United States early because of the new crown. The night before returning to the United States, I went downstairs to eat as usual. Because I was walking in a hurry, I forgot to bring a rubber band for combing my hair, so my hair was disheveled while I was eating. My grandma took me to her house and rummaged through the drawers, trying to find the colorful thin rubber bands she bought for Niu Niu when I was five or six years old. Later, when I couldn't find it, I took out a piece of red hair rope from the drawer, braided my hair into a braid, and then tied it up with the red hair rope. While doing it, I sang "Pull on the two feet of red hair rope." , tie it up for me Xi'er." It seemed like nothing could stop her. Grandma loves to sing, and occasionally she will sing when she is happy. For example, once I was playing "Embroidered Gold Plaque", and my second aunt and cousin were braiding their hair, and grandma was singing along beside me. I still have the video of it. One time she wanted to have a video chat with me, and her mother was arranging her hair and said, "Wash up and dress up for grandma first." After hearing this, grandma sang happily and energetically: "Wash up and dress up to go to the colorful building!" Later I checked After a while, I realized that it was an excerpt from the Peking Opera "Deng Dian Dian", which I didn't even know.

Grandma is such a unique person. There are so many things about her that I don’t know and will never know.

That trip abroad was the last time I saw her. Later, I saw my grandma several times on video, and she became sicker each time. I failed to help her, I failed to take care of her, as a doctor I couldn't cure her disease, I didn't even stay with her in her last days. I regret this. My mother sent me photos of my grandma, and I could only save them one by one on my phone.

I often record myself and send it to her so that she can look at it if she has time. I often tell her that everything is fine with me, but I am just worried about her health. The last thing my grandma said to me was to tell me not to worry about her health. She was fine. She asked me to take good care of myself outside. She said, "Don't worry about me all the time."

From From the day I was born, grandma became grandma. For such a long time, grandma has given me a lot of love without asking for anything in return. And what I know about her may not even be one tenth of what she has experienced in life.

A grandma who loves to wear floral clothes, loves to eat candied haws, knows how to braid hair, loves to sing Peking Opera, loves to watch her children eat delicious food, speaks straightforwardly and fiercely, and is proud of me. She loved her granddaughter like all the grandmothers in the world; she was such an irreplaceable and very special person.

Now, my life has been nearly thirty years.

I am very happy that my grandma plays a very important role in my life. She taught me love, confidence, and selflessness in ways and actions that words cannot describe. My husband said that the best gift I can give my grandma is that she has had a great impact on my life and that she will forever become a part of me. From July 16, 1937 to September 30, 2021, because of her existence, I was able to be born into this world, so the world became what it is today.

I will miss my dear grandma, Wang Fenglian, forever in my future life.