What does the girl mean when she says I speak officially?

It means that the speech is too boring, well-behaved and humorous.

You need a sense of humor to attract girls when talking and chatting. The following methods can help you increase your sense of humor:

First, expand your knowledge.

The more you know about the dynamics of today's world, the more you can open a topic with others. Humorous people don't just sit and nod when chatting. They occasionally add new topics to a conversation and share interesting things.

The wider the knowledge, the more you can control the direction of the topic. You can expand your knowledge by reading, understanding news and hot events, and attending lectures from all walks of life.

Second, increase the experience worth sharing.

A humorous person's life always seems wonderful. The more you try, the more stories you share with others.

The best way to accumulate interesting experiences is to travel, because you will meet new people, experience new interesting things and form the habit of saying "yes" to strange challenges.

Don't be afraid of nowhere to go. Even if you take a two-hour bus ride to see your friends in the next city, it can also be an exciting adventure. Record your travels, parties you have attended and places you have been, so that you can share your photos during your trip with others.