What does it mean when a husband says to his wife, "I look down on you."

I think this woman is lazy and unmotivated, not just like this now, but before. Since a man marries her, it means that she has other advantages that attract him, such as beauty or good personality, etc. And my personal opinion is: Why should women be so motivated? Do we expect women to be strong women to support their families? ! If a man looks down on his wife, he looks down on himself. Anyone is a good match for her. To say her wife is not good is like a slap in the face. Such a man is not only intolerant, but mainly unintelligent and self-righteous and looks down on others.