Is everything all right with love rat's eldest brother Su Mingzhe?

To tell the truth, if it is extreme, I think my eldest brother Su Mingzhe is quite scum, but objectively speaking, it has not reached the point of scum. After all, he has been defending this family. Let's be specific.

Judging from the nine episodes broadcast recently, Big Brother is very lucky. He was admitted to Stanford University. His parents spent all their savings for his education. Mingyu lost her house and stayed in America directly after graduation. He had a good first half of his life.

He is a scum, which is reflected in the following aspects: he used all his parents' savings and his sister's house money to go to college with peace of mind, but never thought about whether to give his sister a little care and give more care to his family. Maybe he is busy at work, maybe he is under great pressure, but he has never taken on the responsibility that a boss should have; There is also the fact that he never thought about his wife and children when he took his father back to the United States. Perhaps the starting point was right, but he forgot that it was his wife who supported the family alone and did not play the role of a husband. In the end, he didn't take his father away. Moreover, this person has no sense of responsibility and even dares not make mistakes. When something goes wrong, I take it out on my wife, brother and sister, and I have no courage at all.

He is not a scum, because, at least, he has been emphasizing this family. He always wants to take good care of his father when his younger brothers and sisters are away. Maybe his way is wrong, but his heart is good. There is also that he went back to China to deal with his mother's affairs. Even though he might lose his job, he still went back, which is a little filial piety.

Generally speaking, in my opinion, he is quite scum, but after all, there are still good aspects that cannot be completely denied.