Who can help me write a letter of criticism? Because of a classmate's birthday this morning, I went out without telling my wife. She was very angry when I came back and insisted that I write a review.

Who can help me write a letter of criticism? Because of a classmate's birthday this morning, I went out without telling my wife. She was very angry when I came back and insisted that I write a review. . Dear baby

Sorry, baby ~! I don't know when to start. Today you asked me to write a critical letter here. I also understand your intention, so that everyone can see it, so that all those who care about you, love you and see you can see it. It is also an inspiration and supervision for me. I know that we have been quarreling these days, and there are many things that I haven't done well enough, or that are all wet in your eyes. Therefore, after such a long time of thinking, I am writing this letter here today. I hope you can forgive me and let me turn over a new leaf. I believe I can do it myself. Even if what you say is not good, a leopard cannot change his spots. I will try my best to show it to you, but let you feel it with your heart ~!

I don't know what to say or how to review the rest. Just start with what happened between you and me recently, and start a profound review for everyone to see and understand, and supervise me for everyone who saw this critical letter. I will do well, and I will love you well ~!

Let's not talk about those scattered little things. Let's talk about a few important things first, which is also the most sad and angry thing for you.

1. Send medicine to your father. What happened: I heard you call your dad the day before, saying that his old man had no medicine and it was expensive to buy medicine at home. It's cheaper here, and you can swipe your card, which can save some money for filial piety, so you also promised your father to buy medicine and send it to his old man's house by express mail, and I also know that it was mailed (I sent it to you before). You gave me 100 yuan to buy 10 boxes of medicine and then sent it to me. Back in the store, I called the old man and chatted, and finally mentioned that I would send cigarettes to his old man's house. Even if I don't smoke, I will give it to others. His old man didn't say anything. I was very happy to buy medicine with the money you gave me the next day. I know you are a careful person, so I thought about asking the doctor in detail. I want to take 15 boxes of this medicine for a course of treatment, but I think you arranged to buy 10 boxes. I didn't ask for much, but I asked for more. So I bought medicine as you asked, and took medicine and cigarettes to the postal savings. I asked for a box, packed it and sent it. When I left, I asked how many days I would arrive and said that I would arrive in seven days. I was also very happy to come back.

The result: At that time, you asked me how many days it would take to get the goods, and my happy answer was seven days. You said I didn't have a brain and didn't think much. I sent medicine. Why not get it in seven days? Can't I hurry? Cheap money and so on.

Review: From this incident, I deeply felt your love for your family, your filial piety to your family, and your carelessness in doing things. I never think about these things carefully. Even if I don't know, I can call you in advance to ask you, but I am lazy and don't do well, which makes you angry. I shouldn't put my laziness and casual bad temper here, because I know that's how I do things. It shows that I don't really care about one thing and my attitude towards things is not correct enough. Just like working in a company, muddle along. I know, I shouldn't have this idea. Besides, when you scolded me, I hurried to the postal savings office to make up for it. I went after listening. I know I was wrong, and I want to correct it. I bought five boxes of medicinal EMS in the postal savings and sent them to me. Besides, I shouldn't talk back when you said something about me afterwards, saying that I just didn't think about EMS at that time. I shouldn't talk back to you. I already did. I made a mistake. I won't correct it until you are angry. I should call you first and ask if I can send it by express mail. It would be better to send it by express, so I promise in the future. I must finish what I started and take it seriously. If I can't do something well, even though I know I can't do it well, I will make a plan and implement it slowly according to the plan. I will do a little every day, get things done, stick to it and never give up, especially for your family and you. I will do it wholeheartedly, and I can't be careless. If there is a problem, I will call you in advance and let you do it later. Be angry when you are wrong. I can't talk back to you. You should make yourself happy first. Even if you have a reason, you should wait until you are happy, instead of endlessly saying your reasons when you are angry, which will make you even angrier ~!

2. The second thing, what happened: Your brother entered the university. On June 23, 2008, after knowing your brother's score line, you said in the store that you wanted me to help you check the school. I didn't check it. I didn't take the initiative to talk to you about this all afternoon. I didn't check the school with me until you got angry on the phone at night. The school I checked at that time was for you. And the more you look at it, the more angry you get. The next day, you go home. When you come back, you call your brother and tell him about the exam. When you talk to me, after I express my opinion, you are even more angry. I said the enrollment brochure hasn't come down yet, so don't check it yet. Volunteer to get it back on the same day, and then check it better according to the school admission. I also hinted that he had a good foundation. First, he suggested repeating, second, he reported his luck in three low-scoring journals, third, he transferred a good major to a junior college, and then he studied later. Actually, you didn't listen

Review: Because you were angry at the beginning that I didn't take your brother's business to heart, you scolded me and said that even if I called or texted first, you could ask this school at work and just discuss it casually. You forgave me the next day, and you will be angry when I go home, so you scolded me for those two days, and your own affairs still depend on you. I will always remember your feelings and concern for your brother, and I also understand the responsibility of the family and your responsibility and dedication to your brother. You said he didn't do well in the exam, and it made you feel bad. He is sorry for his sister who has served him for so many years, and you feel even worse, because although you didn't do well in the exam, your mind is worse than his. You told me by email, even if it was a trick or a lie. But I didn't take your words to heart. I'm sorry, baby. From this matter, I understand that a man's responsibility is not to help his woman when she needs help most. You said to coax her in good faith, but I still ignored you. I didn't do things well with my heart, which made you suffer so much injustice. I'm sorry, baby, I have no sense of responsibility. Once again, I didn't care about your business and your family. Finally, you got angry and didn't eat for two days. I coaxed you to eat while eating instant noodles at home, but you were so angry. I didn't insist on coaxing you to dinner, but I felt depressed and I was right. Later, you scolded me, and I talked back to you with my own unreasonable troubles, which made you even more sad. I remember that when you were wronged, I didn't remember to coax you or quarrel with you. No matter what happens in the future, as long as it is your business, I will put it first and deal with it with my heart first. If you are angry, I will come out as soon as possible to make you happy. Don't make you angry. If you are angry, you will not eat, and your body will collapse. Husband's psychology is really hard. You didn't look at the food when I put it in your bowl. You're still angry and angry. I didn't coax you, but I eliminated all this with silence. I really didn't do well enough. I'm sorry

About buying a house, the most quarreling between me and you is because I have no money, not money, because I didn't save any money with other girls two years ago, and I paid her to buy this and that. The rest of the rent was used for eating, drinking and having fun, and all the money was spent. My parents urged me several times, and I saved 20 thousand yuan, which was after I broke up with her. We are all going to spend every penny carefully and not buy you anything expensive or what you want. Every time we buy something, you say, I don't want it, just eat and dress. These things are useless. If you don't buy it, buy some gadgets such as headdresses and hair bands that you think are cute but not expensive. When it comes to buying a house, I can't get the money, which is very rough. If I can save 20 thousand a year, I can save 40 thousand in two years, and then I can borrow some money from my parents to pay a down payment, but I didn't save it. This matter has always been a knot in your heart. You said my romantic life was enough, and I found a woman to sleep with for two years. It's a little harsh, but it's true. I haven't saved any money, but I'm still starting a business with the money given by my parents. I'm still impulsive and angry with you. As soon as I mentioned the house, I was anxious with you, saying that I didn't want any money from my parents, and I wanted to make money to buy a house by myself, but none of us really had the ability to buy this house, so every time you mentioned the house, you got angry, very angry. Who do you think are the parents who don't help their children buy a house? But I quarreled with you for hypocrisy and talked back to you. I quarrel with you for my own benefit, so you will also say, if there is something wrong with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, who will handle it? It's me. It can be seen from this incident that I was selfish and didn't put the baby first. As a man, mother's son and wife's husband, I shouldn't go for the first time. You should calm down the war on the spot and tell the baby alone afterwards, dear, my mother is so old, don't talk back to her old man. If there is any problem, I am a junior, let her know this first. Her old man has her ideas, but it's also for you and me, for our family. Then I will tell my mother that her old man doesn't understand these truths. What's the first one? I don't know if I'm right, but I'll try my best to do it well. Don't worry, baby, I also know that you will be very filial to my parents, and you will be very good at making them happy. You can tell from the last time my parents came to talk to you and eat jiaozi or something that you will be a good wife. I haven't done this either, but I'll try my best to deal with it. I don't understand, just ask the baby.

From the above things, I also understand a truth. Whether it is reasonable or not, I play a great role in a family. You once told me that if I died in the future, you would go with me. Thank you, baby. I know how much you love me, but what I did today made you so angry. I really don't know what to say ~! From now on, I can only do it with my heart, try my best to love you with my heart, hurt you with my heart, and let you feel with your heart ~!

4. Store decoration, what's the matter? Before the decoration, I never thought about your feelings and thoughts. I asked, and after hearing that you didn't have any constructive opinions, I made my own decision and did what I wanted to do. You said to make curtains, I said, I am a big man, and I have to make a fitting room. Why, you didn't argue with me again, because my personality was arbitrary and thoughtless, and that's the result. Finally, the area of 1.8 square meters became the fitting room, and it became the place where I put the bar myself, which greatly wasted the area, money and the real value of this store. Later, when you and I were fighting to change the decoration, I took the lead. When I heard you say that you should put the fitting room at the door, I said with a bad attitude that it would not work. How come? I killed you there and even gave you a chance to tell your thoughts and reasons. Later, I listened to your idea and measured the size. I regret that I didn't listen to your idea and spent so much money. As a result, it had to be reinstalled, and the person you were looking for helped. In order to save our money, save some money, you still owe others a favor. The result still failed to fight with you. Every time you mention decoration, I still quarrel with you, and I think it is reasonable for me to spend every day in the decoration site. Dirty and tired things, I will quarrel with you if I don't agree with your idea. In the end, I will feel very wronged, saying that I haven't opened a shop yet, and I haven't decorated so much, and I will make trouble with you unreasonably, which will make you more sad and pay so much, even if I don't get a little kindness from you, it will make you angry. I feel so sorry for you. I hope you won't forgive me, baby. I also learned from this that I am immature in my work, and I have no brains every time. Don't pay attention to occasions and discretion when talking and doing things. When I didn't finish listening to other people's words and ideas, I interrupted them and killed the baby's words. I don't respect you. I'm sorry, baby, so you're angry. You hit me, and I know I was wrong ~! Not anymore ~

5. Spending money recklessly, when quarreling with you, you were angry and ignored me, saying that you wanted to break up with me. What should I do when I have no choice but to be alone? Later, Alibaba called me and said that a small wholesale platform has been set up. Now when the second batch of Tong's members are recruiting, they ask me if I want to join them. I think about it. My money (from my parents), 2800 yuan,1100 yuan, is enough to pay the rent, utilities, 200 yuan and so on, and at least I can buy something to eat and drink. Seeing this opportunity, I thought it was very difficult to do business on Taobao, so I considered investing, put my last remaining money into it, and paid back 1500 yuan to overdraft card. After I registered Tong, I have one more thing that I have to do. I have to go to work every day, go to the store at night, and toss my two online stores when I get home. For money, I put my freedom. No time for you, negative assets and liabilities. This fully shows that I am a poor, reckless, immature and successful investor. I will not throw all my remaining assets out, or even let myself start a business with negative assets. It will be very tiring and there will be many opportunities to make money, so I shouldn't rush this moment, so I will revise my goal ~! But this incident also shows that I am immature and not responsible for the baby. When I have money, I can be confident and easy to talk and do things. Even if the money is used, I can get it back immediately, instead of throwing it into a bottomless pit like I do now. I don't know when I can get it back, and it is 2300/ 12 = 65438+. If you don't make money every month and spend your energy on it, it's unwise to spend 200 yuan in vain, so I also understand that my investment is immature, and my baby scolds me for thinking crazy about money ~!

6. I still say that the baby's words are poisonous and cruel. She hit me twice before. It's crazy. This is actually for my own good. As a result, I still quarreled with you, thinking that I was right and I did nothing wrong. I kept saying that I did all this for you, thinking that you were rude and unreasonable, and I would still do it every time. You broke your heart for our family. For this family, you have been deeply hurt by me. You have to forgive me, sympathize with me, love me, and pity me again. What have I done for you? I didn't bring you happiness and happiness, only hurt and heartache. I was wrong. I won't do it again. I was really wrong. You said a leopard cannot change his spots. I know. I know the truth. To put it bluntly, I am a fantasy perfectionist. Every time I do something, I feel so perfect and beautiful. When you really do it, you just walk around by your own temper. When I finished writing, I quarreled with you for my own reasons, which made you more angry and made your heart ache to the point where you could not stand it. You scold, you hit, you have a bad temper. The following is my personal plan for the future. If you have any questions, please ask my husband. I hope I can do better ~!

Plan: 1. The goal of the store should not be too perfect. The goal should start with the smallest. As long as it can support the wages of employees in the store and the demand for goods in the store, don't invest too much money or capital. Just try to roll it up. The most important thing at present is to recover the cost.

2. Taobao shop business, now slowly teach staff to complete some basic uploading materials and inventory inquiries, and can communicate well with customers, and strive to do online business when not online. When I get home, my task is to do a good job in after-sales work and do a good job in business with every old customer, so that they can bring more business every time I buy new goods.

3. Alibaba's business, now from the goods on Taobao, insists on passing 3-5 best-selling and most popular goods every day, uploading them at wholesale price, and recovering the losses of physical stores with maximum profit. Except for paying off some negative equity loans, all other deposits,

4. Go to work, now I am the production team leader. Busy work, overtime. Therefore, I should do my work carefully. I can't lose my job. According to the current situation, the salary expenditure can be operated on the salary of employees in physical stores, my personal rent and my living expenses.

If there is any change in the plan, we should discuss the countermeasures with the baby and mom and dad, and we can't go it alone and make decisions without authorization ~

Matters needing attention in future quarrels: 1. If you have any conflicts or differences with your baby at work or study in the future, don't quarrel with your baby again. Whether there is a reason or not, you should listen to the baby's opinion first and make a request on your own initiative. You shouldn't quarrel when listening to your opinion. When it's over, you should think it over. If you have any questions, you should also tell your baby in a discussion tone. Don't quarrel. Both parties must agree to the decision before it can be implemented, and there can be no excessive behavior.

If there is a quarrel, please refer to the first one above and add another one. If the baby gets angry during a quarrel. Be sure to come out as soon as possible to make the baby happy and don't make her angry again. Even if she is right and wrong again, she must wait until she is coaxed and happy, and puts forward my suggestion, or I let her listen to her suggestion and she agrees, so don't make her angry again.

At present, do the above two points first ~!

Personal future role: 1. Now we are still boyfriend and girlfriend, still dating, and we can't ask the baby to do anything. I will try my best to help her do it, help her realize it, and let her feel it with heart.

2. Business matters must be discussed with the baby. If in doubt, please refer to Precautions for Quarrel. Do a good job and learn to be mature. You can't go your own way and spend money lavishly. You should save money from saving a penny and learn to manage money.

3. Be kind to the baby, do everything well, let her feel with heart, let her walk happily with me, and don't hurt her again. In short, learn to take good care of the baby, care for the baby, and be sure to give her happiness ~!

The above unfinished matters must be done later. Please all friends who care about us supervise me together, and I will try my best to do it well. Please believe me, and I hope the baby can believe me. I will make you angry and won't let you scold me and hit me again. When I do, you will naturally be dead set with me. Start with every little thing around you, do it with your heart and do it slowly. I am serious about the mistakes I made before. Baby, I love you ~! I hope you can forgive me ~!