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A letter to a noisy neighbor
A letter to Fan, a noisy neighbor.
Two neighbors on the second floor:
Hello, guys. I am not welcome upstairs.
First, tell a story and introduce yourself.
You two really taught me. Being accused for the first time, I feel very curious. Because I don't understand it, I discussed it with my family, and I sincerely share some ideas with you.
Two generations of grandparents lived above my old house. During the day, two five-or six-year-old children were pushing their cars back and forth at home, laughing and laughing. The old man snores clearly at night. Old people get up at night and often kick down a few bottles on the way to the bathroom. The neighbor next door likes to quarrel in the early morning, which will obviously come into my dream; On weekends, there is a music lover downstairs. Dad likes singing Beijing opera, and mom is responsible for clapping her hands. My son in his twenties likes to keep repeating the same song, and it breaks every time, even at one or two in the morning, just like a cassette.
Whenever students hear the sound of carts upstairs and singing downstairs in class, they ask me why I didn't stop it. I told them that this is life. There should be laughter and abuse in life. Quarrel is sometimes a way for two people to get along and communicate their feelings; Moreover, each of us will get old, and each of us has a unique way of getting old, which we should appreciate, not hate; As for running and singing, it is a sign of happiness. Never interrupt when others are happy. Everyone's laughter deserves to be protected. what do you think?
Everything that happens around us has two sides. If you are tolerant, you will be free, not controlled by negative emotions, and not angered by the malice of others.
Second, what am I talking about? Be disturbed? Definition and solution of.
Whether you are right or not. Be disturbed? How is the acceptance? Let me talk about my previous community rights protection experience.
(1), the building is close to the street shop. At midnight, the sound of a chainsaw came from a newly renovated shop. I don't know why others put up with it, so I called the property management to solve it. But the other party refused arbitrarily, so I called the police and solved the matter in fifteen minutes.
The security door of the front building unit is broken, and there has been a low-frequency buzz, which is a headache. I found it when I was sleeping, and I also found a property maintenance solution.
At night, someone drank too much and smashed the unit door of a nearby building and kept ringing the doorbell of the security door. Directly call the police and be taken away.
If the other person doesn't mean it, but keeps talking loudly, then remind him politely. Nothing can't be settled through negotiation. If the other party is malicious and uncooperative, there is no need to get angry, giving birth to all kinds of negative emotions, not to mention confrontation, asking the third party to intervene and calmly deal with the problem.
If everyone is here? Rules? Range, so no matter what we ask, we need each other's cooperation, so we are grateful. We may be the center in our hearts and the protagonist. I'm going to take the college entrance examination, and I'm very important. I want to be protected and accepted. ? However, we also need to know that every year, every month and every day of anyone has passed and will never come again. Not only is our college entrance examination important, but other people's lives and lives deserve our respect.
Third, about the mother-daughter interaction in my family.
From this time on? Passive? In the process of communication, I remembered my story with my mother and told it to you.
When I was growing up, my mother took great care to avoid my worries in material life. But what about the senior high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination? Significantly? At that moment in my life, my mother never took part in it and played it down. Just a word? If you work hard, you will get something, and the rest is the inevitable result. ? When I was a sophomore, I was opposite our high school? Pipeline station? I lived in the old building area with a good little sister for one semester, and my mother only came once when she decided on the house. When I was growing up, my independence and confidence in life came from my mother? Let go? And timely affirmation and guidance.
I think if I live downstairs, at my fragile age of eighteen, I might go crazy because of insomnia. How will my mother react?
I guess she will tell me to calm down and teach me how to let go of selfish distractions. (I really cultivated my skills of reading while listening to songs in a noisy environment from an early age. Pay attention and don't be disturbed by foreign objects. Then, when I'm away, I'll ring the doorbell the next day to make sure it's convenient for the other party. If it's convenient, I'll introduce myself in person, get to know each other and chat. I didn't know this when I was a child, because my mother protected me well where I didn't know, and was strict with me where I knew. It was not until I grew up that I realized the wise mother's way of dealing with problems. Want to achieve the goal, let the other side put down some of themselves in our eyes? Tiny? When the other party considers that it may cause inconvenience to their own interests, it is indispensable to understand and cooperate with us, then the necessary etiquette, respect and steps are indispensable.
Afterwards, I asked my mother for verification, and she said that she would do it. ? In the face of children's complaints, I will not protect them, but let her learn to adjust herself. ? Why? Let me answer, because life is long and short, parents will not always protect their children with their bodies, but parents' education is a spiritual inheritance that will accompany their children for life. Let children choose to live in this unhappy and happy life and live better.
Four or four times, I had no time to react.
1
Before I moved back on the first day, I heard that all the tenants downstairs had moved away and no one lived, so I wanted to tidy up the clothes I just moved in. Because of the time difference between work and rest, the schedule is different from that of most traditional families in China. I was really scared when I heard the knock at the door. I'm very sorry to hear that I bothered you. But being knocked at the door in the middle of the night really didn't come back. I'm sorry if I don't have time. May I add a word here? sorry .
2
Inform workers who move furniture in advance to bypass noon time, so as not to affect others. However, the workers are also very hard and the schedule is very full. I didn't get what I wanted, and it came suddenly. So when I saw the sticker, I really felt sorry again. And according to the instructions on the note, I set the alarm clock at 12:30- 13:30 and 23:30 in the evening to remind myself not to make any big moves. It happens that I have been in contact with senior three students and their parents for ten years, and I understand the feeling of racing against time that I can't relax at this time. It must have been hard. I was ashamed.
three
At 23: 14, someone knocked at the door because of a sudden loud noise and slippers.
Response: ① It's not yet half past eleven.
② It is not a continuous sound. After all, mistakes are inevitable.
③ Walk normally and wear cotton slippers to cover your feet. This can't be compromised, otherwise we can't live a normal life.
four
TV music is too noisy.
Response: acceptable. But this is not the first time I have watched TV in my bedroom. The volume has always been like this, neither too big nor too small. If this matter affects you so much, why didn't you bring it up earlier? I can watch TV in the living room, or try to turn down the volume.
Verb (short for verb) ending
I think it is the best courtesy between us not to disturb each other.
If we hadn't knocked at the door in such a hurry in the middle of the night, maybe many things would have been solved very well. It should be you two who came to me rationally afterwards, and I don't need to go to great lengths to solve it now.
But you should put yourself in others' shoes. At this stage, you should be in a state of anxiety People who can go upstairs for three transgressions and five times to do this are also reasonable and well-intentioned, but the timing is wrong.
Because I have been accustomed to comity since I was a child, I am willing to take proper care of it? Vulnerable groups? Two people pretending to be themselves. But I want to show my attitude. I didn't make any noise intentionally or maliciously. Not only that, after the second complaint, my life is full of two people's shadows, and I am cautious in doing things. However, living in a building is not better than living in a single room. Just like a dormitory, making appropriate concessions to each other is a necessary life skill. This is not only to make others feel better, but also to make themselves comfortable, to be their own master, not to be influenced by emotions, and to act rationally.
You two have always asked for it. I hope you can comply with my only requirement, which is also the premise that I am willing to accommodate you: don't knock at night.
If you must communicate, please do it during the day. Don't open the door next time and refuse to communicate at your own risk.
My bottom line is that life can't offend people. Please respect.
I hope there will be no unpleasant consequences. After all, I have more time and patience than you. I hope to successfully complete the college entrance examination, and I don't need to change the top floor or single-family house before the college entrance examination. The cost is high and frustrating.
I hope you can understand my positive intention of doing this, and sincerely hope that there will be no next contact between us.
I wish the college entrance examination a success!
Your neighbor on the third floor
XX,XX,XX,XX
A letter to Fan, a noisy neighbor.
Dear neighbor:
Hello! I'm sorry to bother you. I really have to write this letter to you, please read it patiently, thank you!
We envy your hobby of playing flute. Compared with us busy office workers all day, I really envy you! Your flute is really good, but it sometimes bothers us. From Monday to Friday, we get up at 7 am and come back at 7 pm. Then we cook, wash dishes and clean. We go to bed after 1 1 and get up at 7 o'clock the next day. The total sleep time is less than 8 hours. But you like to play the flute at 5 o'clock in the morning. Although your flute sounds good, you really want to sleep for people who don't get enough sleep. It's hard to sleep late on Saturday and Sunday, but I also like to get up early and play the flute. I didn't sleep well in the morning and want to catch up on sleep in the afternoon, but sometimes you will be in high spirits in the afternoon. So please be considerate of the poor office workers and sincerely give you the following suggestions:
1. On weekdays (Monday to Friday), if you want to play the flute, please play the flute after 7 am;
2. On weekends (Saturday and Sunday), if you want to play the flute, please play the flute after 8 am and 2 pm.
Thank you very much for your cooperation, and I hope our neighbors can live in harmony, and everyone can understand and help each other. thank you
Your neighbor
XX,XX,XX,XX
Letter to noisy neighbor Fan Wensan
Dear neighbor:
I have long wanted to write you a letter, but I have not put it into action for various reasons. Today, I am studying at home to prepare for tomorrow's professional title exam, and the sound from all your rooms makes me unbearable. I moved my reading place from the living room to the bedroom and from the bedroom to the balcony, but I still couldn't hide it. Therefore, I am determined to write a letter to you.
We know very well that as long as people are alive, there will be voices. We don't want to and have the right to interfere in your life and change your lifestyle, but please don't disturb other people's lives. We went up to see you two or three times before, but we were actually reluctant. First, because you are about the same age as our parents, we junior three are embarrassed to lecture you. Second, I am also very concerned about the relationship between neighbors, and I don't want to make it stiff. However, there is a limit to human patience. We are not rude people. We just want to give you some meaning and suggestions, and hope you can improve.
1. You exercise at home on time every morning, 365 days a year. We don't know what equipment you are using, but the regular banging is annoying. You wake up early, but we have to work during the day and can't sleep for a while in the morning. After communication, you moved the exercise place from the bedroom to the living room and stopped running around the room. Although it was still noisy, we didn't say anything. However, I have been thinking, if you are so keen on morning exercises, why can't you go out to the park, climb mountains, run and breathe fresh air? Isn't that healthier?
There are various voices coming from your home at ordinary times. We can't tell where they came from, such as dragging benches, kicking slippers and throwing things. We just don't understand why we have to drag the table and stool. The kicking of slippers makes it easy for me to distinguish your walking route at home. In order not to affect the neighbors downstairs, we always use soft-soled slippers. This is a kind of respect and mutual understanding, isn't it? It is common to throw things, but it is difficult for us to understand the frequent and continuous throwing of things, so I hope everyone will pay attention to it as much as possible, and we are very grateful. In addition, you may feel that the sound is not loud. If you like, you can come down and experience it for yourself. We are always welcome.
We usually go to work, and there are not many people during the day, so I don't know what sounds you make on weekdays, and I don't have any opinions. But please pay attention to the rest time in the morning and evening, Saturday and Sunday. I said, please don't affect and disturb others' rest. Is this small request too much? You are a model, and educating students will also have such social morality education. We don't need to say anything here. As a parent, if such a thing happens to your children, and they work for a week and can't have a good rest during the break, will you also feel distressed and resent the people upstairs? Please put yourself in others' shoes!
4. I searched online for what to do if there is too much noise upstairs. In fact, many netizens have encountered the same problem and are very annoyed. They put forward many ideas, both peaceful and extreme. We hope to solve this problem peacefully. It's no big deal after all. As long as you pay more attention on weekdays, everything is not a problem. We are not timid people, nor are we incapable of swearing. The reason why we came up with this way to communicate with you is that we don't want to have quarrels and abusive scenes. I don't think you want your neighbors to quarrel every day about such a thing. We respect you and hope you will respect us as well. If you can't respect each other, in order to maintain the proper living environment and quality, you can't rule out using the methods taught by netizens, such as tying a radio to a telephone pole in the middle of the night and playing rock music by your bedroom window. No one needs to sleep. Find a life fax to find an evening paper. If it doesn't help to find the neighborhood Committee, you can call 1 10. Anyway.
Maybe you think we are too generous, but please believe that we have always done this for you. This is not a constraint on each other, but a voluntary habit, which is good for both people and themselves.
Anyway, we still hope to take care of each other and find a good way to get along. After all, being a neighbor is also a fate, and a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor. As a teacher, you should know better than us.
Finally, I sincerely wish everyone a happy life, good health and a happy family!
Your neighbor downstairs
XX,XX,XX,XX
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